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Do you think men are still gentlemen these days? (Page 4)
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Not all my. friend (who’s a guy) hits me, punches me and kicks me l, but like it a playful way he’s not a gentleman at all
I think the concept of men being gentlemen was burried long ago with the act of chilvary in medieval times.
What is chivalry?
It means behaviour of knights
at least more or less. But only the good stuff they did
we do exist, but the current decline in American woman has made anything even remotely romantic or even flirty a risky move. this decline is largely granted to social justice.
Yes but it depends on how the lady wants to be treated. If she is looking to hook up then she will not get the 5 star treatment.
Most guys don’t get raised right now days so it’s hard for them to be gentlemen when they know they can sleep around with as many girls as they want or do what ever they want but maybe there is a 1% of gentlemen in this world
The same for woman
I think women get raised to not sleep around well I was raised like that
Simple answer is look around you and u will see.
In order to get a diamond you have to mine it... the diamond will not come to you just like that
they will be if you insist on it. You tend to get treated in the manner you expect. Not always, but in general.
Depends on the definition but as a blanket statement based on the majority? Nah, they aren't. And women aren't "ladies" anymore so whatever. The times they are a changin
It just depends on the guy. I've seen guys at my school push and scream at girls and I've also had guys be super nice to me so you can't really go off of generalizing..
I use to be, but considering how awful women are these days, thanks to feminism and the brainwashing of the media, I no longer treat women with respect. Women are the ones who killed chivalry.
Fortunately u r in the minority
@britpop Well more and more men are embracing my way of thinking. Eventually the majority will become like me.
Ok if you say so
@britpop I do :)
Ok good luck anyway obviously I disagree
I totally agree you are the honest guys in here who don't lick ass to woman. Lol
I don't know but I don't and im a straight woman
Feminist + lazy millennials men who think they are entitled to live with their parents rest of their lives. Ruined manhood as we use to know it.
Wot even is a feminist in ur view? Extremists in all forms are too much but men like u that moan about women taking while trying to prevent them making are worse
I am not here to define feminism to you. I am sick of woman defending b. s
I am sick of men blaming feminists for there own shortcomings
I agree as well, most men think like this tbh. At least the smart ones.
Aka single ones 😂😂😂
No, not the single ones... Unfortunately handsomeguy500 is right. Certain third wave feminists are running your rep. They're very self centered and pushy. They think their ideals are right and they dont treat us males with the respect we deserve. Chivalry isn't being lost, it's being destroyed.
I agree some feminists go way over line but that's some girls not all women
That's why I didn't state all women. However they are running your reputation. Look at all these other people's comments and opinions. They all state the same logic and knowledge.
Not anybody I know male or female im not responsible for the entire world women bashing makes you happy enjoy your self
Its not woman Bashing it's reality. Welcome to Earth snow flake
@Valiric britpop is from the UK, like me. And trust me, women in the UK are some of the worst women in the world. They are an embarrassment.
Haha get a grip the self professed handsome guy lives in the U. K. and can't get a girlfriend so we're the worst hahaha
That what you would like to believe lol.
Ask Donald Trump. Lol
Liberal snowflakes... *Sigh*
Yeah ok cos he's really relevant with his one term and a glorified prostitute as a wife on your way single little boy
I ain't liberal or a snow flake I don't melt under pressure like u
How do you know I'm single? I've been in a relationship for a solid 2 weeks now *Humph*
2 weeks u go stud pmsl
Tyvm 😁 it's a rebound. Kinda got messed up when my girlfriend let our relationship go after 4 years.
Im sorry to hear that but please don't blame all girls for that good luck
Vallric u don't need a girlfriend to be happy. You need to get rich they will chase you
@britpop At this moment I'm not interested in having a girlfriend. And I certainly don't want a girlfriend from the UK. This may come as a shock to you but not every man is so desperate to go out with a British woman.
The right ones won't
It doesn't come as anything to me do what u like just don't blame a 17 year old English girl for how your life has gone pathetic individual
@britpop I blame feminism and western women in general.
That's pretty pathetic I guess you're a Muslim not use to a woman speaking back eh well get used to it
Religion has nothing to do with being anti feminist. Its common sense woman been abusive to men's rights.
Lmmfaoo
I laugh at me2 campaign am sexist
I'm not a muslim. I just tell the truth about western women. But the way the UK is going it will eventually become a muslim country within the next 50 years. Get use to it.
Hahaha that's hilarious keep hating douches
Western have more issues to worry about like brain washing young woman to empower themselves and lose their real femininity. Become lesbians and bisexuals. God help them.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You will thank us when your man comes home smelling a like female deodorant. Cause his been cheating on you with a woman that actually takes care of his needs. Lol
@britpop When Islam takes over the UK just think how oppressed women will be hahahahaha
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Pmsl
@britpop I hate Islam but the one good thing it will eventually do is put women back in their place again and stop them being whores.
