Well also i think maybe a guy isn't super hot but maybe he isn't fat. So he still doesn't want a fat girl but she dont have to be hot. Nobody wants a fat girl except the weird fattie fetish men. Im good looking and i dont mind dating not super hot girls but they better be like size 0 or athletic bodies.
@Smiley_face101 i think its sexy and how the fuck is it unhealthy? My girlfriend is size 0 and she just doesn't have much muscle. She still has jiggly boobs and ass.
Most of these "average guys" are lazy losers who just sit around all day eating junk and playing video games. Real men aren't afraid to put in the work required and respect themselves enough to do so and pursue what they want for themselves.
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This kind of question is as old as Reddit. You're attention whoring us all with this one.
How "good looking" are you, again? We all know your personality is garbage anyway. Now, we've seen super ugly land whales with "standards" on TV.. just wanna make sure you're not a an obese/ugly internet chick with stage-5 NPD. Post your video for all of us ;)
Some women do have unrealistic standard but a lot of men say that because they don't have what you want yet they want you so they will try to lower them to their level by making you think they are unrealistic
That’s one good question. I totally support you. When i tell my guy friend that i want an intelligent guy who is educated and has a job, he tells me why i am looking up? although i am well educated with good job woman myself.
Because a lot of men can't accept the fact that women are more equal to men now, and women should've been equal with men since the beginning, nobody's better than another human being no matter the gender.
From what I've noticed, the complaints seem to center around average or less attractive women having what the guys view as unreasonably high standards, not the most desirable women.
They are. Problem is the women's standards are so incredibly unrealistically high to where very few men meet up to those standards. Even the ugly and average girls have those high standards.
Because you do and we see it in action everyday. And you girls can't be talking when you want guys to love you if your fat and out of shape. Maybe these ugly guys are flirting with you because your ugly lol
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Ummm don't you mean why do women create massive social campaigns to try and push men into liking what they think men should like?
Y does there have to be a rating on how someone looks? Why isn't someone's heart how you rate their appeal? Why is it the people with the biggest hearts get trampled on or looked over for the physically appealing?
Why do women get pissed at men's standards when older men go for younger attractive beautiful women? Why don't they find someone in the age range that suits them they more compatible with?
Of course you have nothing against it now because you are 20 years old. Wait another 10 to 20 years and reexamine your opinion. By the way, most men especially western men that use to do that, they have gone MGTOW and they aren't renting girls anymore like that anymore. They're going straight to dolls, cheaper and much much safer.
If a woman was fucking around till 40 years old and expect a high quality man then it’s her problème to be delusional. I’m willing to marry before the age of 25, cause it’s the range of age when I’m more attractive, fertile and allowed to have standards, especially that I expect to marry a guy who’s maybe a decade older than me, and more financially stable even if I’m educated and I’m waiting mariage to have sex.
According to what you said, you're not willing to wait until you are old to settle down, that's not what feminism is teaching women girls. Feminism is teaching them to wait until they have careers, don't get married and don't have children until they've had everything else they want. Feminism has turned western women into whores that get old and then want to settle down. So far by what you've told me, not so much with the materialism, but you do have the right idea about settling down before it's too late. Just don't let feminist IE feminazi's tell you any different.
@Why do women get pissed at men's standards when older men go for younger attractive beautiful women? Why don't they find someone in the age range that suits them they more compatible with?
How is this comparable to average guys refusing to go for average women
@VIVANT You see, the problem with older men not wanting to date older women is because they don't find them attractive anymore. At around age 40 older men find their daughters attractive by that time, not them anymore. So then why didn't the men settled down with those 40 year old women when they were the same age? Well because those women were chasing the top 10% of guys not giving them the time of day, that's why. Those women went on to marry those types of guys when they were younger thinking they could change them into what they wanted them to be. The raised children with those types of guys and spent the better part of the youth with those types of guys. But those better to do types of guys eventually do what they do best, because they still have what those girls when for, money. They find younger girls is what they do and ditch the marriage they never cared about in the first place or cause it to happen. And then the next thing you know, here comes those had it all done it all women thinking those guys that once did look at them are right there waiting for them to give them a second shot and but they're not. Those women gave the best part of their youth to those other men and those guys like their daughters by then. And at the age of 40, it's now the guys choice, not so much hers anymore and why should those guys choose them instead of the younger girls that have their youthful years to offer those guys something they missed out on and something that counted the most they have the ability to offer those guys children the guys didn't get to have. So now, why should those guys now give those older women the time of day? You tell me.
