Those pretty stuck up girls are just attention starved they want all the attention they can get because they are insecure and think if people think there "hot" then they actually are. Strip them down of the designer clothes and all that stuff. They would be like a little lost puppy. SO NOT WORTH IT.
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i feel like a lot of them actually do have substance but they look for the wrong guys or the wrong things in a relationship. and are closed off to the guys that want them for the right reasons. idk. I agree that there are some that are attention starved though, I just wonder why they don't look for the attention in the right places.
Yeah. I have found women who are considered to be like conventionally pretty are the ones who crave attention - I guess they're so used to easily-manipulated dudes fawning all over them...
I'm a girl, and I don't even understand us. :/ We can be plain MEAN. Some of them are my FRIENDS and I know exactly what you're talking about when they text me saying, "OMG that one guy likes me. EW!" Don't worry, I (think) they'll grow out of it.
Not all girls do that! Don't generalize! Please! I honestly don't do this and know a lot of other girls that don't either. Some women just take longer to get to this place than others.
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There not, they just get sick of men constantly harrassing them, they eventually can't take it anymore & snap on them. If people never left you alone, you'd want to pull your hair out too. I mean, look at Rob Pattinson, women just adore him, & he can't stand it. It's not always easy having men trying to get you & it gets real annoying when they try to make you feel sorry for them.
i think I'm pretty and I wouldn't say I'm stuck up at all and to be honest I don't go for the bad boy I go for the nice shy ones :) it depends on the girl on the inside not the outside.
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Stop taking the fact that you keep getting rejected by pretty girls who don't want you nearly as bad as you want them out on all of us pretty girls. It's not our fault that you can't get a hot girl.
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who's fault is it when hot girls find themselves dating the wrong guys? who's to say if they date the wrong guys all the time, I'm not part of right guys they should be dating? women are at fault in their love life more than they even realize.
lol does that really make you feel better about yourself? You don't know about the dating experiences of every single hot girl! Just because it may make you feel better about being rejected to say "Oh well, hot girls just date the wrong guys" does not mean that it will always be true. People in general, hot and ugly, often date the wrong people! I've seen ugly girls date the wrong guys just for the sake of feeling validated. I've seen hot guys date the wrong girl just because they believe...
she loves him, but she needs to be taught how to love. You act like pretty girls are the only people who date the wrong people! Women are not the only ones who are at fault in their love lives!
So stop trying to derail the fact that the issue is about YOU and why YOU can't attract a certain type of girl instead of trying to make it about HER and her possible love life and confidence level.
There you go again. You keep inisiting it's them, not you. This is how you sound "It's not me, it's them! Girls just love jerks and because I'm not a jerk, girls don't want me! Because it's only the jerks that get girls to date them and fall in love with them!" Stop making exscuses for yourself and acting like it's everyone's fault but yours that you can't get a pretty girl! I'm tired of hearing guys bitch and whine about girls not liking them because they're not jerks!
It's an exscuse as to why they can't get a pretty girl and it's so overused.
A number of girls are not going to not want you just because you're not a jerk. That makes no sense. I've been a girl for over a decade and us girls don't just look for mean jerks. Get real.
Why is it that so many girls refer to themselves as pretty on this site when it doesn't happen all that often away from a keyboard? And why are most of the girls who do this an "Anonymous User?" And why am I asking questions I know the answers to? What are horse shoes? What do horse shoes do? Are there any horse socks? Is anybody listening to me?
salsa shark, why is it that you seem to think you know so much about girls you have never even met and can't even tell who they are? Even if what you said was true, it doesn't apply to me :) It might make you feel better to say it or you might feel impressed with yourself (which is good because no one else is LOL!), but that's about it :) There are pretty girls everywhere. It's stupid and shallow for you to act like pretty girls are rare and can't answer anonymously. get real
i think he has a point. in reality, most pretty girls wouldn't even use or be a member on this website, because they're too busy out and about with their friends, having a life. and too busy not caring, so none of them have truly been hurt in a relationship. I'm just saying I wish attractive girls weren't so selfish.
not saying there aren't a few really attractive girls here on GAG, but most of the girls here are not the kind of girls that i, at least, would go for, sorry to be blunt.
QA, don't make yourself look any more stupid. I know for a fact I'm a pretty girl because I have a modeling contract waiting for me in Florida. None offense taken here at what you said because you don't even know what I look like! lol and if you wouldn't go for me, I would not mind at all because you seem very small minded and dumb.
