Do guys stare at a girls chest intentionally?

[Anonymous]

this man is supposed to be a professional doing his job and he’s old enough to be my dad, grandad at a push (im 18) and mid-conversation he always glances at my boobs but today I spoken to him and he was legit staring while talking to me and he had like a shocked expression. I’m wondering if it was perhaps by accident before I start to think he’s a weirdo.. Lol

[Love2Jackit]

Yes especially if you have a nice set of boobs. Don't think he's a weirdo. He's just an older man that likes what he sees. Be proud remember one day u will get old. Then ur boobs may not be as sexy as they are now. Just over look him. If he keeps staring. Then just ask does he like what he sees. He will either stop staring or tell you yes he likes what he sees.

[BeMuse]

If you don’t like it then don’t show off your cleavage and/or wear skin tight clothing on your chest and wear a bra to hid your nipples. People are going to look at what you put on display. If I wear a speedo to the beach, people are going to look at my junk, if I wear board shorts then they probably won’t.

[BeMuse]

*hide

[AuroraRoseat]

Do you realize that is similar to how many Muslim women are treated? Because the man (who should have enough sense to respect a woman by not ogling or objectifying/sexualizing her) stares, the women must cover up so they won't do it.

That's nonsensical. A woman should be free to wear whatever she wants. Men staring is going to happen, but if she asks you to STOP--especially if she sees you and it makes her uncomfortable--you should stop. Otherwise, it is harassment.

[BeMuse]

@AuroraRoseat Which one catches your eye first?

[BeMuse]

@AuroraRoseat Someone looking at you isn't harassment. Stop smoking crack rock

[BeMuse]

Harassment generally occurs when some sort of repeated behavior occurs to a point where the person has a reasonable fear of physical injury. Someone looking at your tits because you’re wearing tight clothing doesn’t even exist in the same universe as harassment and if you think it does you are mentally ill and paranoid and should seek treatment and medication.

[AuroraRoseat]

Plenty of them do. If you feel offended or uncomfortable, let him know and he should stop immediately. If you don't, then there isn't any harm in him looking as long as he doesn't touch.

[MrKinktastic]

Normally we glance accidentally and stare on purpose. That said some of us are paying less attention to where are eyes are than others so he may have just had them catch his attention and he got stuck :P

[LoU_Hades]

short evaluation of your feminine attributes is an instinctive reaction of a hetero men.
longer staring is a provocation to should arouse a reaction in you.
If you're not interested, ignore him a emotionless way and avoid this man as you can

[aa180]

Girl: *wears revealing top that's clearly meant to draw focus on her boobs*

Random guys: *Stares at her boobs*

Girl: "Why are guys staring at my chest? I'm starting to think they're a bunch of weirdos"

Me: *facepalm*

[mistixs]

Who said she wore a revealing top to draw attention to her boobs?

[aa180]

@mistixs Her mom told me

[Maguel]

Intentionally no. It's just as if there was a magbet there pulling my gaze. It is instinctual and not intentional. With my girlfriend being comfortable with it i do stare at hers intentionally too.

[Miristheiss]

I glance, I don't stare. Well, I stare at my fiancé's from time to time, I get to look at the good stuff as much as I want.

[Thatsamazing]

The only "lol" here is at what a ridiculous question this is.

His age doesn't matter. You're old enough to be hot. Guys look at tits. Period. This isn't complicated.

[mistixs]

Looking and staring are two different things. How would you feel if an old man gawked at your body?

[Thatsamazing]

@mistixs Where's the line? That's entirely subjective. There's no set definition for that, that "looking and staring are two different things." And uh, why an old man? Why not an old woman? And why does he automatically have to be old in the first place? You just made many assumptions with your comment.

[mistixs]

An old man because the Asker said the person staring was an old man

[Thatsamazing]

@mistixs Okay, and I gave the answer I gave for a reason, namely, because it's the correct answer-- 1) his age doesn't matter, 2) she's old enough to be looked or stared at, which are the same thing, 3) guys look at tits, period, and 4) this isn't complicated.

[elite665]

Lol just flatter yourself you got a nice chest an yea we look it’s something you guys have we don’t

[Anonymous]

Do you have particularly nice boobs? Are they especially large and/or firm given your frame? He might also be starring because your nipples are very prominent or you're showing a lot of cleavage.

[Anonymous]

Do women have half their tits hanging out intentionally?

[Pinky_what_why]

Lol, tbh i think something wrong with him

[FrenchyRomain]

no we as men like boobs

[bhavy24]

He is a pervert

[outside_Toronto]

yes they do

[CT_CD]

Yes..