Why do guys say they leaving , but then always come back?

[LuWe22]

Can't they made up their minds or can't they resist?

[chistonejr]

When we feel held against the wall and angry, our senses become dull. If we really love you, we don't actually mean that we are leaving. When we leave, we really mean that we are going to get some air and calm down. Guys aren't big fans of confrontation and drama and when we actually face out, we could black out and not want to deal with anything anymore, but as long as you have always been good to us and mean a lot to us, we will always come back. We literally wouldn't have much of a reason to leave. But never use that against us because that will give us a real reason to.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I'd say both.

[LuWe22]

What makes it so unresistable?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

If I knew for sure, I'd be smarter.
I think it's mostly because of the allure and even the promise of some reward, even when you already know there's none.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Thanks for MHO!

[justheree]

They do that because we as humans forget to set boundaries. This comes to any type of relationship that is somewhat not making the effort to be there through good and bad. We deserve honest humble hearts to express what they desire. When someone sees no boundaries their tendencies never really change.

[SpacedCharr]

Because they're stupid, and they miss sex.

Only reason I can think of for wanting to go back to a woman who keeps rewarding that behaviour.

[lightbulb27]

connection and attachment. What if he saw in her the woman he thought he loved? he just gonna run? Nobody likes pain and suffering, but after we stop hurting, we go back, or get pulled back.

can't just run away every time we hurt. but after enough pin pricks, one starts to decide if they like pin pricks rest of their life... some don't.

[locoloco68]

More than likely the grass wasn't greener on the other side and I was at the song going it's on a Greener where you water it if you got somebody like that that leaves and comes back you said always so I presume it's happened a few times I take it you better off cutting it loose Love Hurts definitely if it's only one-sided

[TheLawAroundHere]

Because we can only see as far as the end of our dicks. We slam the door behind us, yell "fuck you!!!" as we are walking to our trucks. We then look down after a quarter mile and notice that u aren't giving us head. We have to fix that. Thats when u hear a knock on your door.

[zenbullet]

Guys just say they want to get back together to get laid

But also if it was a psychologically scarring break up, they may intellectually want to get back together but their reptile brain is still afraid and will sabotage it any way it can

[JohnDon9]

Beause he does not actually mean , instead what he needs more is your attention , we guys screw up when it comes to put up how we feel infront of our girlfriends

[vondam]

It can be very complex, they want to go because of other reasons but they can't live without you. But sometimes guys can use this as a form of control which is horrible in itself because people who feel have a genuine reason to leave are slated for it.

[NYCstreetPhotog]

I've never come back to someone I've left, but I have come back to someone that's left me. Maybe it has to do with the differences in the feeling of loss. With leaving someone, you have less loss, but if someone leaves you the loss is more poinient.

[Dongtai]

I don’t know what guys you’re referring to but this one has never gone back after he left.

You get one chance to break my heart. Just one. When I’m gone, I’m gone.

[Jjpayne]

Mind games but then sometimes they also have time to think about it and choose to try to make it right

[winterfox10]

Trust me, it's either because they can't make up their mind, or they haven't found something that's actually any better. Coming back is not the compliment that a lot of women seem to think it is.

[Hazelstar]

Because he was bored and he had no one.. You were there so that's why he had come back to you

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why girls keep saying they're leaving but always come back.

Girl: *moody*
Guy: you OK?
Girl: i'm fine just leave me alone
Guy: ok
Girl: GO AHEAD AND IGNORE ME YOU S. O. B.!!

[COMMODOREII]

Our hearts make us care and want to come back for love. It sucks.

[anon841]

At least someone here, who truly loved someone. I salute you!

[anon841]

Followed you. by the way, you are with a good friend "Whiteshoulder"

[COMMODOREII]

@anon841 oh yeah i never thought i would ever met such a strong beautiful soul with a big heart as @WhiteShoulder. 😊💓

[WhiteShoulder]

@anon841, COMMODOREII thank you 😊

[WhiteShoulder]

@COMMODOREII

[anon841]

@WhiteShoulder You found a friend who knows love.

[lofii]

He realized he couldn't do better so he had no choice but to return

[MementoMori_]

They think they can do better but then find out they can't and come back begging.

[OnitheWanderer]

Well, I think that's more vice versa. But I think it's more about ego and pride on both parties. When they use that phrase "I'm leaving"!

[nateliftsalot]

They realize it's not that easy to get laid once they leave.

[soleil2666]

Lol - because they are generally not as mean as women to actually leave (when something is still there)

[colivares878]

Most want to see if it's greener on the other side and once they realize that it's not they want to come back

[Manuel2]

I usually come back as the woman has changed for the better.
But usually when we get dumped, why try an easy lay to go back too