@ThisAndThat you’re littérale admiring that hypergamy exist in both genders. Men seek young attractive women and women seek strong providers. Why should an attractive woman give a chance to an average joe if she can get a hot guy? A lot of below average looking chicks were willing to date this rejected nice guys. These nice guys want the hottest women they can get but get bitter and angry when these women ignore them. What a double standard. They’re literally be like «why are women so shallow? I am just a genuine nice guy who want to date the hottest chick here!» And don’t believe that these nice guys are good men cause most of them are just like that in the beginning of the relationship but they often turn into cheaters and jerks! Don’t act like nooo woman in this world gave you a chance when you were both young, you just never gave a fuck about her cause she didn’t attracted you just like the hot chicks didn’t gave you a chance cause you didn’t attracted her. It’s like women are never allowed to settle down to something they like, when I hear you they must always date losers lmao
Yes I had two serious relationships when I was younger the last one driving me MGTOW monk 33 years ago and they were both hypergamous relationships. If you call gold digging standards then I guess so. We men base our attraction on you your person (women). You women base your attraction on objects, things (money). Do you see the difference? Either way, the system is rigged against men (myself), society sees me as bad and I like millions of other men see no point in dating relationships or marriage in this lifetime. I'm simply playing the waiting game waiting for my time to come and then I'm gone.
I think wemon should have standards that way they can try and achieve them I guess it is just me but I will be with who I please but If A ugly girl Is walking with me just wait I am going to change her to a queen
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Haha they complain because they don't meet them! Duh! Also they haven't been getting lucky
If they focused more on improving themselves they would meet more standards.
Also complaining is not masculine
Well also i think maybe a guy isn't super hot but maybe he isn't fat. So he still doesn't want a fat girl but she dont have to be hot. Nobody wants a fat girl except the weird fattie fetish men. Im good looking and i dont mind dating not super hot girls but they better be like size 0 or athletic bodies.
Thats gross, size 0 is underweight and its super unhealthy
@Smiley_face101 i think its sexy and how the fuck is it unhealthy? My girlfriend is size 0 and she just doesn't have much muscle. She still has jiggly boobs and ass.
Being underweight is worse then being obese when it comes to health
www.webmd.com/.../underweight-even-deadlier-than-overweight-study-says
www.google.com/.../underweight-people-face-significantly-higher-risk-of-dementia-study-suggests
www.google.com/.../319865
@Smiley_face101 and who says size 0 is underweight?
In most cases it is unless she is super short.
Models are size 0 and they are underweight
@Smiley_face101 oh yeah she's short. 5'2"
Oh yeah thats makes more sense then the 5'10 models who wear a size 0
Most of these "average guys" are lazy losers who just sit around all day eating junk and playing video games. Real men aren't afraid to put in the work required and respect themselves enough to do so and pursue what they want for themselves.
This kind of question is as old as Reddit. You're attention whoring us all with this one.
How "good looking" are you, again? We all know your personality is garbage anyway. Now, we've seen super ugly land whales with "standards" on TV.. just wanna make sure you're not a an obese/ugly internet chick with stage-5 NPD. Post your video for all of us ;)
Some women do have unrealistic standard but a lot of men say that because they don't have what you want yet they want you so they will try to lower them to their level by making you think they are unrealistic
That’s one good question. I totally support you. When i tell my guy friend that i want an intelligent guy who is educated and has a job, he tells me why i am looking up? although i am well educated with good job woman myself.
Because a lot of men can't accept the fact that women are more equal to men now, and women should've been equal with men since the beginning, nobody's better than another human being no matter the gender.
omg stfu white knight
From what I've noticed, the complaints seem to center around average or less attractive women having what the guys view as unreasonably high standards, not the most desirable women.
They are. Problem is the women's standards are so incredibly unrealistically high to where very few men meet up to those standards. Even the ugly and average girls have those high standards.
Because you do and we see it in action everyday. And you girls can't be talking when you want guys to love you if your fat and out of shape. Maybe these ugly guys are flirting with you because your ugly lol
Ummm don't you mean why do women create massive social campaigns to try and push men into liking what they think men should like?
Y does there have to be a rating on how someone looks? Why isn't someone's heart how you rate their appeal? Why is it the people with the biggest hearts get trampled on or looked over for the physically appealing?