First of all, being pretty does not gaurantee that you have friends. One of my closest friends barely has friends because she's so pretty that she has problems...
with other girls and girls are easily jealous of her so she doesn't even have girl friends. So for you to ASSume that all pretty girls have loads of friends is totally false. Tyra Banks is stunning and she spoke about how she went through a period where she had absolutely no friends at all and she was very shy. Also, being pretty doesn't exempt you from experiencing hurt in a relationship! You can't clump a whole group of people together and say they miraculously have the same type of
and experiences just because they're pretty. Why do you propose such unintelligent ideas?
Btw, you claim you wouldn't date a girl who was less than pretty, but isn't this question because you couldn't get a pretty girl? :) Otherwise, why would you even be asking? LOL!
maybe I could get a pretty girl if they weren't so crazy. obviously there are exceptions, but I'm just saying, a lot of them only date guys that think they're thug, and any grounded good guy simply doesn't have a chance with them because they only care about looking cool in most cases. for the record I would love to find a gorgeous shy girl, as you say your friend is, but when I find one they're just as crazy as the next pretty girl.
None of that is true. Exscuses. exscuses. exscuses as to why you can't get a pretty girl. Stop trying to blame it on everyone but you. Maybe you can't get a pretty girl because you lack the charm and personality?
Wow, how incredibly hypocritical considering the vast majority of the male species expect women to have tits that reach the ground, two asses instead of one, and an incredible hip-to-waist-ratio that only Barbie can attain. yet you are complaining that WOMEN are shallow. I always hear dumbasses at my university talking about how they banged a hot chick with huge gozangas, yet we are supposed to like you for your sweet personality and not want a man with a six-pack. Incredible hypocrisy. Have you considered lowering your standards?
Some girls are just attracted to idiots. Like how some guys are attracted to slutty girls. No different really.
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The "idiots" your talking about are usually a lot
more outgoing, which is attractive to a lot of girls. They're also more bold, they're not afraid to say how they feel. Which girls also like. And a lot of the time they're more attractive.
And I'm not gonna lie. I'm pretty much stuck up. I hate to say it, buts that's who I am. So take my word for it on this.
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So how often do things work out with the outgoing guy?
Well it ll depends on If your sweet or a jerk and stuff. And don't overdue it you might come off as creepy or cocky. And looks are a big part of it. Basically girls want a good looking guy who makes them feel pretty and special. So if you can do that the odds of you getting the girl are good
Well I'm pretty decent looking but not very muscular or built physik... and I am one of the sweet caring guys, I just have no luck with girls lol. any tips?
Not every girl likes a muscular guy. But your gonna have better chances if you do try to build SOME muscle. And when it comes to talking to girls don't be afraid to flirt, trust me girls like it when you put yourself out there. Compliment them, tell them they're pretty and stuff like that. But again, not to much, it will come across as creepy or get annoying. And actually talk to them, have a regular conversation.
The reason why a guy isn't afraid to say how he feels in front of a woman is because he knows he's attractive and can get a lot of girls. So he knows that if you don't like what he says then its no big deal because he knows there are other girls out there that would like him.
You are only seeing what you have met. Girls are all over the place more compatible then that last one. Women being women are just that no more. Be careful dealing with anther so called women it means nothing that she is hot. because she is a female and has a hot toe nail. Really get a clue and move on from that lost clueless thing that talks to you. Find that special one and you will find a trail of trash talking to you with only what pleases them... Don't listen to anther listen to your heart.
An idiot is an idiot outgoing or not. Some girls need that validation even if it does come from a zoo animal. You will eventually come to terms with this, but will require numerous bad experiences before reality bites you in the ass. Good luck
People tell me that I am pretty and I am not stuck up, but if you want to bash girls, why don't you bash guys? Because honestly it is people in general, guys are actually more shallow than girls are.
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I been told that I'm pretty a lot by guys yet they never want to ask for my number they just look and smile and say hi. perhaps maybe that is why I can't find a man? Because pretty girls have a bad rep?
i been told to smile and even when I'm in a genuinely good mood I still don't get approached by the guy I like. I think it has something to do with the fact that I'm African American. I like white guys mainly you see but I never had a good boyfriend who is white, not that it would be my goal just saying. Perhaps that is a major factor
Because sometimes those girls who are stuck up and have had history with bad guys and have done things they are not proud of, tend to not like themselves and have low self esteems. They don't feel like they are good enough for a great guy. I knew a girl who went through guys left and right, all of which were complete a-holes. She ended up turning down a really great guy because she felt he deserved better then her.
Consider your age group. 18 - 24 aren't anyone's best years. They're going off what they see on TV as socially acceptable and trying to figure out who they are. Thing is, they want to jump into relationships without figuring out who they are, which is silly. If you don't know who you are, how do you know what you want? Anyway, just wait a few years. Also you should go hang out at places you enjoy. Chances are you'll find a girl with similar interests there.
