I wonder if guys do know how sad we are if a man offer us money for sex? (Page 2)

Aidelwaish · 2018-10-24T05:12:29Z

I matched with this 38 yo guy on tinder. We matched, we chatted, was nice talking to him and met up. On our first meet up, after quite a long convo is the restaurant in a hotel, he blatanty told me this: He wants a travel sex partner. He thinks im attractive. He offers me usd 6000 a month. In a month, he only requires me to accompany him to travel 2x a month. Due to his work. Each time only spends max 3 days on private island. He stated firmly, in his life he only had 2 women. 1 woman 4 years and other woman 2 years. Both of them were his travel sex partners. He never had a girlfriend. He admit that it is funny he doesn't like sleeping around. But he also doesn't wanna have a relationship. I was completely shocked, choked, and extremely sad. Extremely-sad. I felt very low and degraded. On my first impression, this guy has a charisma, calm, straightforward, his attitude is genuine but too brutally honest. Which is supposed to be good. But still i feel really humiliated. I refused him politely with such a bitter feeling, and left him. The most unbelievable thing I've ever experienced and heard. My question, do guys ever know what they said or did might have humiliated/degraded a woman?

Aidelwaish

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hindril Follow
Yoda Age: 46

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Not all guys realize it. Most realize it too late when they do. What you said about that guy, that is just fucked up. Glad you turned him down.

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MarketData Follow
Yoda Age: 40

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I would never offer a woman money I don't have. But to answer your question: No, I have no idea what women think or feel or how they might react to something I say.

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So if you don't want to do it, don't. And if you do, do. It has nothing to with degrading anyone.

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Xper 3 Age: 28

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Maybe they were brought up with Barbie dolls !! U get me? They buy dolls

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- Aidelwaish
  
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  Yes. I feel like.. if i accepted that, i would made myself as a sex doll. Like i have no value. Sometimes I've been thinking about what has been happening to the dating world nowadays. Why many people become so weird, so emotionless, i wanna say "immoral" but i will be judged, but some guys know what i really mean. Im confused with guys nowadays.
  
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Anonymous
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lmao right after graduation a guy offered me 50 dollars if I let him suck my dick weirdest convo i have ever had

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Anonymous
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A guy doing that frequents hookers Stay away from him

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Anonymous
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then why do strippers, escorts, and prostitutes exist?

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- englisc
  
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  They're damaged women.
  
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jamus Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

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Could’ve been a serial killer or sex trafficker.

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- Aidelwaish
  
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  Hehe.. ya could be. We never know.
  
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- howlyz
  
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  organ harvesting**
  
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Shoenron Follow
Xper 6 Age: 31

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I didn't know. Thanks for filling me in.

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That guy clearly has no idea

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