Never had a problem attracting guys that meet my standards and to those who don't meet my standards I couldn't care less 🙂🙂🙂
Why do women get pissed at men's standards when older men go for younger attractive beautiful women? Why don't they find someone in the age range that suits them they more compatible with?
I have nothing against that, especially if the older man is wealthy and he offer comfort and stability for his younger attractive wife.
Of course you have nothing against it now because you are 20 years old. Wait another 10 to 20 years and reexamine your opinion. By the way, most men especially western men that use to do that, they have gone MGTOW and they aren't renting girls anymore like that anymore. They're going straight to dolls, cheaper and much much safer.
If a woman was fucking around till 40 years old and expect a high quality man then it’s her problème to be delusional. I’m willing to marry before the age of 25, cause it’s the range of age when I’m more attractive, fertile and allowed to have standards, especially that I expect to marry a guy who’s maybe a decade older than me, and more financially stable even if I’m educated and I’m waiting mariage to have sex.
According to what you said, you're not willing to wait until you are old to settle down, that's not what feminism is teaching women girls. Feminism is teaching them to wait until they have careers, don't get married and don't have children until they've had everything else they want. Feminism has turned western women into whores that get old and then want to settle down. So far by what you've told me, not so much with the materialism, but you do have the right idea about settling down before it's too late. Just don't let feminist IE feminazi's tell you any different.
@Why do women get pissed at men's standards when older men go for younger attractive beautiful women? Why don't they find someone in the age range that suits them they more compatible with?
How is this comparable to average guys refusing to go for average women
Dating within your own age bracket is normal
@VIVANT You see, the problem with older men not wanting to date older women is because they don't find them attractive anymore. At around age 40 older men find their daughters attractive by that time, not them anymore. So then why didn't the men settled down with those 40 year old women when they were the same age? Well because those women were chasing the top 10% of guys not giving them the time of day, that's why. Those women went on to marry those types of guys when they were younger thinking they could change them into what they wanted them to be. The raised children with those types of guys and spent the better part of the youth with those types of guys. But those better to do types of guys eventually do what they do best, because they still have what those girls when for, money. They find younger girls is what they do and ditch the marriage they never cared about in the first place or cause it to happen. And then the next thing you know, here comes those had it all done it all women thinking those guys that once did look at them are right there waiting for them to give them a second shot and but they're not. Those women gave the best part of their youth to those other men and those guys like their daughters by then. And at the age of 40, it's now the guys choice, not so much hers anymore and why should those guys choose them instead of the younger girls that have their youthful years to offer those guys something they missed out on and something that counted the most they have the ability to offer those guys children the guys didn't get to have. So now, why should those guys now give those older women the time of day? You tell me.
@ThisAndThat you’re littérale admiring that hypergamy exist in both genders. Men seek young attractive women and women seek strong providers. Why should an attractive woman give a chance to an average joe if she can get a hot guy? A lot of below average looking chicks were willing to date this rejected nice guys.
These nice guys want the hottest women they can get but get bitter and angry when these women ignore them. What a double standard. They’re literally be like «why are women so shallow? I am just a genuine nice guy who want to date the hottest chick here!»
And don’t believe that these nice guys are good men cause most of them are just like that in the beginning of the relationship but they often turn into cheaters and jerks!
Don’t act like nooo woman in this world gave you a chance when you were both young, you just never gave a fuck about her cause she didn’t attracted you just like the hot chicks didn’t gave you a chance cause you didn’t attracted her.
It’s like women are never allowed to settle down to something they like, when I hear you they must always date losers lmao
Yes I had two serious relationships when I was younger the last one driving me MGTOW monk 33 years ago and they were both hypergamous relationships. If you call gold digging standards then I guess so. We men base our attraction on you your person (women). You women base your attraction on objects, things (money). Do you see the difference? Either way, the system is rigged against men (myself), society sees me as bad and I like millions of other men see no point in dating relationships or marriage in this lifetime. I'm simply playing the waiting game waiting for my time to come and then I'm gone.
Because we don't meet those standards and it's always frustrating to know someone else thinks you're not good enough.
Set the bar high but accept that men will too. Dating is about equality and accepting each others imperfections. Scout until someone fits.
I think wemon should have standards that way they can try and achieve them I guess it is just me but I will be with who I please but If A ugly girl Is walking with me just wait I am going to change her to a queen
Because girls complain about guys having standards.
Plenty of research shows that women are more picky than men when it comes to looks.
Happens on both sides. It's just a war between insecure people whether male or female, who are upset they can't get whomever they want.