I also told her I think it was more about her being uncomfortable seeing him cry. Dude is like 6'3, well built, and has what I call a scruffy lumberjack look with his beard and stuff. Not someone you'd think would cry, but I think it made her uncomfortable. She said she just doesn't see the point in him crying over something he can't control.
I told her she was being kind of a bitch and she hung up on me and won't return my phone calls now. I'm not sure how many years they have been together. My guess is 3, but I don't remember the exact number. She was with him before I met her.