Is it "rude" not to congratulate someone who is having a baby? (Page 3)

[sukiana]

You give congrats if you want, if you dont want dont give.

[BagoH]

I can understand lol. I don't feel the need to say it either. Like wow congrats dude you just have birth to one more person. One more + to the billions of people we already have in here... 👏 👏 👏

[Just_a_human]

I don't think it's rude. I've never said that to anyone and probably never will. I don't view it as an accomplishment.

[Sir_Flerrin]

I believe it's rude to demand everyone to congratulate you on having a baby. Not everyone has the same interests. I personally would not.

[TacocaT6969]

No... like you said, all they did was have sex.

“Congratulations on your predictable cream pie results!”

[Justacatlady]

Why would it be rude? It’s not like you’re saying ew gross. You’re just not saying hooray. I see no issue with it

[Zweihander]

Why does she care about your congratulations so much. That's weird for a coworker in my opinion. I never congratulate my coworkers on anything unless I'm somewhat involved in it.

[Astarlessnightsky]

I don't know 🤷‍♂️
Depends how close you are, how old they are, wether or not they've trying to get pregnant for a long time...

[Bman4907]

Your coworker should mind her own damn business. It's not rude not to congratulate somebody for having sex and keeping it. It's rude as hell for people to demand you congratulate them or somebody else for having sex and keeping it.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I mean, even if you don't really care it takes two seconds to say congratulations

[anametouse]

Yeah you're not obligated to congratulate her, I think it depends on her situation. Like if she's made a blatant poor choice in a sexual partner and is gonna be a single mom then I would not congratulate her either

[purplepoppy]

I agree I don't see why people should be congratulated just because the condom burst

[PondyPand]

So no child is planned then?

[elite665]

😂”all she did was have sex”
That’s kinda rude in itself

[elite665]

I would whether mean it or not is different

[elite665]

You guys are forgetting the point of having children we are continuing the human life chain it’s always a goof thing

[Thatsamazing]

It's not rude-- it's literal fact. What are you talking about

[Applers64]

I don't think it is, if you don't care you don't care, its not rude at all.

[whty8911]

You're not congratulating them to fulfill your own need. It's for them. You should congratulate them.

[PDizzy]

it shouldn't matter because its your own opinion. but if the tables were turned how would you feel?

[SoMuchNut]

hey congratulations! You've done with billions of people before you have done and what billions will do after you, that anyone can do!

[Taylor_C]

Nah, depends on who she is, if just a co-worker I wouldn't bother.

[Anonymous]

I agree with you, I’m not going to congratulate someone for having sex and getting pregnant which is the whole point of why sex exists. I don’t care if that makes me “rude”.

[Opinion Owner]

“Good luck” would be a much better thing to say tbh and it would make a lot more sense. For going through the months of pregnancy, not miscarrying and going through child birth.

[marc575]

Giving positive energy is never wrong, just don't plan to give those awnsers.