I can only speak for myself, of course, but I find them so cliché and boring, that girls like that actually inspired me to chase the weird girls. You literally described every high school jock/preppy couple.
I mean that it's kinda boring. It isn't a secret bad side, if every girl has the exact same bad side. They always try to tell you how they're different but they just aren't. That's why I always liked weird girls, because they weren't trying to find that socially acceptable naughty side.
I just meant it as in "not the mainstream" or not in a social group. A lot of girls try to fit into particular groups, and there is nothing wrong with that, but it isn't something I find appealing
aha well I mean, I can't fit into any group either, so I literally made a new group of friends with my close friends. But I can't put a label on us because we are all totally different from one another but we all care about each other and are there for each other! :)
Lol He might seem like a bad boy, but even so, he's a good man. Hopefully you see where I'm coming from. He's not just a bad boy, he has a different side that I know
well depending on what you kill I don't think people would wanna associate with you, but who knows maybe you have another side to your story and you'll find a girl who can see beyond that and into who you really are
Women get off on the challenge on trying to break down a “bad boy”’. They think they have power to change them. But they don’t, not at your age at least.
You care going to get screwed over and it’s your own fault.
Quite honestly, I have never thought that I would have the power to ever change him, and I really don't aspire to. Sure, I want what is best for him, but he is mature enough to decide that for himself. If I get into a relationship I am not trying to be his mom and parent him about everything he does. But one thing I know is I am a strong individual and so is he. But couples influence each other and who knows. If he realizes that he actually likes me a lot and wants to spend time with me, other things will not be as important and naturally, he will put less time into those bad boy things he does. But this is all just a speculation. Deep down, I want him to change but if he does not, I will not leave him. I know where he is headed in his life and what he wants for himself. I can see that what he wants for his future and building his own family is also what I want, so we allign pretty well in that sense.
Well you could at least say hello to them and smile. Some guys get paranoid that it is tease/set up (I had mean girls act flirty and if i responded they would mockingly laugh) but I also had attractive women genuinely say hello. High school boys have a hard time telling the difference.
@whyisitso Deep conversations, peaceful walks behind the school and through the trails, cuddles at the movie theatre, nice hugs, someone who doesn't judge me, someone who can push my buttons and be silly with me. But I mean, he's not that good of a texter and it kinda bugs me
I can tell you something that I know for a fact will give you the answer... Does he make that effort for you? Is he honestly there for you when you need him and not just when he needs you?
It might feel all fun and games, but deep down you have already figured out the answer to this problem. You already know what he wants from you, and you already know if he is going to settle down. This is how girls minds work. We figure things out before we are ready to see them. So if you leave aside those feelings you have for him, what do you see? A guy in love? An insecure dude with no plans in his life?
Well i don't want to call you stupid but what you described isn't reality. The guy will only sweet talk you and make you feel special until he gets sex.
And "sweet gentle" and "appreciates me " isn't a bad boy.
@AcidT0y who said its all about the drugs? Look more at the description. she's taking about the athletic hot party boys, she has this weird ass view point that they just want a good girl to settle with and get married forever.
I have met these types of guys. Played football loved going to parties and he was not the type to settle down. What girls dont get is that if you're an attractive guy with many good traits he's not going to do cutsey shit like want to get married, he's just going to quench his sexual thirst and move on till he gets bored then want to settle
@AcidT0y lol exactly my point, i mean, the guy I talk about smokes weed and sells weed but doesn't mean he can't be a good person and care about other people too, but many people don't think that's possible, and also I don't know how this came up but we were talking about our future and somehow we brought up the fact that we like kids and want them lmao so just because he has bad habits doesn't mean he isn't family oriented nor want a good life and settle down
Well tbh I'm not the prettiest girl anyone's ever seen but he happens to be one of the hottest most attractive guys, and if it was really based on looks I don't think he'd bother talking to me, just like the rest of the guys I know
Lol you might wanna rephrase that and read my description of me, and not confuse it with the description of the guy I'm currently talking about lol!! :)
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What about bad girls ;) jokes good in public bad in the bedroom that’s my motto
You know I am a pervert, right?😂
Bad girls like some good boys (even if they say the opposite) and hate some of them
Maybe it's the same feeling bad boys have
I can only speak for myself, of course, but I find them so cliché and boring, that girls like that actually inspired me to chase the weird girls. You literally described every high school jock/preppy couple.
