Do you like it when girls say this?

[saraocarney]

Is it like a compliment when a girl tells you "I wanna have ur babys" cuz any guy I joke to them about this they become giddy and are nicer and it makes them so happy why? I'd really love to understand the inner workings and feelings behind this so instead of asking the guy I'm talking to what it means I feel it's better asking guys on the internet about it :)

[MrOracle]

in my opinion, you are playing with fire here.

Yes, it's attractive, but to many guys, it's attractive for all the wrong reasons (from a woman's point of view, anyway).

• It implies that you are sexually available to him (whether you are or not).
• It implies that you are prepared to have UNPROTECTED sex with him, whether you are or not.
• It implies that you are prepared to have children with him, regardless of any commitment from him (or lack thereof)
• It tells him that you may lack boundaries and standards - which is great if he's only looking to use you for sex, but terrible if he was considering you for a relationship - because now he's almost certainly not going to see you that way.

in my opinion, this is something that you should only say to a man when you are DEADLY SERIOUS about what you are saying, because if you say it when it's not completely true, you may get his interest, but either he's going to feel lied to and deceived, or you're likely to get used for sex and dumped/ghosted afterwards - and possibly left ACTUALLY pregnant with a child from a man who doesn't care about you.

[saraocarney]

Um actually you might be right but I do put guys through a "hell week" when I first meet them just to see if they're a thick and thin kinda guy and "hell week" resets 1 month buffer then 2 months and goes on from there if they pass them all up to 6 months I start to dabble in that kind of commentary but I completely agree with you

[Agagagagaga]

Interesting. Did you know you sound completely insane?

[saraocarney]

Ik I am :)

[Surely]

At least you are giving the guy a choice. Not just “accidentally “ on purpose getting pregnant.

[saraocarney]

Yeah true ion wanna keep a dude baby I want a love baby

[Guy13]

He’s going to get laid 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[saraocarney]

🤣 I love this response this is probably true but eh that comment or not he'd probably get laid when I live alone

[Zolly99999]

Your telling him you want to have sex with him.

[saraocarney]

True but as a chick with maternal instinct I see it more as "I wanna start a family and my future with u"