Why are average looking guys so opinionated about attractive looking girls? (Page 3)
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Degrading someone for their looks is never okay, but it's just because society is harsher with women about judging appearance.
They think their high standards make them more attractive or something 😂
Hahahahaha. I guess all men see George Clooney in the mirror.
Their looks and their opinions on someone else's looks has nothing to do with each other. Ugly or average anyone is still entitled to their own opinion and women do the exact same thing and just as often.
Everyone has different tastes. Just because you think she's stunning doesn't mean a guy necessarily will.
Well, first of all women do that too, secondly, as long as we don't offend anyone I don't see why it's wrong, and thirdly... you seem a little full of yourself don't you think? "Pretend like they have an actual chance with her"
First of I know woman do. Second of all, my whole problem with it isss when they're offensive about it. And third, this has nothing to do with me, so how can I be full of myself. I never claimed I'm one of those attractive model girls.
Ok then, gotcha.
I don't get what the question is tho?
Is that you in the profile picture?
I gotta admit. The question's wording was off. I didn't think it through, so I hope my update cleared it up. And yes that us me.
I do agree with you, degrading girls and calling em' ugly is just wrong and makes the wrong mindset.
But I do gotta say, maybe you aren't a registered model (or maybe you are lolz, don't know), but you sure are attractive...
A toast to that!
Haha no definitely not a model, but thanks man 😊
You bet
Because not all guys want the same thing. I'm much more attracted to a nice body than a nice face.
Supermodels tend to have nice faces but no curves and ass. So people can talk all they want about how they're out of my league but even if one was interested in me I would still decline.
I'll take a girl with a below average face but wide hips and huge ass any day over a supermodel
It's because her job is look perfect
She's an actress/model and gets paid for it.
It's like when you don't like a certain restaurant because of their food...
I don't complain how bad of a cook you yourself are.
*is to
Lol do you think average person has that power to degrade or bring down a celebrity
You are just trying to point a finger at somebody doing their thing that doesn't concerns you
Attractiveness is subjective, maybe they just don't find them hot, ever think about that?
Did you read my update?
Either way you can criticise looks without thinking your attractive and I can assure you women do it just as much as men
HA! Most women are also average looking. Just because you slap on some makeup and every other guy wants to nut in your pussy doesn't mean you're anything special. Your conflating subjective beauty standards to how often you get your hole poked by random guys.
1. Never said most men are average looking
2. I wasn't referring to myself as an attractive model.
3. You dont know me or know nothing about me. And you're making up false assumptions about.
4. That's the most your tiny brain can conjure up when your poor little ego was bruised by a bit of a controversial topic.
5. You have no respect or manners. I never insulted anyone in my question, you have no right to come at me.
You're rude and disrespectful and honestly just disgusting.
1.) An average is a baseline; most people fall into this category.
2.) If you don't see yourself as above average then why do you care if average looking men comment on exceptionally beautiful women? Should average and below average looking women also follow suit? Let's just throw free speech out the window to protect the beautiful.
3.) You're right, I don't know you or anything about you. I can surmise though from how you worded your question that you're trying to be manipulative.
4.) I almost went a more sympathetic route with my answer.
5.) The entire premise of your question is that average looking men should just keep their mouths shut and not voice their beauty standards in regards to beautiful women. I'm sorry you don't like that I called you out on your manipulative bullshit.
1. You're the one who started it with the whole most woman are average looking. Adding "also", which implied that that's what I was saying which I never did.
2. I do not see myself above anyone else. Also I do not believe looks do put people on a higher pedestal just bc they won the genetic lottery. I do not care If average looking men comment on beautiful woman. I care when they are rude and disrespectful and offensive with their comment. Pointing out all her flaws. Degrading her and putting her down. Demeaning and hurtful comments. That's what I'm talking about. You wouldve figured that out if you had read the question carefully instead of jumping to conclusions. You wouldve also read that I mentioned that you should keep your answers respectful as I'm not looking for a fight. But your answer was all aggression.
Also the same goes to the opposite gender. I would never condone such actions, If I saw a woman doing it as well. I would call her out on it just as I would call a guy out for it. I have merely noticed the situation a lot with men online and irl and simply wanted to discuss it. Never said anything against free speech, I'm all for it, until it becomes disrespectful and the respect is lost. Then no, keep your fuckin disrespectful opinion to yourself if you lack decent morals and weren't raised right to speak in such a manner.
3. You said it yourself. You dont know anything about me. And you can't know much about me from reading 2000 words I wrote. Humans sense goes much more in depth than a simple post. So no you can't surmise shit about me from how I "worded" my question. Bc I know i wasn't trying to manipulate anyone. I'm not really big on manipulation if you do wanna know more about me. I'm straight forward and I like communication, I also like discussions, hence why I asked the question. I love discussions which go down with mutual respect, bc once that's lost, you're never gonna find middle ground and you're never gonna find an answer.
4. I haven't made an assumption about you from the insulting answer you gave. I just thought you're triggered and you're lashing out. That's bc I can't make any assumptions without knowing you and that's the difference between us.
5. And your 5th point proves that you didn't even understand my question nor try to read it through or think it over for a bit before you hastily started typing out slurs.
6. Think about your words before typing them out. It makes no sense to speak to people that way. Strangers or not
Well I don't think all guys find the same girls attractive. It's just their opinion so let them be 😂 just like us girls have our own opinions on guy's as well we don't find the same person attractive
Thank you!! I do not know and it's very annoying especially when they have nothing to offer
Similar question.
Why are girls rated 5-7 so determined that they deserve an Alpha male 10.
That's how humans are, and girls do it quite often too you know.
i take girls or women not for their looks but just the way they are: Looks are not everything.
We have different preferences mah dude. What u might find attractive might be the ugliest shit for them.
whats there to think? basic instinct rocks !! dude she's hot!! thats it!
You don't have to be a good actor to recognise shit acting
A girl defining a guy as being `an average looking guy`demonstrates just as much entitlement and arrogance as a guy criticizing a girls appearance.
Adding you to the list of triggered guys who barely read the question nor bothered to think about it for more than 2 seconds.
I fully read the question and considered for a while, it bugs me how you can define a people as being "average or unattractive guys, who dont care much about their own appearance," and ask why they give they are opinionated on the appearances of other people, particularly those that you appear to consider superior.
Okay. You can't even deny that we live in a society which is so based on looks. Looks are always a playing factor. Whether we like it or not. You might even think about it subconsciously. But everyone does. How ever hard we try not to we still do sometimes. Now the thing in my question wasn't bc I saw average guys as inferior. Not placing the gorgeous models in a pedestal and claiming they can't be critiqued. But when those guys, start critiquing those girls in a disrespectful way. Pointing out all flaws, speaking about all what's she's missing, calling her names. Ugly, fat, anorexic etc.. whatever it may be. When its derogatory and degrading and entitled comments. That's when I notice their looks. That's when I think why are you criticizing and bringing down some one elses looks acting like you're so much better, like you're some kind of 10/10 greek God. When they start to bring down someone else for their apearance that's when I start to notice theirs. So thats why i mentioned looks. It's their personality that makes me do that. Not bc theyre not "attractive enough". By who dont care much about their apearance, I mean dont take care of themselves, groom themselves, get haircuts, good hygiene, stay in shape. And I used the word average guys, bc i didn't wanna use the word ugly, but they make it hard not to think that with the way they're talking.
As a guy, you are always told to have "confidence". "Girls like it when you are confident". "You just need to be confident and you will be alright".
So that's exactly what you have observed.