What did Islam do to you. Woman took my jobs I can't find work. If i do find work because woman I have to be a pleasure my female boss bitch cause with her PMS it means u won't get a raise. Wow they ruined what Western life used it be. Make Europe great again. Make woman stay home and pay them. LoL
Pathetic but amusing thanks
How much will it take to make you stay home? Name your price?
Haha im not easily brought but good luck with your cunning plan
I think there lot of gentlemen. it takes depends on Ur thinking whether he is perfect or not. even of u found him don't act too smart😂
No, guys/men don't really act like gentlemen these days, but I can say the same for girls/women not being a respectful girl and or lady-like... It's rare nowadays in my opinion.
Many at least try to be? The judgmental decision on what is considered a gentleman varies on the place and vantage point of the judge.
I know I tried to be a gentleman man.. But ended up being the jerk anyway.
Not a complete jerk, but a jerk.
Actually, there are some.
But honestly, most girls treats bad the good guys.
I am gentleman, but only for a girl who deserves it
Well maybe not all men but I try to be a gentleman and treat women with the same respect as I would like to be treated
Depends upon the place and situation... i can be a gentleman at places when not with my friends 😂
Lol they ruin it
I don't know about other guys but I’m a gentleman doors held open and I’m always paying I’m the type to wake you up with coffee and breakfast
I think a lot of men and boys think if themselves as gentlemen, but use kind of a poor understanding of the concept.
No. Absolutely not. Evidence: they elected our pussy-grabbibg douchebag president. A gentleman would not vite for such a douchebag.
But.. rich guys have been groping & raping women for thousands of years. Also lots of people did not vote for Trump... this is not a partisan statement. Just saying.
Very few, but its rare.
I know I can treat a girl right like a gentlemen should, if I was given a chance which would be nice.
It definitely depends on how they were raised and how they want to be. Sadly men are almost always honest about what they want and how they see the person they are interested in. Some guys are just dicks because they want to be.
I am, given half a chance. But more often than not, end up being faced with such butch women that nothing in gentleman's vocabulary or collection of behaviours applies - you can either slap them back (emotionally) - or avoid them.
A gentleman is a man who treats any woman with respect and dignity, even when he knows she's a cunt.
No
That's sexist
Oh, wow. How?
I can't speak for other men, but I'm typically a gentleman. I don't claim to be some sort of knight in shining armor or anything, but I always treat people with respect as long as they respect me in kind, and that seems rather gentlemanly to me.
It is still critical to be a gentleman to your lady because i operate under the attitude treat others how you wanna be treated and i say if you teat your lady like a princess they will treat you like a prince and therfore the kingdom stays strong
Yes however with radical feminism being what it is being a gentlemen is something most gents like myself are scared of showing due to people biting our heads about how women should be empowered and equal
A kiss on the hand: outdated? ↗
That's what I asked too! Kind of..
There are plenty of gentleman around today, and always will be. However, many women tend to fall for the non-committing bad boy, not the gentleman.
I've met both sides of this persona, the gentleman and the not so much.
Yes, there are some left. It's a treat now to encounter one.
nope no were near as much as they used to be. I prefer older men as some still hold this down.
We want to be, but feminism killed every purpose for being a gentleman.
I don't and nobody i know wants to be so please use "I" and now "we"
not*
'Gentlemanism' is also about how men interact with men
No that is called respect
Is respect not ine major detail of g'men? Overall, I find it rather a life style than occasional behaviour. One can be all by oneself and still act like a g'man.
Is respect not ine major detail of g'men?
No, no it is not
respect
admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
Not
admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their gender.
We are not eaven talking about respect here those people dont respect themselves or the woman since respect is that you admire a person "g men" dont do this the belive that they must care for these woman
open doors for them (because you are a lower class citizen),
walks closest to the curb (coz you are a male so you deserve to get splashed and to stay closer to the traffic, debris, puddles and other urban calamities),
gives her his jacket (because who gives a shit if he is gets cold or sick, certainly not him),
helps a lady with her coat (since you are her servant because she is female),
(1/2)
(2/2)
gives up his seat (who gives a shit if you ware there first or if you dont want to stand... you are a man so man up and give her a seat!),
helps her to be seated (because agein you are her servant and a lower class citizen),
And my personal favourites
Never hits a woman. Ever.
(because who cares if she is drunk and attacks you or if she thinks you are cheating (wich you are not) so she attacks you or if you make a joke she does not like so she slaps you a real gentlemen will never defend himself or retaliate because he deserves to be beaten up),
And of course he must pay for everything always
Do i... eaven need to say anything here?
Do these people sounf like they have any respect for themselves or the person they are with? No they certainly dont respect themselves and they feel that they must serve the other person (not respect but serve)
Overall, I find it rather a life style than occasional behaviour.