Lol wdym? Don't most guys want a good girl with a secret bad side?
I mean that it's kinda boring. It isn't a secret bad side, if every girl has the exact same bad side. They always try to tell you how they're different but they just aren't. That's why I always liked weird girls, because they weren't trying to find that socially acceptable naughty side.
lol well it depends what you call weird cuz I can't say Im not lol!!
I just meant it as in "not the mainstream" or not in a social group. A lot of girls try to fit into particular groups, and there is nothing wrong with that, but it isn't something I find appealing
aha well I mean, I can't fit into any group either, so I literally made a new group of friends with my close friends. But I can't put a label on us because we are all totally different from one another but we all care about each other and are there for each other! :)
Nothing. Still be treated as shit. But what do I know
When you get older I hope you'll learn to stop stereotyping people.
Lol everyone lives under some kind of label, itś just our reality :)
Inthis planet show me only one good girl
Here is no good girl or no good boy
lol there sure are, but you might realize they may not be as appealing as you think
You sound like you’re living in those teenage TV shows.
Bad boys? Lmfao you’re gonna end up heartbroken and pregnant over and over then blame it on all men 😂 grow up
Lol He might seem like a bad boy, but even so, he's a good man. Hopefully you see where I'm coming from. He's not just a bad boy, he has a different side that I know
Everyone can be bad somehow. Just keep in mind that he may bring you some troubles easily. I don't know what they think tho; everyone is different.
These dudes anonymously pretending to be bad boys are pretty funny tho lol
Don't care what they think. If you are a good girl, find a good guy and be with him. Bad boys deserve being with bad girls.
I don't sell drugs but I kill for living , is this considered bad boy?
well depending on what you kill I don't think people would wanna associate with you, but who knows maybe you have another side to your story and you'll find a girl who can see beyond that and into who you really are
I kill zombies in plants vs zombies
I love you already
@sagevalentine Lol thanks for proving my point!! lol! :) Gamer dude, looks like I found you a match!
Star crossed lovers!
@sagevalentine sadly we can't be with each other, we are like from two different worlds
Awww I have a boyfriend anyway :)
(smoke weed and sell drugs)... the straight man is no longer enough?
Boo you whore
Regina George
@nojokecarmichael Lol who you referring to? Cuz if thatś for me I think that everyone would laugh their heads off lmao!!
You dont get it, the current situation I;m in is with a guy like that, I can change that about him yunno
It's for the guy who posted the comment...
@nojokecarmichael just go and fuck yourself.
Omg, why so hostile?
Just another notch under their belt if you want the truth.
explain?
Women get off on the challenge on trying to break down a “bad boy”’. They think they have power to change them. But they don’t, not at your age at least.
You care going to get screwed over and it’s your own fault.
Quite honestly, I have never thought that I would have the power to ever change him, and I really don't aspire to. Sure, I want what is best for him, but he is mature enough to decide that for himself. If I get into a relationship I am not trying to be his mom and parent him about everything he does. But one thing I know is I am a strong individual and so is he. But couples influence each other and who knows. If he realizes that he actually likes me a lot and wants to spend time with me, other things will not be as important and naturally, he will put less time into those bad boy things he does. But this is all just a speculation. Deep down, I want him to change but if he does not, I will not leave him. I know where he is headed in his life and what he wants for himself. I can see that what he wants for his future and building his own family is also what I want, so we allign pretty well in that sense.
You are going to get hurt.
I know I might
I wonder how many decent guys you passed up in the meantime. They were just too nice and boring right?
