Do men post on their story to get girls’ attention?

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I’ve been talking to this guy for over a month and he has only posted once since we met. He has posted twice in the last twelve hours and we haven't spoken in two days. He kinda blew me off this weekend but do you think he could be trying to get my attention? Or am I just overthinking it

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Answer 1

TruthBringer | 68 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Dudes who post pictures of their muscles if it's at home, at the gym or on a vacation are obviously doing this to get female attention. Same goes for 'hot' selfies. You think they are doing it for their mates? Well perhaps yes if they are gay.

If it's pictures of trips, events, birthdays or anything that doesn't involve them showing off their sexual value, then it's just something they like to share with everyone.

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1 mo
Thank you

Answer 2

Asker

Thank you

Answer 3

Stevepro68 | 75 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Guys who are interested in you will contact you. Male average behavior is aggressive. Guys that play games are hiding multiple women. They play the mindgame your suggesting.
If he's not posting stories for you he's not interested in you enough. He is not sending a secret message.

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RawIronhide | 98 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Well, it's not exactly like that but kind of. He's happy to be talking to you, this makes him more optimistic and social, that's why. There's a connection but not that direct, he's not just trying to impress you.

Answer 5

MountAverage | 156 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Why are you asking if "men" do that when you're actually just wondering about that one specific guy?

Asker

1 mo
I should’ve said boys. And I’m asking for the general male population. If I only wanted to know about him, I’d ask him only
MountAverage

1 mo
Yeah no, I got that part. But you're asking "do men" do that? You say you mean "in general"? So, are you basically asking how common or not common that is among men? The way you phrased it is anything but clear.
Asker

1 mo
Okay well I apologize for the misunderstanding then. Do you have input?
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MountAverage

1 mo
Just to be clear, it was not meant as an attack. I just wanted to understand.

Personally I find it rather hard to say how common or not something like that is. I'd assume only rather inexperienced, immature guys would do that. As for your guy - no idea, it's literally impossible for us to know what his intentions are. There's nothing about what you told us that clearly indicates one way or another.

Answer 6

Asker

I should’ve said boys. And I’m asking for the general male population. If I only wanted to know about him, I’d ask him only

Answer 7

MountAverage

Yeah no, I got that part. But you're asking "do men" do that? You say you mean "in general"? So, are you basically asking how common or not common that is among men? The way you phrased it is anything but clear.

Answer 8

Asker

Okay well I apologize for the misunderstanding then. Do you have input?

Answer 9

MountAverage

Just to be clear, it was not meant as an attack. I just wanted to understand.

Personally I find it rather hard to say how common or not something like that is. I'd assume only rather inexperienced, immature guys would do that. As for your guy - no idea, it's literally impossible for us to know what his intentions are. There's nothing about what you told us that clearly indicates one way or another.

Answer 10

Anonymous

I think most men and women post because they want to share something that made an impression on them. That's it.

Answer 11

InferiorElegy | 51 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Depends on the guy really, I do it so I can always go back and view things.

Answer 12

spartan55 | 13.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You girls and social media... smh.

Asker

1 mo
Trust me I wish it wasn’t this way but I can’t change the world
Dreamy2020

1 mo
Instagram is the new dating plattform.
spartan55

1 mo
There is nothing that prevents you from communicating in person. Social media is given WAY too much social value by girls.
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Asker

1 mo
Well 1. He lives 2 hrs away and we both have full time jobs so we can’t see each other every day. 2. I am trying to see him in person more... but I don’t want to invest energy if it’s not reciprocated.

Answer 13

Asker

Trust me I wish it wasn’t this way but I can’t change the world

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Dreamy2020

Instagram is the new dating plattform.

Answer 15

spartan55

There is nothing that prevents you from communicating in person. Social media is given WAY too much social value by girls.

Answer 16

Asker

Well 1. He lives 2 hrs away and we both have full time jobs so we can’t see each other every day. 2. I am trying to see him in person more... but I don’t want to invest energy if it’s not reciprocated.

Answer 17

loooooop

Xper 5

You're overthinking it

Answer 18

roody | 62 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Overthinking.

Answer 19

Iamcoming

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Yeah sometimes did

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