Can I ask a guy to netflix and chill?

[newbie2015]

My new guy of 3 months has been having a bitch of a month. Like seriously, its been super bad. I hate being agressive and ususally let him "come to me" and make all plans.

His son is causing him so much stress. I'd love to see him but also don't want to add to his stress. Would it be totally too forward to text him amd propose after his son leaves for an event this evening for me to bring over some sushi and nextflix and chill for a few hours in the boys absence? I mean, he needs destressing. Too forward? Do I come off as chasing or deaparate?

[MrMysteryMan]

No way. I love when a woman actually invites me to something. It shows interest and that they actually want to hang out with me as opposed to me having to hope that they are free every time I propose something.

[WalterRadio]

Um, since you are over 25, you might just say, "Why don't you come over on __ night. Bring your toothbrush."

[momo770]

Don't ask others, be instinctive. Tc

[AustinTXGuy]

you've been together for three months, it's ok to propose that as long as it's not the first time you'll be sexual together. He will probably like the fact you express that desire. Sends only good messages

[Billyscotter]

I really don't think he'd be offended or creeped out. 3 months is long enough. It sounds like a normal date. Most guys would be comfortable watching Netflix and chilling earlier than 3 months, thrilled even.

[TadCurious]

If I were your boyfriend I would really, really, really appreciate that on your part. You sound really caring.

[CrazyIsRelative]

Unless they're uber religious, pretty much any guy would be pleasantly surprised and delighted.

[jacquesvol]

Pay attention: don't invite Weinstein or Trump or Bill Cosby.

[Wally48]

You sound like wife material to me! Very thoughtful and kind.

[Andyfitzgerald]

I dont see a problem with it
That would be like asking a dude out, you totally can

[thechico79]

No, he will appreciate that a whole lot. It shows him that you care for him. More times than not he will agree to it.

[Anonymous]

As long as you actually mean, netflix and chill, not, "netflix and chill", if you know what i mean. sometimes we really do just want to "netflix and chill"

[garrek42]

I would love getting that question after a few bad days

[Wesley_5577]

I think it's an awesome idea. You sound like a good girlfriend

[georgespr]

i think ur fine. just lets him know ur looking for some chill time alone

[Tyberius]

Tell him to come over and that you have a surprise for him.

[rico99]

Look him in the eyes and tell him you want him see what he says

[Anonymous]

If I was him I would definitely b down for a Netflix night and sushi. It is nice to stay n and relax.

[Anon-ymous1]

What's wrong with that? Emphatic yes, go for it.

[zach3ry]

You come off as an angel

[VladDracula]

Why should you come off as that?

[Groisu]

Nah go for it guys love a sexy surprise

[Goodwifie]

Have fun missy