Umm because that would make them a douche. And women don't like douchey guys. They take enough crap from other women. Women want guys to treat them like princesses, durrr.
Well. There is a difference between being honest and being a jerk.
As for straight-forward, that's great and all, but kind of boring. Where's the challenge? All you're going to attract with that is a girl who will use you for attention when other guys make her feel crappy about herself.
Well dude, I got u exactly what u meant. I am like u a bit. I am not expressive but whenever I express my feelings or deal with women I am honest in my approach. I don't like sugar coating & fake attitudes. I am also open about my sex desires too. For u I would say u better try to date honest women & be blunt but don't be too open bcz many women find it offensive if guys talk openly about things like if a man likes a woman's Butt, B**bs or being too fast towards sex etc. It can offend most women
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what exactly are you being honest about? her hair, her butt? the relationship? please elaborate. and give an example of what you said, because I just can't see why this is an issue. I prefer also a guy who says it like it is. saves time.
Not a specific moment or anything I said or did, just a general question I asked because when I go out I and socialize with women, they tend to be abrupted by these qualities that I have. Its like being blunt and honest puts them on the spot and women don't like that
Do you mean you are in an exclusive / commitment with someone and then you go out and flirt? then I'll have to agree with the ladies. but if not, and it's on those terms in agreement, I'd have to say why bother even telling them unless you're trying to hurt them or make them jealous?
Well no I just agree with you "it save time" and I don't like BS conversations. Nope not in any type of relationship and I'm not trying to hurt or make anyone jealous because that's a waste of time, I'm just a "to-the -point" type of guy.
because us girls wanna get straight to the point then rather wait for a long time to then get the answer...it also makes us trust and belive the guy and sumtimes it makes us want to stick around.
Lol luckily I believe in equality of opportunity and freedom then. cos I I'm sure if it werent for PC you would be getting trolled like a norwegian bridge in a fairy story.
nice name. you are black. well done. nice to know you got something going for you. now imagine if I made an account calling myself white superman. as for attacking pc ...hmmm kind of agree BUT PC is also what stops people getting abused racially. sexually and in terms of gender in work. so I agree with it in that context.
im about as honest and straightforward as you can get. and my GIRLFRIEND. LOVES it. she loves how I can just tell her how I feel, and such, so no the question is a generalization and it happens to be wrong
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well, the women you talk to are stupid lol there are sooooooo many girls tht are looking for guys like you lol
I like guys that are straight forward, but don't go out of their way to hurt other people with their comments.
Umm because that would make them a douche. And women don't like douchey guys. They take enough crap from other women. Women want guys to treat them like princesses, durrr.
what in the world are you talking about? lol I don't think you read this question
Well. There is a difference between being honest and being a jerk.
As for straight-forward, that's great and all, but kind of boring. Where's the challenge? All you're going to attract with that is a girl who will use you for attention when other guys make her feel crappy about herself.
Because there's a thin line between honest, blunt and straightforward and arrogant, rude and abnoxious
Nice answer. It makes sense and logic
Well dude, I got u exactly what u meant. I am like u a bit. I am not expressive but whenever I express my feelings or deal with women I am honest in my approach. I don't like sugar coating & fake attitudes. I am also open about my sex desires too. For u I would say u better try to date honest women & be blunt but don't be too open bcz many women find it offensive if guys talk openly about things like if a man likes a woman's Butt, B**bs or being too fast towards sex etc. It can offend most women
what exactly are you being honest about? her hair, her butt? the relationship? please elaborate. and give an example of what you said, because I just can't see why this is an issue. I prefer also a guy who says it like it is. saves time.
Not a specific moment or anything I said or did, just a general question I asked because when I go out I and socialize with women, they tend to be abrupted by these qualities that I have. Its like being blunt and honest puts them on the spot and women don't like that
Do you mean you are in an exclusive / commitment with someone and then you go out and flirt? then I'll have to agree with the ladies. but if not, and it's on those terms in agreement, I'd have to say why bother even telling them unless you're trying to hurt them or make them jealous?
Well no I just agree with you "it save time" and I don't like BS conversations. Nope not in any type of relationship and I'm not trying to hurt or make anyone jealous because that's a waste of time, I'm just a "to-the -point" type of guy.
Well I am all for it if you're not going out of your way to injure anyone. you should be honest.
because us girls wanna get straight to the point then rather wait for a long time to then get the answer...it also makes us trust and belive the guy and sumtimes it makes us want to stick around.
Too honest can verge on insulting.
Too blunt can verge on impolite.
Solution: when you have offended someone with your honesty or bluntness, try to be more tactful and less honest.
Good-ass question... wish people wouldn't be so PC, overly nice... People SHOULD be somewhat transparent and blunt...
Thank you superman......finally a real man that can understand the value of bluntness
Yup...
Lol luckily I believe in equality of opportunity and freedom then. cos I I'm sure if it werent for PC you would be getting trolled like a norwegian bridge in a fairy story.
nice name. you are black. well done. nice to know you got something going for you. now imagine if I made an account calling myself white superman. as for attacking pc ...hmmm kind of agree BUT PC is also what stops people getting abused racially. sexually and in terms of gender in work. so I agree with it in that context.
Ok DJ... *SHRUGS*
im about as honest and straightforward as you can get. and my GIRLFRIEND. LOVES it. she loves how I can just tell her how I feel, and such, so no the question is a generalization and it happens to be wrong
first of all what are you talking about? (what are you being honest about?)
Just honest with my intentions/perspectives/thoughts basically everything, specially all the things others hold back when first meeting someone.
Most guys lik that tend to be rude... Just because your honest doesn't mean your nice ... You speak your mind with out sayin rude insulting comments
I heard that if you ask every girl at the club if they wanted to have sex with you straight up, you'd find one by the end of the night.
:/ as you become the most desperate person in the building
Lol not if you are basically telling them they are worth more than you everytime. its kinda like saying to strangers can I borrow ten dollars.
because sometimes it can come across as being rude, you have to know the limits! :)
Good answer. U got sense in it (y)
there is a difference between being honest and having no tact dude
Women like guy, who can play with their feelings, who can break their hearts, who can treat them as disposable.
Strange isn't it.....I just don't get it!
im not sure a lot of girls are just weird like that. I want an honest guy though.
Yeah, I'm confused, most women like straightforward guys. I don't like arrogant know-it-alls, but someone who is blunt and to the point is sexy to me.
Please don't stop being honest! There should be more people like you! xx