I get angry and then I end up crying. I still haven't learned how to properly manage my anger. Any ideas? (Page 2)

[SirSlaughter779]

I do as well, it's just natural I guess

[Asker]

Right, I suppose.

[SirSlaughter779]

Good luck though

[Asker]

Thanks! Appreciate your concern! 🤜🤛

[seasontickets12]

Umm marijuana tincture

[Asker]

Haha, really? That helps?

[seasontickets12]

Ya the THC will chill you out or even CBDs, but you may also just have chemical imbalance with hormones that also should be addressed.

[Asker]

LOL, okay? 🤣🤣🤣

[_____yvm_]

This same happens to me also

[Asker]

What are some of the ways you manage yourself when you cry because you are angered?

[_____yvm_]

I don't managed instead peaple makes fun of me and call me a "girl". 😂😂😂. But it also have a plus point which I'll tell you in pm😏😎

[Asker]

Hmmm, the reason I'm on anonymous is because I consider this a weakness of mine.

[Asker]

Are you sure you can't tell me what can be a plus for such a "weakness", at least in my mind, is over the comments here?

[_____yvm_]

You consider this your weakness because peaple make fun of you. The people who makes fun of you does makes any difference to you. If yes then it's your weakness. But if no then avoide them.

[Asker]

No one's made fun of me to my face yet. I, myself, have always had an issue against crying whether that's in public or in private.

It's a personal bias, I don't think men should cry.

I never cry when I am just sad or upset. I only cry when I'm extremely angry. I want to control that like I have controlled not crying when I am sad.

I don't know if that makes sense or not but yeah... any ideas how not to cry when I'm angry? LOL. I don't know I keep coming back to this.

[_____yvm_]

Come in pm. Just follow my account.

[Asker]

I hope you don't mind but I don't want this question linked to my profile!

[_____yvm_]

Okay. So here's the thing. Peaple consider it as a weakness because they think that only girls cry and boys don't. So if you're talking to a boy then boys will consider it as a weakness but if you tell this to a girl she will consider it as you're a cute guy. This is my friend a plus point. So I don't consider it as my weakness but my strength. And also change your mindset that only girls cry. You're living in a world where women rules.

[Asker]

I have a different opinion regarding what you just said.

Even a woman crying is a sign of weakness in my eyes, it's my opinion. Doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong. It indirectly shows that she's a weak person, someone who'd rather cry than to face a problem head on. Same goes for men.

[Asker]

I digress, though, that's not what this question was all about and we have both been side tracked here.

Going back a little, any ideas on how not to cry whence angry?

[_____yvm_]

I gave this lecture because you said "I don't think men should cry"

[Asker]

Yes, I stand by what I said.

[rockHard17]

Try fisting, it's really help

[Asker]

Really?

[Jake47]

when you get angry try to laugh

[Asker]

Hmmm, what? How? 😕

[Jake47]

just try to laugh I don't know how but laugh i do the same thing when i am angry its helps a lot

[Asker]

Right?

[Jake47]

yeah

[Asker]

Ok. 😮