Do douchebags ever change?

[Anonymous]

Do guys who are total jerks to women ever change or do they pretty much stay that way their entire lives?

A guy who is a jerk to me is a guy who lies to a woman or cheats on her, manipulates her into doing physical things, tries to make a girl feel guilty to get what he wants, uses a girl for sex by lying to her, etc.

Just not a guy that respects girls or is honest with them. In my opinion those are bad guys.

Do these kinds of guys change? I'm not sure how someone with those qualities could better themselves when they don't think anything is wrong with them.

[Anonymous]

They never change. People do not change entirely. They only fix certain things like stop smoking, stop drinking, Working out (you get my point), so habits. But personality no one can really change that.

When jerks date girls they often go from one girl to the next girl. But there will be this ONE girl who he will marry that he will.. I quote "change for". Guys and Women do not change for any one.. the reason why that relationship worked for that particular "special" "the one" girl is because she is ok with his dumbass behavior that is why. If you ever get in a situation where a jerk treats you like shit and you let him go and he finds another girl and they have a "great relationship" KEEP IN MIND she is accepting his asshole behaviors and is ok with him treating her like shit. Even if you can't see.. it it is THERE. Personal experience. Good luck girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry for sounding harsh just passing a personal lesson I learned so that no one makes the same mistake that I had of trusting a jerk. I hope I helped ^_^

[kangy]

I doubt so, yes if they could do the above, they are really bad

[Theguyoverthere]

Typically no. Just avoid them. This is a huge complaint among many guys on here. There's so many girls who date liars and cheats hoping to change them only to "get used" and come to the site whining about how much of a jerk he always was.

Just don't date them and you're home free.

[Asker]

I obviously don't want to date guys like that. Some of them can act though and don't show who they really are until later.

[rjroy3]

Some do, and some don't. The ones who don't are the creepy 60 year Olds hitting on the 22 year Olds at the bar still. Some of these guys do change, just don't expect them to change for you. They can only do it for themselves

[ambientfaults]

this is a bit of silly question. Not every guy will be the same his entire life, and a fair few will change. There aren't really many guys like that around these days

[Roycaryn]

Many don't, but some do. Some of them grow older and and simply wonder why they slept with so many women in their youth while others behave the way they do out of deep seeded insecurity.

[wowzer]

Guys don't change, not a great deal for the most part.

[Anonymous]

Anyone can change, but people can only change themselves. Don't waste your time on a douche bag, go for a nice guy.

[Anonymous]

Well, just look at the members of ISIS. You think those guys will change. They beat, rape and force their women in to marriage

[Anonymous]

Generally no, they never change. Once a jerk, always a jerk.

[MothMonsterMan]

No, they don't change.

[dudeman]

You are who u are people don't change