I’ve read that this is a way to know if a man is definitely attracted to you. However I want to hear it from you guys, especially older guys, preferably 30 years or older. I was sitting next to my male colleague and he had no one else sitting on the other side of him. During this time, our legs touched at times, and our arms and shoulders. He did not move away so to not be touching. Is this an automatic sign of attraction? And what would you have thought if you were in this situation with a female co-worker?