What does it mean when a guy says you can find someone better? (Page 2)

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Specifically " I really don't want to hurt you, I'm not worth it. Me and you are just way too far apart mentally so I'm not going to be the one who ruins you"  I watched a video about how guys may feel intimidated by a girl because they think that she can find someone so much better than themselves, and so, they will tell the girl they think she can do better than them.  I started thinking back to the day he said this to me, and how we made up later and I said " It felt like you were saying I wasn't good enough for you" and he said "What? No, that's not what I meant". I'm the stereotypical good girl who secretly likes bad boys. And he's that bad boy type. We haven't talked in months, but I still miss him. We still have moments when we look at each other and all I wanna do is run into his arms and hug him. I always think back to the day we made out after going out to a movie. He's been getting with really low-status slutty girls after we stopped talking, but they don't last at all.  Did he actually think I could do better, and that's why he left?

DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999 · Answer

A bad guy l don't like him

GreenGold1992 · Answer

sounds like he was insecure

Browneye57 · Answer

Ah, the games children play.

Anonymous · Answer

He's trying to get rid of you in a polite way..

Anonymous · Answer

He respects you, he doesn’t respect himself

Jiuytessss · Answer

He is full of shit

LuWe22 · Answer

It's an excuse

What does it mean when a guy says you can find someone better? (Page 2)

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