Guys: is sex the only reason you want a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I mean, all the guys I know are with their girlfriends primarily for sex. Sure they may like them somewhat, but the minute sex is removed from the equation, they aren't interested. I told the last guy I dated that I was thinking about waiting until I was married and barely heard from him again. So seriously, is that the only reason you go out with us?

[joanajones]

You know better than that.

Girls often think that all what guys want is sex and that he will run for the next prettier face or sexier body he sees.

But that myth isn’t true.

Your first attention should be focusing on that what kind of companion your guy is into.

Because your fun, intelligence, and sense for exciting will make a major role in this. Share different activities with your guy, let him feel free to behave around you in the way he wants, otherwise he may feel unpleasant with you.

That’s very healthy for building you relationship. Make up few jokes, laugh with him, and show him your sense of humor. He will love it, believe me.

Guys do love good sex, but also healthy appearance and trust in the relationship. Remember that.

Do not allow yourself to ruin a good opportunity to do something that is important for you. Many girls magazines gives so much useless advice about guys.

It's often difficult for a girl to know exactly what guys like.

These were few tips in one huge subject and a big mystery in general - what is that guys like.

One day maybe that secret whole will be discovered, and come out from the shadows of the unknown. But until then, you’ll have to learn from these advices, and walk step by step towards the secret of what guys want. If you’re interesting in finding more about what is necessary to find or keep the guy you think you deserve, check out this link

I hope I helped you with this, because you seems like a lovely girl :) Good luck!

[GakieBarks009]

Sex isn't the main purpose for men in a relationship but try considering that BUT don't put it ahead of all the other important things of a relationship.yeah men are horny(or at least I am) but not everyone wants to have sex .You think most guys are horny but in our world most women I know are horny and I'm not lying ...also some of them arnt horny . Just so you know there are some people ,men and women who are horny..and then there are people who are looking for love and keeps sex later in a relationship.

your unlucky to have horny people around you.But that doesn't mean you can't find a decent guy!

[kok12345]

Sex is a big part of a relationship for a guy. It is built into his genetics, as it is his way of showing that he loves you. While most women can develop strong feelings in a relationship without sex, many men cannot. Men develop the passionate feelings that a girl has for a relationship through sex, not just through the relationship. Men want to have sex to show they love you, not because they're horny all the time. You take sex away, you take away the man's main way of showing he loves you and his number one form of happiness in the relationship.

[Hartmut]

Well, I can only speak for myself, but, in the unlikely event that I were to have a girlfriend, sex would never be the only reason; in fact, it'd probably be pretty low on my priorites list. Don't get me wrong; I wouldn't say no if it was on the cards, but I've always found myself more fascinated by the little things inherent to relationships...

[Arcanus]

No, its not the only reason. But its a pretty strong one.

You need to understand that practicing abstinence would also affect your partners sexual life, and they may not be interested in following the same beliefs.

My advice is that you try to find a guy who shares those beliefs and is willing to wait until marriage as well. Try to bring up this subject early, preferably on the first date.

[dudeman]

no I want a wife that's why I don't date. I know that sounds a little funny but I don't want to waste my time with a women I only want for sex because I could miss out on somebody I actually like if I'm wasting my time with somebody for sex.

[snackeyg]

Sex is the last reason I want a Girlfriend out of all possible reasons.

[snackeyg]

Yeah I know I'm the odd one out on this, but it's not really any important thing to me. I haven't had it yet and I couldn't care less if I do or not.

[miiiick]

You are correct.. not necessarily so simple, but in a way, it is that simple.

[Gustx]

Not Really lol.

[Cyhhgg]

Yes.