Friends with benefits blocked?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I have a friends with benefits that I have blocked before for my own reasons but he managed to get in contact with me and all was fine.
I was having a good time with him the sex we have is top notch some of the best sex I’ve honestly ever had probably.
I recently blocked him though not because of anything he did but I stupidly reacted to one of his status not even react like a whole heart react and that’s not what we do it’s just weird so I felt embarrassed and blocked him again :(.
He later contacted me by calling my phone I know it was him because he’s the only person who has my # other than fam and well he called multiple times in a row but I didn’t know what to say I just get too nervous 😩 so I text him “who’s this?” He didn’t respond and now I’m sad that I may have lost him for good! What do you guys think? Is he upset with me? Will he come back?

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+1 y

Lmfaoo i love how there’s one girl on here liking all the bad comments on here like somebody’s mad 🤪😂☺️

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+1 y

Okay y’all he needed up getting back in touch with me last time night but this time he didn’t tell me who he was yet he just replied back with “loyalty” I asked what he means and once again he said nothing

[Drumlin2001]

Pretty lousy way to treat a friend.
He possibly thinks your playing a game. If you want him as a friend or anything more then you need go out on a limb and get in touch with him

[Asker]

Im not trying to treat him badly and I’m not playing games but I could see how he could think I’m being weird now :( and I’m embarrassed to lmfaoo I don’t just wanna go back and be like May I have some more dick sir and I apologize for blocking you lol I don't know how that would go !

[Drumlin2001]

Only you can fix it. You need to get over the embarrasment and do it. You'll face harder tests in the future.

[Asker]

Maybe I should just replace him? Is I don’t know if I have the guts :( I don't know why this is so hard for me

[Drumlin2001]

Your choice. You got a good thing or you roll the dice. Or you do both, get him back and audition for new booty calls.
Is friends with benefits all your looking for? Or do you want something more?

[Asker]

He gives me good dick :( and I found a new one but he hurt me because he used a dildo since he’s not big at all and yeah he ended up making me bleed for like a day so he cut me up somehow inside which is wack ! I don't know if I can go back now to him because he don’t know what he’s doing like my friends with benefits with a big dick :( I just want my old life back lol ! I need good easy nice dick that’s gonna actually leave me happy !

[Drumlin2001]

Then swallow you pride and go back to your friends with benefits.

[Iron_Man]

Move on those things never work out and you've already Blocked him

[Asker]

I know but the dick I reallyyyy liked it this time ! ☹️☹️

[888theGreat]

And they say men use women for sex.

[Asker]

So when we first meet he said he wanted to meet up and have sex and I so happened to have been looking for a hookup that day and we never discussed nothing further than that, there wasn’t nothing to me it was a friends with benefits like we just met up for sex there was nothing to it.

[jeb97xo]

Hey, can you private message me pls? Need to ask you a couple of questions

[Asker]

My level is still too low to mssg :(

[Loverguy69s]

please don't block unblock without any strongs reasons even if u want to block communicate the reason give closure and block this is the right way to do. Don't get carried away by your own emotions and act be practical people around you will feel more comfortable

[Asker]

I don’t want to sound mean when I say this but what if I genuinely don’t care about making fuck buddies comfortable? 🥺😭
And I blocked him for good it is what it is now we haven’t talked since the last text

[Asker]

But I genuinely don’t get what you’re saying though but I just mean like it’s different when it’s not an actual friend or boyfriend

[Loverguy69s]

Okay so maybe he is expecting some girl friendly behaviour from you so when u block him it annoys him. So u must make it clear to him and communicate that this is the way you are going to be once he knows your style then he will not be annoyed anymore.

[Loverguy69s]

You know when mens make friends with benefits and gives you benefits some of them starts expecting more they feel special that they are providing you thats why they expect more which they should not practically so u must let them know about their expectations limits.

[Asker]

I’ve done this to him before, I feel like maybe he should know better and he does I would say he hasn’t called again.
Also hmm but why do guys do this when guys also make it seem like if a girl does too much or actually starts to talk about those things it makes him feel weird?

[Loverguy69s]

It depends on personality of people. Some guys are cool about it and some are bit needy expecting or posessive they tend to become possessive or controlling everywhere they go. Its all about human personality and this happens with both guys and girls

[Asker]

I see I definitely feel that but I have one problems it’s just I’m more of a different personality, I don’t care but I’m big on rules and boundaries for myself and that makes me go a lot the times and I’m also not the type of person who can actually sit down and talk about what it is I’m feeling because for me it’s difficult to do and I sometimes don’t even know what to say I’m just really so bad at it

[Loverguy69s]

Yes i understand some people feel difficulty to tell about their feelings even i find it difficult so i always communication with text message where i can write down everything that i feel and want to say and let other know about it. I feel writing is much better than having a conversation because while having a conversation you may get diverted or forget what u exactly wanted to say or even an argument can happen so i find writing and texting a better option. Just write it down and send them because it's very important to communicate. Communication must happen and i feel writing is the best way to communicate

[Asker]

I definitely feel that but I guess I find these little awkward moments most difficult because what it was for me was I accidentally liked something and I felt strange about it like at the time I reacted quickly and didn’t know what to do and I don’t know like if there was even anything to say ;’/ so yeah I blocked him for it

[AltesBlank]

Just say that you are sorry and why you did what you did. It dosnt seem its just the sex you like and he is a men so he won't stay mad for long. Maybe give him something nice so he knows your sorry

[Asker]

Not it’s genuinely the sex he's dumb big and thick and he’s so freaky :(
Im embarrassed, what do you think he’s gonna think?

[AltesBlank]

Sounds like me😂 he will think that you are sorry and you like him or just his dick. He is a guy after all and a guy can't just say no to girl in times like this

[Asker]

See that’s why I don’t want to do it because I’m scared he’s gonna think I like him too much or something when I don’t even like him I just want him again :( It’s hard to be able to get that message across while taking back the fact I blocked him get me?

[AltesBlank]

I get your viewpoint but can you tell us what he posted that made you block him?

[888theGreat]

Sounds like a one way relationship, she mistreats him and he is stupid and just takes it. Yet they say women have it bad today.

[Asker]

I don’t even know I didn’t check tbh I just blocked him @altesBlank

[Asker]

I never mistreated him wtf I was nice to him I never said nothing bad to him

[ItsTheNephilim]

Move on. Can't tell for sure if he'll come back.

[Asker]

I agree :(

[Anonymous]

He’s a guy and your friend with benefits, tell him he’ll suck your dick and he’ll probably come back

[Anonymous]

he won't come back. muahaha

[Asker]

Lol girl my Dickk 😩😭😭💔💔

[Opinion Owner]

you have dick?

[Joker_]

Interesting

[Asker]

Why lol

[Joker_]

I don't know lol

[888theGreat]

You seem to me asked for this to happen.

[Asker]

What?

[888theGreat]

You blocked him why would he want to talk to you ever again? And maybe he doesn't think sex with you is as great as you do with him

[Asker]

Well he did sooo
Didn’t you read my edit
And well he did because he’s come back twice now regardless I’m the one who left that ass wtf his sex wasn’t good enough for me ^.^

[Asker]

Lol I can’t even imagine being blocked and still trying to go back and talking about some loyalty like lol

[Anonymous]

Well shit

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