I can't never do this sort of actions. People's emotions aren't toys to play with. And women are not sex objects to take advantage of.
Do i have sexual fantasies in my head randomly? Yes i do. Sometimes i feel i just want to have sex with every women on the planet. But those are just fantasies. Thoughts that never comes to action. And it's not my fault that i born super straight and dirty minded with male instincts.
What's in my mind stays in my mind. What people see in action is the fact that i have the utmost respect for women and i never would try to disrespect myself and a lady with such attempts. It's just not how i've been raised. I have certain boundaries; life principles and values. I'm not practicing promiscuous culture either. I don't like the idea of having random sex with random people just because it's fun.
i’ve been used before by someone who i had really strong feelings for, it hurt. but i’ve also used somebody for comfort.. they got feelings for me but i got with someone else.. i felt really bad about it because he was a close friend
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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I have been used before by a guy I had feelings for. It killed my attraction towards him. He only used me for my body. Then I told him no more.
Nope i never used a girl for sex but I've had a last ex-girlfriend threaten if i didn't give her sex she was going to masturbate so i gave into her and pleasured her but thing was i never had actual sex with her but I'm so glad i never fail for her manipulation.
I've never "used" anyone, but I have had relationships with a couple of girls that were purely based around sex and not because either of us wanted to spend time around each other socially. Wouldn't really call that using though if you're both clear on where you stand.
Even if I want to, it doesn't change the way I feel about you. Even if I don't, it won't change the way I treat you, that's just one enjoyable part of the relationship. It's not the best aspect. It's second. Because if I didn't like the first part, the second one wouldn't be as good.
No... never done this, that's crossing the line, even if the line is a little wobbly depending on who you ask. What i mean to say is, m i've never done it without mutual agreement.
No, I've never led someone on under false pretenses if that is what you are asking.
I did have a situation once where a woman and I discussed, at length, before anything happened, that we were strictly friends with benefits. 3 days later she was behaving as if we were in a committed relationship, even though I never consented to that. Straight up lied to me about her intentions. I'll never do that to someone.
No, i don´t have the kind of body required by that, and if i could get it actually i wouldn´t do it anyways, for me if i cannot connect with the person, it is really not worth it, by any means.
To be honest I like to use every beautiful girl I meet to use for sex but problem is some don't get in line and those who get on line I start having feelings for her. So that how I describe 'love" so practically my answer is no but want to.
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Anonymous
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Have you ever had a one night stand or FWB? That is using another person for sex. In all seriousness, if you do not intend on committing to a relationship or dating and have stated this to the other person, whom agrees, then being used for sex is consentual between both parties. Lastly, the intent is to inform the other person of your intentions, or lack there of before the using begins talking place.
I'm the last person on Earth who would do that. I know too much about being used to want to use anyone.
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Anonymous
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Started out just being fwb's but after a while I could tell she wanted more then that. Knowing this I continued to see her until one night we got together and I just couldn't do it anymore and ended up kicking her out of the house without an explanation. The worst thing I've ever done to a woman.
I regret it to this day but don't know how to go about apologizing (happened 2 years ago)
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Yes but it became using after a while.. My intention was she was cute but not dating material... She makes it easy for me to make moves and flirt.. We start sexual relationship and i found myself feeding her nonsense because i though thats what she wanted to hear. Eventually she persisted for a relationship i backtracked.
I have used sex with my fwbs to grow closer as friends and be more comfortable around each other. But I'm guessing that's not what you meant, so therefore, no.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Are you talk about sex with prostitutes? Or just girls in general?
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