Is he being too attentive too soon?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy just about a week ago. He is 23 while I am 28. We went out 4 times in one week. We made out on the 3rd date and after that he got really intense. While he is genuinely sweet and nice the texting is pretty much all day and he asks if he can see me everyday. I don't know if this is normal or if he is being kinda too much. I feel overwhelmed by it a lot as I need space in general. Am I reading too much into it?

[SageBennyBagua]

Tell him u need and appreciate your space. If he gets upset. He isn't in it to win it. He is trying to honey pot you to control you eventually down the line. Or he isn't ready for your type of love. I don't think there is anything wrong with communication. But if all he says are nice sweet things eventually he will rot your teeth. Metaphorically speaking that is.

[Nik1hil]

You are over thinking. You need sexual release...
And please use his penis.. For the purpose Not a dildo or your fingers..

[FreyaRed]

Usually those types lose their interests similar quick.
He got a new toy he wants play with it, in two weeks he needs a new one.

[rafaelamf89]

This is kinda too much
He is behaving like he is your boyfriend

[Asker]

Yeah. It takes time to get there which I don't think he gets. He asks me about my day and all that is just too much. It's gentlemanly but very premature from my vantage point.

[jkay456]

Just tell him you're busy with work or busy in general and try to break up the texting, too much attention is bad for a relationship people need there own space, he should get the picture and talk when you both want to, if not pull the plug.

[JohnnWickk]

In one side it's too much, but in the other side it means that he really cares (and it's something you may not found in another relationship). I think you gotta talk with him explaining your point of view and make your decision regarding his answer or behavior after that

[Shiver]

He's really into you. Just tell him directly he's being a bit too aggressive and needs take it a bit more easy.

[ShowOff11]

He's 23 so for him that's in his zone. Well looks like that he really likes you.. And after making out i guess he just wants to be with you all the time..

[Rob19777]

you're not reading to much into it. it sounds like he's really needy unless you put out for him to soon. if you did then he's expecting it all the time from you and won't back off until he gets it

[Anonymous]

I assume he had to ask you out first