This lack of depth in understanding of others is widespread among men AND women. Yes, in many cases this "giddy" attitude you're talking about is fake, though, sometimes it's not. The point is, in high school, before, and a little after (or a long time after), people still cling on to self-defense mechanisms, namely, denying the truth. These "giddy" girls refuse to believe they have problems or they are sad, so they act the opposite, but when no one is around they break down in tears. Guys who are (or aren't) attracted to them aren't as profoundly unadmitting, but still are. Two fake people are more likely to meet up than an introspective person and a fake person.
You just need to find the people who aren't fake. It's hard, but it can be done. And also, please don't disrespect the "fake people" because they really can't help it sometimes. Things get so bad the only way they know how to deal with their life is to live in a fantasy world. Maybe you're strong enough to not need one, maybe I am too, but that doesn't mean we should look down on them.
The strong need to help the weak, so instead of complaining about them, why not try and help them face their fears? Show them they aren't alone and people will stand by and care for them?
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