He sounds like an asshole. It's probably not your fault, some men are just dicks. I remember I had a guy who was engaged to the so-called "love of his life" message me for a hookup. Like, WTF, dude?
Anyway, who knows what's going on in his head. Maybe he found another girl, maybe he just got tired of the sex, maybe he just wants to be alone. I wouldn't overthink it.
The blocking thing is weird, but he probably just wants you out of his life and probably thinks you are waaaay more into him than you are. I once hooked up with a guy at my college who thought he was God's gift to the Earth and he wound up blocking as well. The only reason I wanted to reach out to him was to see if he wanted his passport back! (He left it at my place). Why did he block me? Probably an ego thing, like, look bitch I can have sex with you, leave and then never talk to you again!
So maybe it's a power thing? Either way, he doesn't sound like boyfriend material and you deserve better.
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Sounds like a jerk. Even if you do like him do you really want to pursue anything in the future with an immature guy like that? Imagine what he would do if you DID have a fight. I would move on and find a better friends with benefits, or maybe try looking for a relationship with someone.
I don't know what it's like for you after the sex. Maybe you feel fulfilled and happy and that's ok be there's no reason he feels the same.
If he has actual feelings for you and it's highly possible even if you haven't noticed it then you can bet that when he goes home and wakes up to the reality that while he's sleeping with you you're not truly he's girlfriend and can at any moment find someone else as he's not even a contender, he'll be very down. Like someone who wakes up from a high and instantly regret it.
Perhaps it got too much to bear one time and he blocked you, only to realize that he doesn't wanna lose you completely so he came back and ended the freinds with benifits arrangement.
Now this may or may not be the case but he does mean something to you then I suggest you dig deeper and don't leave it at that it's only fair after so much time spent pleasuring eachorher.
Maybe he thought you posted the dress picture as you were going out with someone and he got bit with some jealousy. He probably realized he overreacted and fixed it. That’s just my guess though. 🤷♂️
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Consult him and ask him what's wrong, get closure from him. He might have got a sense that you had a potential interest in him, maybe you did something that confused him, or he's looking for a serious committed relationship. The only way to find out is to communicate with him like on a phone call, FaceTime or meeting up in person to sort things out. If you have feelings for him you should tell him even if he doesn't or does feel the same way.
You violated the friends with benefits rule: You caught feelings and concerns.
When you get into a friends with benefits situation with a man, would you say that it creates an impression of high self esteem, self respect, strong boundaries, confidence, wisdom, and feminine energy?
He probably got serious with another woman and didn't want to jeopardize that
“and ended up saying that he wants to move on from this lifestyle.” Well there’s your answer. He wants to move on from you.
E: It was an accident.
I did that here once... again, by accident.Perhaps you should have a lengthy discussion with him?
Other option: dude found something more steady.
Why do you care? After all he’s nothing but a stiff dick for you to bounce on from time to time right?
So friendship between woman and men doesn’t exist?
He’s likely seeing someone
Didn't you ask this previously?
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