My crush makes jokes about me being too short. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

He knows I like him but he rejected me a few months ago because I'm short... My friends told me that he likes me because he is always looking at me but I doubt it cause everytime I'm around him he is flirting with other girls...

[netkoN]

He is just teasing you, most probably because you react in a way he likes (for example he thinks you are cute when you make a face after he tells you shorty or something), now as to what to do I'm not sure, there is no obvious sign he likes you or doesn't as a girl, maybe he isn't flirting with other girls but just talking. Usually I would tell you to ask him, but you already did, so I think you should ask one of your girl friends to ask him seriously

[Anon-ymous1]

Hmm. That's weird because generally we like girls to be short. I would say completely ignore him, like don't talk to him or text him or call him or anything, and guess what? He'll come back and ask why you haven't been paying attention to him. Trust me. Good luck.

[Asker]

anyway, I already did that :))

[btbc92]

So then why are you still crushing on him and not moved on? He's making fun of you. Isn't that enough proof for you to not like him like that anymore? Him looking at you doesn't mean he likes you. That's immaturity best left in middle school. It's very clear that he's mocking you. I suggest you don't listen to her and be careful what advice she gives you. You know he doesn't like you and he rejected you.

[bobnvagene62]

Bit cruel there

[btbc92]

@bobnvagene62 Truth is truth. She has to hear it. I'm not being cruel, but she has to wake up now before she grows up into a bitter woman or desperate depressed girl looking for love in all the wrong places. How do you think this starts?

[btbc92]

Because she's seeking validation from a guy who doesn't give a crap.

[bobnvagene62]

@btbc92 I guess you're right in a sense.

[btbc92]

@bobnvagene62 I know because I ended up bitter due to poor experiences. It took me 19 years of my life to realize what it was doing to me. Making me sick. She's very sensitive. So I'm warning her now because it sounds like her friends ain't going to do it or look out for her. Sounds like their either obvious to what's really going on, or sadly, they know and playing with it. It's sad.

[Pinay_ako]

when a guy pokes fun at you it is because he likes you unless he is a jerk. my crush used to make fun of me about me being short meanwhile he was jerking off to me. he told me afterwards hahahah when he confessed to me he likes me :D

[Asker]

wow... you're lucky I guess :))

[BikerGirl89]

I would make jokes about myself. When you make fun of yourself and laugh, its not fun for him anymore and he will stop.

[ouroborosidiot]

Or a good laugh may actually bring people closer..

[Chanel1981]

Not much you can do about your height, I wouldn't worry

[DaveP_]

Hey, don't worry. There are guys who like short girls ;) I am one of these

[Asker]

Yeah... I know, but not him :(

[DaveP_]

Maybe he doesn't mean it like that and only wants to tease you a bit. Just to flirt with you?
And if not.. why do you care? If he really means it then he doesn't deserve you right?

[Asker]

Right...

[SebShaw82]

He's a dick for treating you like you're not worthy just because you're short. You should have said your lack of height matches him in the trouser department.

[Asker]

lol this was good =))

[getfragged1]

Im gunna be honest, if a girl was everything a guy wanted and the only thing "wrong" with her was that she was too short, it wouldn't be a problem for 99% of men. Im guessing there is another reason

[ItsYaBoiGuzma]

He may think it’s cute. I tease my girlfriend about being short all the time. She’s freaking adorable.

[Detemer]

Your friends might be messing with you.
If he clearly rejected you, then forget him and move on.
Cz if he is judging u based on your height, it means the guy is insanely superficial!

[MiamiMadness]

If he doesn't appreciate your short ass then trust me, there are plenty of guys who love that. You don't need him

[Annoymous08]

he's a player n you deserve better. Move on. I know cuz im the exact same type. I jus dont get girls liking me nor do i lead em on. So move on while you got the chance

[WalterRadio]

Maybe he really doesn't like you, and that is the best reason he can come up with.

Just find someone else.

[Blackmoonsns]

He is trying to make you jealous. He is trying to get a rise out of you so you will watch im. Im joking about you to test you, and how you feel about him.

[anmari2001]

if a guy rejects you only because you are short, is he worthy?

[jello933]

If he’s flirting with other girls it means he doesn’t like you.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Since he rejected you because of your height and is more interested in others when you are around means you keep on walking and look else where. He is not worth your time.

[LMSwastheanswer]

Forget about him, he is not attracted to you. Next time try falling for a guy who is not as tall.

[Asker]

It's funny how he isn't so tall ;)

[LMSwastheanswer]

How tall is he and you?

[Asker]

I'm 1.63, he is 1.74

[LMSwastheanswer]

This is weird, he is like perfect height for you. He is a short guy but he rejects you for being too short. This is ridiculous.

[Asker]

Ikr :))

[LMSwastheanswer]

Maybe he is just not into you. He chose the most ridiculous excuse to reject you so that you are not hurt.

[Asker]

By the way... he didn't say that to my face. He said that to my best friend

[LMSwastheanswer]

Are the girls who he flirts with tall? If no, then he is really not into you. If yes, then he is really some tall-chaser.

[Asker]

Yes, they are taller than me

[LMSwastheanswer]

Then he might just be into taller girls. You don't have a chance really.

[Crazy_Wolfgang]

he's obviously not into you, and guy who cares for looks (height specifically) enough to reject you--you should not waste time with him, be friends and find other dude, maybe if he sees you with other guy he will realise some things

[teeteewoo]

Girl, he rejected you. Who needs him? Move on and keep your dignity intact instead of wasting over someone who already told you they don't want you. There's no ifs and buts about a guy maybe liking you when he already rejected you.

[LLawliet_]

If the jokes make you feel bad, you should ask him to stop. If he doesn't take you seriously then he doesn't care how you feel and you should probably spend less time with him.

[Kingsthings]

That good things about being short is that when you hit them with your knee it hits right where it hurts the most, so next time he makes that joke hit him with your knee.

[Anonymous]

Very easy. Tell him short girls like you usually attracts guys like him.
Or
Guys like him usually find short girls like you super attractive.

[lolalive]

Height means nothing but how tall are you? X

[Asker]

1.62

[Odysseas]

and how tall is he?

[Asker]

@Odysseas 1.74

[Odysseas]

Hmm, that's weird.. I thought that he was something like 180-190 and he didn't want to have a big height difference with his potential girlfriend (he shouldn't mocking you though for that). 1.74 is taller than you, buy in a good way, I mean he is not that much taller, you are at a perfect height for him. I am going to ask you a personal question now (If you don't want to give the info, is totally ok). Do you live in a Scandinavian country?

[Odysseas]

but*

[Asker]

@Odysseas No =))

[Odysseas]

I understood the No part. The =)) is quite unclear to me. If I have to give it a try, I would say the it seems like a Hitler stache with a double chin..! :P Anyway, don't bother with this guy, there are much better guys out there to choose from.

[Anonymous]

why the fuck did they invent high heels

[Asker]

Am I supposed to wear high heels in high school? ... bc I'm 16 yo...

[Opinion Owner]

No!.. you don't need to just stay away from your crush!..

[ferma]

Leave him 🙄 short girls are the best ☺️

[Anonymous]

Doesn't look like he is interested in you,. Crushes are annoying lol

[QueenofCups]

Some guys make fun of the girls they like.

[jacquesvol]

Too short, huh? My wife is under 5 ft.

[Mxdude]

Find a new crush. This one sounds like a asshole