With this i completely agree
3/2 i guess
One can be all by oneself and still act like a g'man.
I had to google ondself since i do not know what it means (english is my 4th language)
Oneself
used to emphasize that one does something individually or unaided
I agree... of course you will do everything by yourself who's gonna help you? And dont forget besides doing something for yourself you have to do it for every woman you see:)!
In my view, there is more about being a gentleman than only nice manners towards ladies ( and girls, too - for that matter). As examples: to keep your promises, to be reliable and stable, to 'do the right things'.
That is called honer
And honour is not one part of the bigger picture? I mean, that 'outside' behaviour and manners originate from inner values. If these values are absent, the manners become meaningless. They would be a show only; acting. If I were not right here, we would be able to train an ape - and it will be a gentleman.
And honour is not one part of the bigger picture?
In a sense it is... but they are not doing it because they have some sort of inner values or are honorable people but because they think they have to because of the other persons gender
I mean, that 'outside' behaviour and manners originate from inner values.
No, not thet do not
If these values are absent, the manners become meaningless.
The manners never had a meaning in the first place... They dont do it because they have some sort of inner values or are honorable people but because they think they have to because of the other persons gender
The values are just something they think they have to do besides treating yourself like trash and a lover class citizen
They would be a show only; acting.
I think these people honestly belive they are lover class citizenes
If I were not right here, we would be able to train an ape - and it will be a gentleman.
you theoretically could, but you can do a lot of thing theoretically... if you gave an ape a pen and paper and with enough time he will draw an exact replica of the mona lisa
That is what I mean. The ape would NOT be an artist. Creativity is missing.
The same way these people do honorable things but are not honorable people they do it becausr they think they have to... not because its the honrable thing to do
Exactly my thinking
My boyfriend is a perfect gentleman.
When he's not being an ass 😂😂😂
I think some are but I would like to say it probably depends on the guy
So so some are ur normal pricks that girls go for but there are still a few gentlemen that look after u
Such rare specimens do exist, but as I said... Are rare :)
My mama raised me to be a gentleman. But the "girls" today don't appreciate it.. The "ladies" these days that do are hard to find.
It depends on the guy. Some (a lot) are, but there are quite a few who just aren't
There are still some gentlemen in the same way there are still some ladies but the majority of men and women find it easier to put in less effort and that seems to be more popular.
I try my best to be, I respect women, and I treat them as such
I just try to be cordial and respectful of anyone, man or woman. I expect to be treated at least fairly back
No but feminism is to blame for that. Gentlemen typically get shit on by younger women.
I think people still have manners, yes. But not all, obviously.
Yes, & I was raised by my grandfather & spent lots of childhood around elderly people so I'm one of them but on very many occasions I've been told by various women that I'm too polite
gentlemen like in the old movies are rare but still exist. and there are plenty of men considered gentlemen just different. it all depends on how you look at it
Why be gentleman you just be used, abused and thrown away when she done with you lol. Don't even open that door you will regret " believe me" as Trump says lol.
I like to think that I'm one. I will say that the principles and virtues I hold are definitely not common; women have lowered their standards and men have adapted accordingly.
Some of us are. When ever I have a relationship everyday is like a first and I still hold the door open and do small special things to show woman I appreciate them
My opinion is that men are not gentlemen these days and there not taught to be. I enjoy being a gentleman myself and was taught that women are to be respected and taken care off above all else
I've been called a gentleman, but I just see it as being a decent human being. I don't think people with manners should fit into the category of gentleman, seems too gratifying for basic decency.
100% agree with this one.
I am, gallantry is still relevant. But it has to adapt to women who aren't the "weak gender" anymore, like you could say in the past. Gallantry must not feel like chains.
Yes, we just prefer giving a chance for equality. Men have opened doors for both Men and women, and for the longest time, women expect meant to do that for them. Now women are given the opportunity to open doors for both men and women.
Wich is a reason I dislike automatic doors. I like opening doors for people especially a woman weather she's single or has kids with her. Weather it be opening doors for a stranger out of niceness and respect or I'm doing it for a woman I'm interested in or dating I think we have lost a lot with automatic doors it takes a opportunity away for a man who take pride in being a nice guy and Gentleman.
The last time I opened a door for a woman she looked at me like she had never had a man open a door for her she looked surprised , puzzled and thankful all at the same time.
We have no reason to. There aren't many ladies left.
There's still a lot of white knights out there begging for sex from the empowered woman
They come and go. Most of us. Probably not. But there are definitely some out there
I think there is a problem with femenism. Girl's and guys get told, that a girl doesn't need a man. And some girl would find chivalry offensive. So it is hard for men to get the opportunity to be a gentleman.
It's like chivalry. It exists just not everyone has those traits.
It depends I mean I know some really sweet guys but I have met bad guys to
Sure, they are probably on Friendzones all over the world opening doors to their crushes and jerks of boyfriend's.
So true