Because deep down they are very insercure and have no clue how to treat someone with respect and kindness due to a superficial immaturity they cling to in the place of a real life. This can be reversed, why have we considered that sort of thing pretty? They show no signs of it. Everyone needs to learn to think for themselves, not based on what some magazine says.
Your right it's a numbers game not a magazine. It's also about thinking for themselves because in the end you have to except reality and the platter you have handed yourself. But the truth is doesn't matter to hormons, if you talk this way sometimes you talk like this (your adult side) and sometimes well.. (you talk like...) truth has nothing to do with one side of you but both sides of you!
Because they think they are better then everybody else and they think that everyone who doesn't look or do anything like them are ugly and all that stuff
They also think they need to have hot boyfriend in their group to keep their image up, and then the guys are all up themselves and sleep with other girls or flirts with them to keep their image up
its all rele sad because they don't realize that they could have so much more if they didn't just care about how other people look at them
The same reasons good looking guys are stuck up, they can be. When you have so many people who want you, I guess you don't need to be nice to anyone.
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Try being nice to them, don't be a jerk like most guys are to beautiful women.
I am told all the time I'm "Beautiful" "Gorgeous" e.c.t, but I am one of the nicest people in the world as long as your nice to me and as long as you don't ask very personal questions
because they are used to getting approcahed a million times by average guys they want to feel something different.
So she puts up bitch shield to see if you know how to climb over it.
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Because people praise them on their good looks and they think they are the sh*t. But not all pretty girls are stuck up, I have seen some very ugly ones that are stuck up. Trust me, it's not pretty. I'm not sure how they became like that.
Wow, finally someone who acknowledges that ugly fuckers are stuck up shit too. Probably worse than beautiful people, cause they crave attention so much they'll do ***anything*** to get it.
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Those pretty stuck up girls are just attention starved they want all the attention they can get because they are insecure and think if people think there "hot" then they actually are. Strip them down of the designer clothes and all that stuff. They would be like a little lost puppy. SO NOT WORTH IT.
i feel like a lot of them actually do have substance but they look for the wrong guys or the wrong things in a relationship. and are closed off to the guys that want them for the right reasons. idk. I agree that there are some that are attention starved though, I just wonder why they don't look for the attention in the right places.
Yeah. I have found women who are considered to be like conventionally pretty are the ones who crave attention - I guess they're so used to easily-manipulated dudes fawning all over them...
lol awww yeah babay! xD
I'm a girl, and I don't even understand us. :/ We can be plain MEAN. Some of them are my FRIENDS and I know exactly what you're talking about when they text me saying, "OMG that one guy likes me. EW!" Don't worry, I (think) they'll grow out of it.
Not all girls do that! Don't generalize! Please! I honestly don't do this and know a lot of other girls that don't either. Some women just take longer to get to this place than others.
There not, they just get sick of men constantly harrassing them, they eventually can't take it anymore & snap on them. If people never left you alone, you'd want to pull your hair out too. I mean, look at Rob Pattinson, women just adore him, & he can't stand it. It's not always easy having men trying to get you & it gets real annoying when they try to make you feel sorry for them.
i think I'm pretty and I wouldn't say I'm stuck up at all and to be honest I don't go for the bad boy I go for the nice shy ones :) it depends on the girl on the inside not the outside.
Stop taking the fact that you keep getting rejected by pretty girls who don't want you nearly as bad as you want them out on all of us pretty girls. It's not our fault that you can't get a hot girl.
who's fault is it when hot girls find themselves dating the wrong guys? who's to say if they date the wrong guys all the time, I'm not part of right guys they should be dating? women are at fault in their love life more than they even realize.
lol does that really make you feel better about yourself? You don't know about the dating experiences of every single hot girl! Just because it may make you feel better about being rejected to say "Oh well, hot girls just date the wrong guys" does not mean that it will always be true. People in general, hot and ugly, often date the wrong people! I've seen ugly girls date the wrong guys just for the sake of feeling validated. I've seen hot guys date the wrong girl just because they believe...
she loves him, but she needs to be taught how to love. You act like pretty girls are the only people who date the wrong people! Women are not the only ones who are at fault in their love lives!
So stop trying to derail the fact that the issue is about YOU and why YOU can't attract a certain type of girl instead of trying to make it about HER and her possible love life and confidence level.
because while I may need a little work, so do they. I will say that I'm a pretty good guy though. I'm not a jerk, and that's about all girls go for.
