@rocksongwriter He plays in a rock band in my country and wants a girlfriend who will do drugs, get drunk, smoke etc. Someone who will fit into the rock n roll thing. My problem is I want a job, I want financial security and I want stability. We couldn't give each other what we wanted anymore..
I'm kinda the same way when it comes to financial security and stability. Ity's probably why I have a government job. I've played in rock bands before and done shows, but I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs.
How's it going with your current guy? Any improvement in your situation?
If you catch him staring at your lips, he wants to but doesn't know the right moment to do it. If we look at your lips, it means we want to, so, try to see if you're getting eye contact or if he's looking a little lower
I am constantly trying to initiate. I pay for most of our dates and am the one having to initiate texting most of the time. I feel like the least he can do is to make the first move physically. I feel like it is a 2 way street. I cannot be the only one doing initiating :/
He doesn't want anything sexual yet either you are okay with that or you are not. If you aren't make a move or tell him to directly so if he's not interested enough you can move on.
Do you want to be happy or just care about opinions? If it is important to you then don't be shy.. it wouldn't seem that way. But do it gradually, carefully smoothly
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Rather, the question is, do you guys look at the world in the same way?
There's clearly a difference, but if your ready to compromise make the move.
You need to kiss him, men aren't going to read your mind maybe throw the hints or strong signals his way.
You had an another boyfriend a few months ago. What happened to him?
He broke up with me. I wasn't "cool" enough to fit in with his lifestyle anymore.
I have read your sharings on this site and you were always kind and wise. I think he was not lucky to have you, don't mind.
Thank you <3 It's been hard but I am okay :)
i hope you will be very happy with the true person for you and sing this to him;)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EOEeN9NmyU8
Did you listen the song? If you listened, did you like?
In what way were you not cool enough to fit in with his lifestyle?
@msg812 I love that song!!! :P
@rocksongwriter He plays in a rock band in my country and wants a girlfriend who will do drugs, get drunk, smoke etc. Someone who will fit into the rock n roll thing. My problem is I want a job, I want financial security and I want stability. We couldn't give each other what we wanted anymore..
I'm kinda the same way when it comes to financial security and stability. Ity's probably why I have a government job. I've played in rock bands before and done shows, but I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs.
How's it going with your current guy? Any improvement in your situation?
@XRabbitHeartX is your zodiac sign capricorn or taurus?
Nope pisces
If you catch him staring at your lips, he wants to but doesn't know the right moment to do it. If we look at your lips, it means we want to, so, try to see if you're getting eye contact or if he's looking a little lower
May be he's shy enough to take the initiative. I think you should take the step.
I am constantly trying to initiate. I pay for most of our dates and am the one having to initiate texting most of the time. I feel like the least he can do is to make the first move physically. I feel like it is a 2 way street. I cannot be the only one doing initiating :/
Do you think he is sexually attracted to you. Does he compliment your body?
Probably you could initiate physical contact with him which might make him confident.
I do not feel like he is sexually attracted to anyone tbh due to his religious views... 🤣
Then probably you should dump him and date any other guy.
Don't be in an emergency mode madam.. wait for great things to happen..
Sure its normal. He respects you and doesn't want to ruin his chances. Probably not 100% sure you would welcome it, if you are shy
If he is shy
He doesn't want anything sexual yet either you are okay with that or you are not. If you aren't make a move or tell him to directly so if he's not interested enough you can move on.
maybe you are far more attractive than his other girlfriends and make him nervous.
Be patient, gal, you guys are still at the beginning, maybe he wants to save the kiss after marriage
Perhaps he's waiting for you to take initiative, if you don't like that: next
Seems that’s his personality not an attraction problem. Once it clicks it will last longer !!
Have you thought of taking the initiative? If he is that introverted he might need a cue.
He's either really shy or he's not into you.
I think he likes you, and is really shy
Maybe he likes to take things slow
Yeah that is what I was thinking too :P Thanks for the input
No Problemoo
Maybe it's his shyness?
Have you asked him why?
No. I am worried that I will come off as desperate or clingy if I ask him? Or would it not seem that way?
Do you want to be happy or just care about opinions?
If it is important to you then don't be shy.. it wouldn't seem that way. But do it gradually, carefully smoothly
Okay thank you so much for the advice 😙
Best of luck dearie
Yeah he's not into you.
Maybe he is to shy to make the first move