Lowkey we kinda dumb, and forget half the time... at least for me... and I get sidetracked easily, gaming, cooking, etc.. can't be sure if all or most guys are like this.
If they are like me, I have just one finger. Not like some girls I've seen they are a full speed, thumbs fingers and chat to her friends at the same time..
it's a double edged sword, because if we respond too quickly, she loses interest. and before you say that that isn't true. How do you think guys learned to wait to respond?
I can't answer this. I find it's the reverse for me. I'm always quick to respond then left waiting by so many people I know
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We don't want to appear to desperate. Women like us more when we ignore em
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like I was taking a while to reply to this girl caused i missed her text cause my data was turned off, and you know what? Her interest in me increased. She double texted me asking how i slept the next morning etc she seemed interested. I texted her back immediately and apologized for missing her text, u know what she did?
That's right! Ghosted me! Haven't heard from her in 2 weeks
Lol XD I appreciate your honesty, it’s really frustrating when girls lie about this dynamic. So you really would ghost a guy for replying to soon? Sheesh that is a little far in my opinion lol u girls are nuts. From now on your all getting ignored as much as possible
Lol I tried to think of what to ask... and honestly, at this point I pretty much know everything as far as I can tell XD been on this site for too long. Your honesty is refreshing, but it doesn't tell me anything new lol... unless you can give me an answer to a question I don't yet know I want to ask
This is very common for girls, I'm just trying to get to the bottom of the situation. Is it because y'all don't have any hobbies or friends? ... Y'all are like "omg he didn't respond in 10 min, I'm gonna get mad and ignore him for half an hour when he writes back" like dafuq is wrong with all y'all?
And you keep making shit up in your heads over and over. He's not responding straigh away, this must mean he is playing games/hard to get/isn't interested... Y'all need a psychiatrist.
I guess we are wired a bit differently than men, and we like the reassurance and just emotional feeling of the guy's presence. A lot of us are actually really busy... You know what I mean?
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They are most likely trying to craft their texts in such a way that they don't come across as thirsty, so it takes longer for them to respond
Because as a general rule we can't stand texting...
Speak for yourself. I love texting.
That's why I said 'general rule'. Get it?
Lowkey we kinda dumb, and forget half the time... at least for me... and I get sidetracked easily, gaming, cooking, etc.. can't be sure if all or most guys are like this.
If they are like me, I have just one finger.
Not like some girls I've seen they are a full speed, thumbs fingers and chat to her friends at the same time..
youd be surprised on how busy someone can be during lockdown
True.
Some of us or matching the efforts the girl is giving
They might just not care enough to reply fast
Or they just busy lol
it's a double edged sword, because if we respond too quickly, she loses interest. and before you say that that isn't true. How do you think guys learned to wait to respond?
I can't answer this. I find it's the reverse for me. I'm always quick to respond then left waiting by so many people I know
We don't want to appear to desperate. Women like us more when we ignore em
like I was taking a while to reply to this girl caused i missed her text cause my data was turned off, and you know what? Her interest in me increased. She double texted me asking how i slept the next morning etc she seemed interested. I texted her back immediately and apologized for missing her text, u know what she did?
That's right! Ghosted me! Haven't heard from her in 2 weeks
Lol I am gonna come out clean and admit this... I am just like that girl. I don't know what it is - it is the attention? the rush? I don't know?
Lol XD I appreciate your honesty, it’s really frustrating when girls lie about this dynamic. So you really would ghost a guy for replying to soon? Sheesh that is a little far in my opinion lol u girls are nuts. From now on your all getting ignored as much as possible
Not for replying too soon but it can make us bored if we haven't caught any feelings yet :)
Hmm good to know ya I suspected as much... any other secrets u wanna share XD
Lol ask ahead and I will be honest :)
Lol I tried to think of what to ask... and honestly, at this point I pretty much know everything as far as I can tell XD been on this site for too long. Your honesty is refreshing, but it doesn't tell me anything new lol... unless you can give me an answer to a question I don't yet know I want to ask
No telling how busy he became but messaged you as soon as he could really have happened like that
We have to be careful of what we say... that and proofreading for errors before sending
he could have had something come up or unexpected happened
he's either actually busy
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he's playing hard to get
it's likely the former
I guess more guys are learning that if they text too much then that shows too much attraction. Which then turns most women off.
They dont, he probs dont like u much as u like him
I don't like anyone at the moment unfortunately :/
Because girl understands entirely different from the text sent by boy. So to give clear idea men takes lot of time to reply.
Because you're not a priority in our lives at that point.
Because if we reply fast, it turns ya off, so we have to play your stupid games to make you want us
Don't wanna seem desperate. Some girls like being texted all the time some don't so we take our chances with the ones that don't like it I guess.
What i'd like to know is why do you require more attention than a toddler?
Ouch... it's not that deep at all mate lol
This is very common for girls, I'm just trying to get to the bottom of the situation. Is it because y'all don't have any hobbies or friends? ... Y'all are like "omg he didn't respond in 10 min, I'm gonna get mad and ignore him for half an hour when he writes back" like dafuq is wrong with all y'all?
And you keep making shit up in your heads over and over. He's not responding straigh away, this must mean he is playing games/hard to get/isn't interested... Y'all need a psychiatrist.
I guess we are wired a bit differently than men, and we like the reassurance and just emotional feeling of the guy's presence. A lot of us are actually really busy... You know what I mean?