Why are guys so nosy?

[phyllisisabelle]

You start having a nice chat with them and the next thing they are asking very personal questions of one's sexual past. Its not like they are ever going to meet the girl.

[capturemyheartnow]

if sex is part of the equation asking sexual questions isn't so bad. Because if he wants to have a relationship with you , he needs to make sure that your sexual past is not really bad. But if it hurts you , you can tell him that you need to talk on other topics first and keep the sexual questions for the last. You can set your own agenda of how you want to take the conversation forward. And if he is considerate enough to listen to what you say , then you need to keep talking.. Otherwise if you are feeling uncomfortable with him , he is not the man for you.

[phyllisisabelle]

We were just having a chat and the next thing I know he was wanting to know if I had any FWBs and how did I meet them and how often we had sex and on and on. Thats just being nosy and probably just wanting to get off reading what I said. I never planned on having anything with him other than a chat.

[capturemyheartnow]

Just like I am having a chat with you. I can't ask you about sex. I should know by boundaries. Communication is a two way thing , and both people need to be equally award of what the other person is here to talk to. Restrict yourselves to things that interest you and try to keep away topics that you don't want to touch upon. Chatting may not involve knowing you deeply inside out. Chatting can be just a way to getting to know a little about yourselves and not trying to get into each others pants mentally.

[capturemyheartnow]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Watsontaty]

My boyfriend at the time ( my husband now ) met in jail had all my passwords I always searched up this girl from my past relationship and he hit her up behind my back and FaceTimed her !! He had no business doing that !!! I till this day don’t know what really happened he’s in jail still by the way

[Watsontaty]

She was a girl my ex cheated on me with by the way

[peachblossomluck]

They are very controlling and insecure, and don't realize that they are destroying any possible chemistry that may develop between you by making themselves aware.

[Hans222]

I guess the timing is very important there: initially, when dating it's best to ask general things about what someone (dis) likes to to, eat, drink, visit, how you work out and so on.
Sexual habits should follow much later. I can indeed imagine that otherwise it feels like the person is very intrusive! :-(

[MichaelShapiro]

Pretty much what whatthefluff said... most guys are desperate and they use the fact that they will never ever meet you to ask personal sexually charged questions that they would never ask anyone in real life. Guys are pervs.

[TripleAce]

It's just a lot easier to be a creep on chat because you don't have to face her face to face and look like a complete douche bag doing it

[Sublime45]

Might as well get all the sexual questions out of the way, STDs is a serious thing.

[Dme500]

thise guys just want to fuck. if he was asking about you and your lively hood and how things are going then he wants to get to know you.

[Dumbbong]

Its not being nosy. they want to chat with you for asking those questions.

[Ruchit13567]

If you have any other intresting topic then ask. And if you don't like to talk about it then don't tell us. Straight as arrow

[Phoenix98]

Sounds like your just talking to the wrong guys.

[TallAnon]

Becausw girls want attention and they want nudes.

[Vinaysalecha]

Not all Boys are the same and not all are nosy.

[Whatthefluff]

They're desperate