Did I do a big mistake? And why would my ex screenshot these posts?

[Anonymous]

So me and my ex were supposedly friends after him breaking up with me 2 months ago. but I recently realized what really happend and I’ve been holding all this anger in for weeks i was so upset and surprised about what i knew and it really hurt me I didn’t think he was that person tbh. So I posted on my Snapchat story at 3 am expressing my emotions and what i knew but only he was able to see it i’m Not sure whether he knew that or not but he saw it screen shotted it and unfriended me. I later blocked him off of social media which I knew I should’ve done before but I just couldn’t do it. I w just wanted to know why would he screen shot these posts? And did i do something very wrong? Do I look like a bad person?

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This was the description of how the relationship was Just want to make sure. Did he "play me" ? Read descrip. please? ↗ on top of this he was apparently cheating on me

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I asked a new question i explained to him that it was private Can you tell that i’m saying the truth? ↗

[ChrispyBoi]

No, he just wants to show someone and talk trash. You did the right thing, you deserve a lot better than him. Most girls like you end up with the wrong guys and get hurt because they just want sex then make you feel bad about it. If he actually loved you he'd respect you to wait till you're ready. If she's perfect a guy will wait till his last breath

[Asker]

Why did he screen shot though

[ChrispyBoi]

To show somebody, or to let you know he saw it without telling you. Some passive aggressive crap.

[Asker]

Are you sure he showed somebody? Why would anyone do that wouldn’t they look bad?

[ChrispyBoi]

Manipulating, he probably has a different way it went down between you two in his head and wants to tell people how dumb or crazy the whole thing is. Or like I said the passive part. Just letting you know he knows without telling you.

[ChrispyBoi]

Wait, were these public posts? Cause if so then he screenshotted to def talk shit. Either way that's why he screenshotted them but if it was public that's shame on him for being a dick, if they went public then he's still a dick for ss them and showing people

[ChrispyBoi]

Either way he played you and you have every right to tell him off

[Asker]

No they were private I’m not like that

[Asker]

But at first he might have thought that they were public but the next day I explained to him that it was private and that he was the only one that saw it and I showed him proof

[Asker]

He never told me if he thought it was public

[ChrispyBoi]

Hmmm. Sounds odd. I wish you the best. He sounds like a tough person to understand, or just playing games

[Idontgetitatall]

If you know what he did to you and if it was something bad, why do you question your action and asking if it was something wrong?

[Asker]

Why did he screen shot?

[Idontgetitatall]

To talk trash about you with his friends. How his intentions were the kindest and how you ruined it.

[Asker]

I just don’t understand why somebody would show any one something that says things like that about them

[Asker]

Are you sure it was for that?

[Asker]

How were his intentions the kindest of he asked me if I ever thought about doing anything freaky?

[Asker]

And when I said no he started acting more distant very soon

[Idontgetitatall]

Calm down and don't bombard me.
1. He will say it because he's a guy and it's a common thing in guys.
2. I'm pretty sure it was. Well it can also be caused by him not wanting you to ever come back, so he keeps them for the case you get back - he'll show it to you and send you off again.
3. The "kindest" I used was sarcasm if you don't get it.

[cherryphi82]

Why the hell would you post that as a public story? I would unfriend you over that too. It's not that you voiced your feelings but that you did it in a way for others to see. That spells drama queen

[Asker]

It was private

[Asker]

And I told him that too and I proved it

[Asker]

I wouldn’t do something like that

[Anonymous]

I think you should have just spoke to him personallu rather than posting it online. Maybe he thought that it was public post.

[Asker]

I explained to him it wasn’t it’s on my update

[Opinion Owner]

For me personally, when it comes to persoanl matters, I would rather if the person spoke to me personally, text etc rsther than posting it online. If you talk to me, means that you are trying to talk things out and not just for the sake of to vent anger etc.

[tigresuave11]

If you guys were supposedly friends, why didn't you talk to him personally. Posting things over social media almost always leads to people taking things the wrong way. Maybe I'm just old, but when it comes to real discussions, call them up or sit them down and talk it out.

On the other hand, why would you want to be friends with a cheater? Not everyone is meant to be in your life forever.

[Asker]

He is in a whole different country and I don’t think I’ll see him again because he is going to college

[MrNameless]

Yes, you did. Why post it on your story for everyone to see? Nobody needs to know your business. Next time, tell them one on one.. Don't play the passive aggressive game

[Asker]

You didn’t read. I posted it on my story but only he could view because it was a custom

[Asker]

You think that maybe he know that only he saw?