There you go again. You keep inisiting it's them, not you. This is how you sound "It's not me, it's them! Girls just love jerks and because I'm not a jerk, girls don't want me! Because it's only the jerks that get girls to date them and fall in love with them!" Stop making exscuses for yourself and acting like it's everyone's fault but yours that you can't get a pretty girl! I'm tired of hearing guys bitch and whine about girls not liking them because they're not jerks!
It's an exscuse as to why they can't get a pretty girl and it's so overused.
A number of girls are not going to not want you just because you're not a jerk. That makes no sense. I've been a girl for over a decade and us girls don't just look for mean jerks. Get real.
Why is it that so many girls refer to themselves as pretty on this site when it doesn't happen all that often away from a keyboard? And why are most of the girls who do this an "Anonymous User?" And why am I asking questions I know the answers to? What are horse shoes? What do horse shoes do? Are there any horse socks? Is anybody listening to me?
salsa shark, why is it that you seem to think you know so much about girls you have never even met and can't even tell who they are? Even if what you said was true, it doesn't apply to me :) It might make you feel better to say it or you might feel impressed with yourself (which is good because no one else is LOL!), but that's about it :) There are pretty girls everywhere. It's stupid and shallow for you to act like pretty girls are rare and can't answer anonymously. get real
i think he has a point. in reality, most pretty girls wouldn't even use or be a member on this website, because they're too busy out and about with their friends, having a life. and too busy not caring, so none of them have truly been hurt in a relationship. I'm just saying I wish attractive girls weren't so selfish.
not saying there aren't a few really attractive girls here on GAG, but most of the girls here are not the kind of girls that i, at least, would go for, sorry to be blunt.
QA, don't make yourself look any more stupid. I know for a fact I'm a pretty girl because I have a modeling contract waiting for me in Florida. None offense taken here at what you said because you don't even know what I look like! lol and if you wouldn't go for me, I would not mind at all because you seem very small minded and dumb.
First of all, being pretty does not gaurantee that you have friends. One of my closest friends barely has friends because she's so pretty that she has problems...
with other girls and girls are easily jealous of her so she doesn't even have girl friends. So for you to ASSume that all pretty girls have loads of friends is totally false. Tyra Banks is stunning and she spoke about how she went through a period where she had absolutely no friends at all and she was very shy. Also, being pretty doesn't exempt you from experiencing hurt in a relationship! You can't clump a whole group of people together and say they miraculously have the same type of
and experiences just because they're pretty. Why do you propose such unintelligent ideas?
Btw, you claim you wouldn't date a girl who was less than pretty, but isn't this question because you couldn't get a pretty girl? :) Otherwise, why would you even be asking? LOL!
maybe I could get a pretty girl if they weren't so crazy. obviously there are exceptions, but I'm just saying, a lot of them only date guys that think they're thug, and any grounded good guy simply doesn't have a chance with them because they only care about looking cool in most cases. for the record I would love to find a gorgeous shy girl, as you say your friend is, but when I find one they're just as crazy as the next pretty girl.
None of that is true. Exscuses. exscuses. exscuses as to why you can't get a pretty girl. Stop trying to blame it on everyone but you. Maybe you can't get a pretty girl because you lack the charm and personality?
maybe but if that means acting like a tool then forget it. I have so many other great qualities anyway.
Wow, how incredibly hypocritical considering the vast majority of the male species expect women to have tits that reach the ground, two asses instead of one, and an incredible hip-to-waist-ratio that only Barbie can attain. yet you are complaining that WOMEN are shallow. I always hear dumbasses at my university talking about how they banged a hot chick with huge gozangas, yet we are supposed to like you for your sweet personality and not want a man with a six-pack. Incredible hypocrisy. Have you considered lowering your standards?
Some girls are just attracted to idiots. Like how some guys are attracted to slutty girls. No different really.
The "idiots" your talking about are usually a lot
more outgoing, which is attractive to a lot of girls. They're also more bold, they're not afraid to say how they feel. Which girls also like. And a lot of the time they're more attractive.
And I'm not gonna lie. I'm pretty much stuck up. I hate to say it, buts that's who I am. So take my word for it on this.
So how often do things work out with the outgoing guy?
Well it ll depends on If your sweet or a jerk and stuff. And don't overdue it you might come off as creepy or cocky. And looks are a big part of it. Basically girls want a good looking guy who makes them feel pretty and special. So if you can do that the odds of you getting the girl are good
Well I'm pretty decent looking but not very muscular or built physik... and I am one of the sweet caring guys, I just have no luck with girls lol. any tips?
Not every girl likes a muscular guy. But your gonna have better chances if you do try to build SOME muscle. And when it comes to talking to girls don't be afraid to flirt, trust me girls like it when you put yourself out there. Compliment them, tell them they're pretty and stuff like that. But again, not to much, it will come across as creepy or get annoying. And actually talk to them, have a regular conversation.
