Do I confront a guy who has been breadcrumbing and ghosting me or just ignore him and move on?

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So this guy I’ve been seeing has been doing everything, as I’m just realizing, to distance himself.
First he told me he was busy and we could talk only once a week. Then he refused to meet with me unless sex was involved.
Finally he started acting like we are strangers who have sex.
I need to move on from this toxicity.
Do I confront him or just go and live my life in peace?

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loveslongnails | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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The answer to this SHOULD be obvious to you.

1) DO NOT CONFRONT HIM... it will do no good because he already doesn't give a shit about you, so it won't phase him. What it WILL do is feed his ego and let him know that he hurt you, and had the power to do so. By no means should you give him that satisfaction, spoken or implied.

2) IGNORE HIM, but don't block him on social media... Why? Blocking him, again, says " You have the power to hurt me". Unfriend him, but it's better to ignore him if he contacts you, than to respond in any way if he does.

3) Stick to your decision. This guy is a worthless waste of time. Confrontation is a waste of YOUR time, and energy. You can't teach a pig to sing.

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Anonymous

I don't know what you're complaining about. You're getting sex without the hassle of commitment. It's a good thing.

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havingfun101

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Women don't want sex like men, they want money, like beggars.

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havingfun101

Women don't want sex like men, they want money, like beggars.

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havingfun101 | 208 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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You ever read hansel and gretel? 😀

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What’s the connection?
havingfun101

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Girls are so dumb; I try to play with them and they're all: "I don't get it, explain it to me, derp?"
Honey trapping is an investigative practice involving the use of romantic or sexual relationships for interpersonal, political (including state espionage), or monetary purpose. The honey pot or trap involves making contact with an individual who has information or resources required by a group or individual; the trapper will then seek to entice the target into a false relationship (which may or may not include actual physical involvement) in which they can glean information or influence over the target.

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What’s the connection?

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havingfun101

Girls are so dumb; I try to play with them and they're all: "I don't get it, explain it to me, derp?"
Honey trapping is an investigative practice involving the use of romantic or sexual relationships for interpersonal, political (including state espionage), or monetary purpose. The honey pot or trap involves making contact with an individual who has information or resources required by a group or individual; the trapper will then seek to entice the target into a false relationship (which may or may not include actual physical involvement) in which they can glean information or influence over the target.

Do I confront a guy who has been breadcrumbing and ghosting me or just ignore him and move on?

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