Why is so difficult to start a relationship with an intelligent guy? Why are they so withdrawn from the others? How can someone catch their eye? (Page 2)
Could be a lot of reasons, everyone's personality is different. I would consider myself pretty intelligent, but I'm pretty bad at social rituals regarding dating and meeting strangers.
Be straightforward, if you're asking for a first date have a plan and ask him ("Do you want to go out for dinner on Friday?") If you've been on a date or two and it went well and you've been talking, you can just ask him to be your boyfriend.
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Could be a lot of reasons, everyone's personality is different. I would consider myself pretty intelligent, but I'm pretty bad at social rituals regarding dating and meeting strangers.
So.., How can someone approach you?
Be straightforward, if you're asking for a first date have a plan and ask him ("Do you want to go out for dinner on Friday?") If you've been on a date or two and it went well and you've been talking, you can just ask him to be your boyfriend.
It's not difficult. You just fail because you keep using techniques that work on ordinary men.
Spot on!
I think it’s because of the standards they have toward themselves and others. And they’re really hard on themselves and others.
So, how someone approach them?
They find out about them and maybe test the waters.
Don't pretend to be intelligent, have more fully developed opinions on things, if he's arrogant about his intelligence, red flag
thank you
aren't they intelligent to not fall such easily for any girl?
I don't know. I'd say I'd want someone around my intelligence level, just average
How did u know its difficult?
Explain this and I'll search the world for your answers..
We're not we're just picky cause we want someone intelligent as well
Cause they tend to be work oriented there good with work but with people.
They usually want someone with the same intelligence
hun can you even prove that you are smart
and what do you mean by smart?
I wanna hear lol :)
what makes you think you deserve a smart guy?
well, I am not rude
Neither are his bros.
Be intelligent too
They think theyre too good for other people lol
I'm wondering the same thing
Because Humans are stupid amd disgusting