How often does he do this sort of thing? One time is not a big deal. Plus, the plan you made wasn't set a long time ago. You only made it this morning and then something came up 20 minutes later. It would've been a bigger deal if you set this plan a week in advance and then he ditched.
it's is a little unreasonable to be mad, you have every right to be a little annoyed but you both will at any given point will run off to hang with your friends because you both need time away from each other. I assume you wouldn't want your boyfriend to hang around you 24/7 you would feel trapped, annoyed, or pressured.
😂 I mean the hobbit is old and stuff so ya lol I can see why monster hunter seems more fun with buds
as long as it's not like aalllll the time - let him have fun,,... don't be so selfish
keep busy lol
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Guys sometimes like to spend time with their buddies than girlfriend. May be this gaming time he got was something that doesn't happen often. So if this episode was just a one-time thing then please dont be mad at him. Instead, ask him how it went. I'm sure you will see that twinkle in his eyes which will also make you happy!
Yup. He screwed up there. Sit him down and calmly clue him in. Avoid "I" statements and let him know it's ok to go with his friends, just not when you've gone and set aside some couple time.
Boys will be boys. That's what you get for dating a boy. He'd rather be playing with his friends. You should just accept that they have the stronger pull over him.
Was it the entire Hobbit? ... An Unexpected Journey, ... The desolation of Smaug, ... The Battle of the Five Armies, But, I would be mad myself if that happened to me. Talk to him about it. let him know that it bothered you.
You shouldn't be mad, unless it's happened on more than one occasion. Find something else to do to occupy your time. While you may be a couple, you are still two different people with two different lives. Just brush it off and make plans to watch the movie another day.
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Tbh what would I do in that situation is be like fine you wanna play games with your friend thatโs cool Iโll just go in my room and play games myself or with my friends or Iโll csll them up and ask my girls if they wanna chill of something and do something I enjoy
It's normal to be upset if he switched plans on you. However, if he does this often, you have every right to get annoyed. Communication is the key here. Speak to him about it.
Yeah I'd be upset about it. That's immature, he can go play monster hunter after the movie is over
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If you were into playing video games or at least give it a try you might just impress him and ask him if you can play together with him the next time around.
You need to tell him like it is , tell him you don't appreciate being ditched for him to go play video games. Let him know he hurt your feelings , don't be afraid to speak what's on your mind.
what would being mad help? he as his priorities and you need to respect that. i'm not saying that the priorities he has are "good" but that's a different topic. he wasn't ready for a relationship.
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How often does he do this sort of thing? One time is not a big deal. Plus, the plan you made wasn't set a long time ago. You only made it this morning and then something came up 20 minutes later. It would've been a bigger deal if you set this plan a week in advance and then he ditched.
it's is a little unreasonable to be mad, you have every right to be a little annoyed but you both will at any given point will run off to hang with your friends because you both need time away from each other. I assume you wouldn't want your boyfriend to hang around you 24/7 you would feel trapped, annoyed, or pressured.
😂
I mean the hobbit is old and stuff so ya lol
I can see why monster hunter seems more fun with buds
as long as it's not like aalllll the time - let him have fun,,... don't be so selfish
keep busy lol
Guys sometimes like to spend time with their buddies than girlfriend. May be this gaming time he got was something that doesn't happen often. So if this episode was just a one-time thing then please dont be mad at him. Instead, ask him how it went. I'm sure you will see that twinkle in his eyes which will also make you happy!
Yup. He screwed up there. Sit him down and calmly clue him in. Avoid "I" statements and let him know it's ok to go with his friends, just not when you've gone and set aside some couple time.
Boys will be boys. That's what you get for dating a boy. He'd rather be playing with his friends. You should just accept that they have the stronger pull over him.
Was it the entire Hobbit?
... An Unexpected Journey,
... The desolation of Smaug,
... The Battle of the Five Armies,
But, I would be mad myself if that happened to me. Talk to him about it. let him know that it bothered you.
You shouldn't be mad, unless it's happened on more than one occasion. Find something else to do to occupy your time. While you may be a couple, you are still two different people with two different lives. Just brush it off and make plans to watch the movie another day.
Tbh what would I do in that situation is be like fine you wanna play games with your friend thatโs cool Iโll just go in my room and play games myself or with my friends or Iโll csll them up and ask my girls if they wanna chill of something and do something I enjoy
To unilaterally decide to break his previous commitment to you, is a dick move. He owes you.
Monster Hunter is an awesome game. lol
I wouldn't be upset unless its was a recurring thing and he don't reschedule the date with me.
It's normal to be upset if he switched plans on you. However, if he does this often, you have every right to get annoyed. Communication is the key here. Speak to him about it.
Yeah I'd be upset about it. That's immature, he can go play monster hunter after the movie is over
If you were into playing video games or at least give it a try you might just impress him and ask him if you can play together with him the next time around.
If its a one time thing you shouldn't be mad, but if its every week you should talk to him and make it clear that it anoy's you.
Tell him how you feel, don't hold back. Always stay communicating with him
You need to tell him like it is , tell him you don't appreciate being
ditched for him to go play video games. Let him know he hurt
your feelings , don't be afraid to speak what's on your mind.
I have seen boys ditch their girls to watch football 😂😂
But that's just bad
Oi that's me
Lolz me too 😂
Cmon he's just playing with his friend.
Just talk to him and make plans for later
what would being mad help? he as his priorities and you need to respect that. i'm not saying that the priorities he has are "good" but that's a different topic. he wasn't ready for a relationship.