What do you think about a married man frequenting a strip club by himself?

[needaguysopinion]

I've never minded my husband going to strip clubs and I have even gone with him on occasion , but for some reason the other day when he went, I was thinking about it and I feel very disrespected. I think maybe because he only goes alone and that is weird to me. I would feel better about it if he went with a bunch of guys. I mean I have everything they have and more from the looks of some of them. Maybe I wouldn't feel bad if our sex life was on point... It makes me feel like I am not attractive/sexy enough. I don't understand what they have that I don't or the need to go there... he says its better than a regular bar... duh, there is naked ladies in your face. He asked why am I being insecure all of the sudden. Not sure what to do. Maybe I should get a job there. lol

[KillNowDieLater]

Ahh another typical man yes he was joking on that part but u have all right to feel that way tho I go to the titty bar see them have a drink n go home to my wife those women are working making a living but being short changed for one cause they dnt make as much as you me my wife ur husband n sometimes it’s ok for us men to have fun beside he’s a good guy

[needaguysopinion]

Well sounds like he does the same. Has a couple of drinks and leaves an he is a good guy, Im just saying due to our lack of sex its starting to make me feel unattractive or not good enough and other than them being a little younger than me... they don't really have anything on me. just saying

[KillNowDieLater]

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[needaguysopinion]

It won't let me because I am not an xper2 or higher.

[KillNowDieLater]

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[KillNowDieLater]

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[KillNowDieLater]

Sometimes younger ones are not experienced I mean these women titty bars want is money
Yes he’s a good guy cool he takes care home but at least show ur wife some passion n affection this kinda shit brings a woman self esteem low

[needaguysopinion]

same user name?

[KillNowDieLater]

Yours or mine

[needaguysopinion]

yours? mine is specialk4u69. don't use it much fyi

[KillNowDieLater]

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[KillNowDieLater]

I just did it on there

[KillNowDieLater]

Well if you dnt use it that much then what do you use then lol 😆

[KillNowDieLater]

Helloo today

[needaguysopinion]

Hi there

[needaguysopinion]

Hey. Hope your weekend was good

[wankiam]

well its not like he is fucking them but i do see your point and maybe you should tell him that in future you can only go together. personally i would love a partner that wanted to go to a strip club with me

[needaguysopinion]

I'm down. I don't have a problem going when invited, in fact the men and the dancers kinda flock to me so its fun. but don't understand why he has to go without me.

[LadyAvon]

I wouldn't put up with it.

[Ghost_Woof]

Yeah he shouldn't be spending his money there. How about spend your money on a marriage counselor or get a divorce...

[needaguysopinion]

he claims he never gets dances or sits by the stage and tips them and he never has when i was there, but I dont get. whatever they can do for him I can do as well.

[Ghost_Woof]

There are a lot of guys who like to look at sexy women's bodies. Maybe he has a porn addiction? Guys don't realize that they become addictive to visual stimulation. Does this affect your sex life? And what I mean is of course this effect you but does he not want to have sex with you as often?

[needaguysopinion]

Yes, thats part of my issue. I'm very sexual and 1x a month doesn't cut it. He barely touches me or shows an interest

[Ghost_Woof]

Have you gained weight recently? It sounds like he's not attracted to you anymore? Do you two fight alot?

[needaguysopinion]

No, not at all. Everyone has their own taste and opinions so all I can say is when we go together to the strip clubs the men and the dancers don't leave me alone. If I go to the bathroom, the men stop me on the way and ask if I will give them a lap dance.

[Ghost_Woof]

I don't know sounds weird to me? Why do you both go to the strip club? It sounds like you might like the attention you get there but if that's so then it's only fair that he's looking at other girls?

[needaguysopinion]

Well I rarely go with him. I don't care for the attention, I was trying to make a point that I am not unattractive in response to your question about weight gain. I will go with him if invited but most of the time he goes alone which was my question to begin with. And I don't care that he looks at other girls. It was more about his frequency in going and going alone and what that says. :-)

[Ghost_Woof]

Ok so how often do you guys have sex? He might just be addicted to the visual stimulation? There has to be some disconnect somewhere.

[Patrickjv]

Kinda sad. I heard there's food but it's probably shit so why go.

[John_Doesnt]

It's weird that he doesn't watch porn instead.

[needaguysopinion]

He does;) I don't really have a problem with that, don't ask me why. lol