My boyfriend punched a guy for talking me. Is it a red flag? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2017-09-17T19:39:27Z

I never had a guy who was possessive of me or jealous when other guys talked to me. So when I started dating my boyfriend Ben it was cute to me. I won't lie he got jealous really easily but I always used to think it was a sign he really cared. He wasn't ever aggressive towards me so i didn't see it as abusive behavior, he would just get mad or defensive if other guys tried to talk to me or about me. I thought it just meant he liked me a lot. But a while ago he scared the shit out of me when a guy asked me on a date. Of course I said no, I have a boyfriend. He persisited but it wasn't anything serious, it was just talk. Ben came out if nowhere and pushed the guys head down and was telling him he would beat the shit out of him. It was not even that serious and I really felt like Ben was bullying the guy more than anything. I told him to just let the guy go, he was just a teenager anyway. He was like 18. Im 20, I dont date younger guys. But Ben had him pinned and at first the guy was just saying let him go and stuff, but he called Ben a name and so Ben punched the guy. And that really scared me because I never saw him act like that or make such a big deal out of a guy simply flirting with me. That was so uncalled for and I was mad. I'm not scared of Ben, he never hit me or called me a name, he never was violen towards me at all. But he is violent and aggressive to other people. Like he is a bully.

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Italiangirl5 Follow
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Its not a red flag, i wouldn't be worry.
My boyfriend is possessive af and we have a great relationship.

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- bisha12
  
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  You are okay if your boyfriend hit other people or beat them?😑😑😮😑
  
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- vertical69
  
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  Get out while you have time and don't continue with this type of individual
  
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- bisha12
  
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  What do you mean by that
  
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ThatGuy73 Follow
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Unfortunately, it must be seen as a red flag. A little jealousy goes a long way and when it manifests violence, time to cut ties.

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24lonewolf Follow
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Yes, red flag. He has control and anger issues, in time, it will be directed at you

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Anonymous
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Why he hurt that little boy that's not good! He needs to stop that!

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- Uhhjsshshdh
  
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  18 is a little boy?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  @Uhhjsshshdh yes! he's just a baby you monster 😡😡😡😡
  
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Anonymous
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Everybody gets a little jealous sometimes, but people that can't control their own temper are a danger even if they're your boyfriend.

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vertical69 Follow
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Wow
I can't believe this site and my Ass is definitely deleting all

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Anonymous
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It's going to get worse from here. Eventually he's going to get more controlling, possessive and won't allow you to have male friends. Be cautious.

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Cammy137 Follow
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Definitely a red flag

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Ash_Love18 Follow
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Honestly, No, love him even more

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- bisha12
  
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  Have you lost your mind
  
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- Ash_Love18
  
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  @bisha12 yeah pretty much
  
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- Ash_Love18
  
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  show him love, show him how to feel other than angry
  
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Mr-Kabuki Follow
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HUGE RED FLAG. DUMP DUMP NOW.

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reptocarl Follow
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Big red flag

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mikeoxbig4u Follow
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No... i would do the same

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bisha12 Follow
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Your boyfriend is an asshole

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Liquid_Ocelot Follow
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lol he probably watches porn

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Anonymous
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yeah, that's def. a red flag

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IHateBeingaMan Follow
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what is his age?

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Lumberman53 Follow
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He sounds jealous

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