My boyfriend’s friend tucked my hair behind my ear while I was sleeping?

[Anonymous]

My really good guy friend and also my boyfriend’s friend was taking me home from the pool cause I was really drunk so I was sleeping in my bikini in the passenger seat and I woke up but my eyes were still closed and I felt him trace my face with his hand and put my hair behind my ear. He did it like 3 or 4 times and it definitely wasn’t him just grabbing my hair and putting it behind my hair he was touching my face while he was doing it. Do you think this is a more than friend thing to do or is it just a sign of affection? He thought I was asleep. Do you think it’s weurd since he’s my boyfriend’s friend? I’ve kind of had a feeling he likes me for awhile but I can’t tell

[Kyren]

Usually most men would be afraid of even touching a woman without her consent, especially if they are in a relationship. The fact that he was gentle with you while stroking your hair back is definitely a sign of affection! It's a little concerning though because he did this while he thought you were asleep and what if you felt violated by him touching you like that? Friends don't usually do this out of respect as its more of something your significant other would do.

[UpForAnything_Guy32]

Ok well first off that your in a relationship and he would caress your face in such a way and being friends with your boyfriend? What’s that say about his character and how he would treat others. And second, you were sleeping! That’s weird. Sounds like a creeper!

[Jay_00]

Girl you know exactly what’s going on... If you want something with your friend, then end your current relationship. If you’re old enough to know what’s going on, then have the balls to do the right thing. Don’t play around with anyone’s feelings. And don’t be a hoe.

[Asker]

Not sure how I’m being a hoe.. he’s my best friend so yes it’s hard to tell sometimes how he feels. My boyfriend cheated on me pretty recently ago I don’t see an issue with my actions

[Jay_00]

Don’t fight fire with Fire! I get it what he did to you wasn’t okay. And it sucks because it hurts and makes you feel used as if you weren’t good enough. If what he did still replays on your mind then just leave him. And yeah you may love him but what he did may have caused you to lose some if not all trust in him. And that’s how you’re going to spend the rest of your relationship with this guy, having to think of what he’s telling us the truth or a lie. And sorry but I just call it the way I see it. Mejor sola que mal acompañada.

[Asker]

Yeah I get that.. you’re probably right. But still I would never cheat on my boyfriend or do anything to hurt him I was just very drunk and caught off guard but obviously if he made a move on me I’d shut it down

[Jay_00]

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[Jay_00]

Well I’m going to say now is if you’re questioning your current relationship then i suggest move on. Because you’re still hurt try to talk things out again.

[potatoismee]

Yep it's really weird and yep, it's not something just a friend would do.

[boggboss]

It's clearly wrong as that's not how friends act when they are with there Bfs girl if your Bfs female friend did it to him how would u feel

[ravedave]

Yeah that's really weird

[OrionMia]

Yeah, he likes you