The reason why a guy isn't afraid to say how he feels in front of a woman is because he knows he's attractive and can get a lot of girls. So he knows that if you don't like what he says then its no big deal because he knows there are other girls out there that would like him.
Maybe he also just has a humble heart? girls seem to think that's a bad thing... to be genuine and real.
You are only seeing what you have met. Girls are all over the place more compatible then that last one. Women being women are just that no more. Be careful dealing with anther so called women it means nothing that she is hot. because she is a female and has a hot toe nail. Really get a clue and move on from that lost clueless thing that talks to you. Find that special one and you will find a trail of trash talking to you with only what pleases them... Don't listen to anther listen to your heart.
An idiot is an idiot outgoing or not. Some girls need that validation even if it does come from a zoo animal. You will eventually come to terms with this, but will require numerous bad experiences before reality bites you in the ass. Good luck
People tell me that I am pretty and I am not stuck up, but if you want to bash girls, why don't you bash guys? Because honestly it is people in general, guys are actually more shallow than girls are.
I been told that I'm pretty a lot by guys yet they never want to ask for my number they just look and smile and say hi. perhaps maybe that is why I can't find a man? Because pretty girls have a bad rep?
they're afraid of rejection.
i been told to smile and even when I'm in a genuinely good mood I still don't get approached by the guy I like. I think it has something to do with the fact that I'm African American. I like white guys mainly you see but I never had a good boyfriend who is white, not that it would be my goal just saying. Perhaps that is a major factor
oh that could be. I don't know just keep looking, and make sure you're looking in the right places.
Um, guys are the same way. Perhaps they go out with idiots because they feel as though that's only what they deserve.
why would anyone feel like they deserve an idiot? I mean, everyone has their insecurities, and I know I do, but I still feel I deserve the best.
Because sometimes those girls who are stuck up and have had history with bad guys and have done things they are not proud of, tend to not like themselves and have low self esteems. They don't feel like they are good enough for a great guy. I knew a girl who went through guys left and right, all of which were complete a-holes. She ended up turning down a really great guy because she felt he deserved better then her.
oh I guess I can maybe see that, but still.
Consider your age group. 18 - 24 aren't anyone's best years. They're going off what they see on TV as socially acceptable and trying to figure out who they are. Thing is, they want to jump into relationships without figuring out who they are, which is silly. If you don't know who you are, how do you know what you want? Anyway, just wait a few years. Also you should go hang out at places you enjoy. Chances are you'll find a girl with similar interests there.
Because deep down they are very insercure and have no clue how to treat someone with respect and kindness due to a superficial immaturity they cling to in the place of a real life. This can be reversed, why have we considered that sort of thing pretty? They show no signs of it. Everyone needs to learn to think for themselves, not based on what some magazine says.
Your right it's a numbers game not a magazine. It's also about thinking for themselves because in the end you have to except reality and the platter you have handed yourself. But the truth is doesn't matter to hormons, if you talk this way sometimes you talk like this (your adult side) and sometimes well.. (you talk like...) truth has nothing to do with one side of you but both sides of you!
Because they think they are better then everybody else and they think that everyone who doesn't look or do anything like them are ugly and all that stuff
They also think they need to have hot boyfriend in their group to keep their image up, and then the guys are all up themselves and sleep with other girls or flirts with them to keep their image up
its all rele sad because they don't realize that they could have so much more if they didn't just care about how other people look at them
The same reasons good looking guys are stuck up, they can be. When you have so many people who want you, I guess you don't need to be nice to anyone.
Try being nice to them, don't be a jerk like most guys are to beautiful women.
I am told all the time I'm "Beautiful" "Gorgeous" e.c.t, but I am one of the nicest people in the world as long as your nice to me and as long as you don't ask very personal questions
because they are used to getting approcahed a million times by average guys they want to feel something different.
So she puts up bitch shield to see if you know how to climb over it.
Because people praise them on their good looks and they think they are the sh*t. But not all pretty girls are stuck up, I have seen some very ugly ones that are stuck up. Trust me, it's not pretty. I'm not sure how they became like that.
Wow, finally someone who acknowledges that ugly fuckers are stuck up shit too. Probably worse than beautiful people, cause they crave attention so much they'll do ***anything*** to get it.
in my case I feel "hot" guys are just players and I'm not ready for that type of relationship, I want seriouse, then marriage.
same here but with girls lol
This has been done over and over again.
Why are muscley guys so in love with themselves? They're gross! Physically - but obviously psychologically too.