Yeah, probably but tbh guys dont talk to me
Well you could at least say hello to them and smile. Some guys get paranoid that it is tease/set up (I had mean girls act flirty and if i responded they would mockingly laugh) but I also had attractive women genuinely say hello. High school boys have a hard time telling the difference.
Well maybe you should just try saying hello to them.
lol I say hello to everyone! its not like I'm a stuck up bitch lol!!
What do bad boys thinks of good girls? That’s easy. They just want to f**k them. Simple as that lol.
Sex object, or play thing.
so what does it mean when the guy sticks around even though she doesn't put out?
Easy: He wants to believe she will eventually give him some
But a question for you: what do you get from him other than a little attention?
She just wants attention of a hot guy to feed her acceptance issues. Thats it
@whyisitso Deep conversations, peaceful walks behind the school and through the trails, cuddles at the movie theatre, nice hugs, someone who doesn't judge me, someone who can push my buttons and be silly with me. But I mean, he's not that good of a texter and it kinda bugs me
You are enjoying present scene right and u dont care about the possible wrongs for future, then fuck it , just enjoy with him then
@interstellar I guess I'm also unsure, but I do want something serious, but it's really not as straight forward as getting with a normal guy
I can tell you something that I know for a fact will give you the answer... Does he make that effort for you? Is he honestly there for you when you need him and not just when he needs you?
It might feel all fun and games, but deep down you have already figured out the answer to this problem. You already know what he wants from you, and you already know if he is going to settle down. This is how girls minds work. We figure things out before we are ready to see them. So if you leave aside those feelings you have for him, what do you see? A guy in love? An insecure dude with no plans in his life?
@whyisitso Yeah, you're right, i see the latter
Then he most likely is a construction site and won't want to settle yet.
Probably an easy fuck.
Aha, haven't hooked up before so I couldn't tell ya lmao we will find out tho
Lmao those type of guys only want sex from you, and you of course you the naive “good girl” will be an easy catch for them.
Don’t forget to complain about “all guys are assholes pigs” when after you get used
haha yeah well I don't hookup randomly, and I am not stupid either lol!!
Well i don't want to call you stupid but what you described isn't reality. The guy will only sweet talk you and make you feel special until he gets sex.
And "sweet gentle" and "appreciates me " isn't a bad boy.
You can like drugs and still give a fuck about people. What are you on about 😂
@AcidT0y who said its all about the drugs? Look more at the description. she's taking about the athletic hot party boys, she has this weird ass view point that they just want a good girl to settle with and get married forever.
I have met these types of guys. Played football loved going to parties and he was not the type to settle down. What girls dont get is that if you're an attractive guy with many good traits he's not going to do cutsey shit like want to get married, he's just going to quench his sexual thirst and move on till he gets bored then want to settle
@Bue Anon
Ah I think maybe the whole description isn't showing for me then for some reason. Literally just starts with the word "drugs"
@AcidT0y lol exactly my point, i mean, the guy I talk about smokes weed and sells weed but doesn't mean he can't be a good person and care about other people too, but many people don't think that's possible, and also I don't know how this came up but we were talking about our future and somehow we brought up the fact that we like kids and want them lmao so just because he has bad habits doesn't mean he isn't family oriented nor want a good life and settle down
The whole bad boy attraction is really a female thing. Guys are more concerned about beauty than if the girl is bad or good.
Well tbh I'm not the prettiest girl anyone's ever seen but he happens to be one of the hottest most attractive guys, and if it was really based on looks I don't think he'd bother talking to me, just like the rest of the guys I know
Doubtful of themselves bad boys wonder what good girls think of them. Hoping good girls will like them.
Why would you want to be with a criminal? Is it because it's edgy?
Lol you might wanna rephrase that and read my description of me, and not confuse it with the description of the guy I'm currently talking about lol!! :)
No one is bad and nobody is good everyone has merits and demerits.
And feeling can be for anyone