message him about the same amount he msgs you. You can start the convo, just don't message him repeadedly when he doesn't respond, it's annoying. I like girls to message me because it feels like I have value and the girl wants me/ likes me. If I have to do all the initiating, all the pushing, all the work, it doesn't feel very good emotionaly. It feels like she doesn't want me. If you always wait for the guy, you are just depriving yourself. I like when a girl knows when to be forward/aggressive/persistant, and when to let the guy lead. I personally don't like how most girls won't message first. Its like they expect him to, which is counter productive, especially if he is shy or busy or distracted in some way, If you like the guy, make it known to him, just don't over do it.
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Probably doesn't know what to say first. Don't worry about it he'll get more comfortable as time passes.
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