Why Are Men So Indecisive?

[Ash525]

This has happened too many times. I don't get it... Its like a guy will start something with u and everything will be fine in the beginning and then all of a sudden they don't feel ready anymore or don't want to be in anything serious anymore. Like okay... but WHY didn't you say that in the first place before feelings got involved? It makes no sense...

[Jjpayne]

I think sometimes we think before we leap. We dive in, just going in and giving it our all. But sometimes we don't think about the significance of our actions and our words.

We catch ourselves in a net overstating ourselves before we should. We want to do the full on cuddle but then once it happens... Oh they believe this, they act this way, they like that stuff... Then we get skittish. And like, am I really sure this is right.. Then we back off. I think with women they are more careful at times then men and think things fully though before they say or do anything. This is the same idea of the power, in "I love you" us men are now smart that when you say those words you need to be ready for them because those words right there are a verbal contract.

But I think it could also mean that maybe they also found someone else too... You really never know sometimes... But my guesses are they got spooked with something and it made them nervous to fully commit or they simply wanted to date another girl... Those would be my guesses... There is also fear of commitment too 🤔

[Ash525]

Yeah, it could be anything😩😩😩 The guy I was talking to just said he didn't feel like he was going to give me 100% and that he just wanted to chill... But he was acting totally different before that... But I'm not going to go into detail. I made another question about what happened a couple of days ago... But I'm just going to move on I think because he doesn't even talk to me anymore... even after he said that he wanted to keep our friendship but whatever.

[Jjpayne]

He sounds pretty uncommitted... I think even at a younger age it is hard to make a guy commitment 😂

[Ash525]

Yeah, we clicked very well tho... Almost too much. I think the possibility of us actually becoming something serious scared him off and he felt like he wasn't ready

[JDavid25]

Well, men usually ain't indecisive when it comes to women.. They just were lyin to get somethin they want and whatnot..

[Ash525]

Manipulation🙄

[JDavid25]

Yeah that's probably what it is... That's too bad..

[Ash525]

I guess...

[JDavid25]

Yeah, well it'll be fine Ashy..

[Ash525]

Thank u

[JDavid25]

Of course.. 😊..

[DizzyDesii]

Either they realized they reallybwasnt get fcked anytime soon, or someone “easier came along”, or you said something they wasn't feel but they too afraid to bring it up so they take the easy way out. I could keep going but then i’d sound like her lol
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[Barbaric]

They were either lying about wanting something serious in the first place, or something happened that put them off the idea.

[Liam_Hayden]

A lot of guys will come on strong because they want sex. They never had the intention of committing.

[Ash525]

That's real trifling...