Are men just big babies when they blame women for all their problems?

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ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Let's be real here: most men don't really blame women for all their problems. They may blame women for some of them, and they may even be angry at women in general period for how they feel because a woman/women did them wrong in some way, but most men do not actually blame women for all their problems. And it's honestly a ridiculous lie and idea that continues to circulate in our culture, and is used to vilify men.

Anger, resentment, and disappointment - even with the opposite sex - really is a normal emotion that many people will experience at one point or another in their lives. It's neither good or bad. When women are angry at men or speak against them, I am not affected by it, do not feel threatened, or even resent them in return. I can obviously see that she's dealing with some feelings that she has to work through, and she may not even be wrong to have those feelings. It is what it is. And it's the same for men who are going through the same thing.

The difference is that when men are experiencing negative feelings and outlooks about women, we are not actually trying to understand or even help him through it. But when women are experiencing those feelings and outlooks, most people sympathize and empathize with her.

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

Damn right!
This is not to be confused with having mostly unsuitable candidates "to choose from" but it applies nevertheless.

If men would listen for once in a while, they'll be able to deal with it at least to some degree and navigate through the obstacles -> According to women - What's the problem with men today?

I find a satisfying number of pinks saying how they don't really have such big problems with men or that the problems men have are ultimately about them keeping up with self inflicting harms (extreme macho images, obsession over tool size ETC...).

navyrobin · Accepted Answer

I don't want to say the majority because I could be wrong, but a LOT of men on this app are very whiny--they complain about everything, they're massive hypocritical douchebags, and they think they're the shit but they just live miserable little lives with no end goals.

Mature men don't do this. Mature men TALK about issues going on, but they don't blame an entire gender for it.

Mature men don't say "Women are so narcissistic, this is why we have to pay for children we don't even want."

I love how some idiots say, "Girls have it so easy in life" all while sitting in his little couch, watching porn and eating junk food, and having his mommy cook for him 3 times a day. This is the type of guy who says "Women have it so easy in life."

So, yes, a lot of men do blame women for their problems. They're irrational and overemotional. I usually laugh at them and don't take them seriously.

Yes, women AND men face issues in the world. But that does not mean an entire gender is responsible for those issues. We as a society create and solve those problems. We're always improving.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Why are we insulting babies now 🤣 Anyone  who can't take responsibility for themselves or their own actions, failures or life and has to lay the blame on others or a whole gender is really Irresponsible and immature..  Babies cry as a way to express needs because that's the only way they know how to communicate, but they can still be intelligent... Anyone that keeps blaming everyone else in life, well I wouldn't call that intelligence... So... Baby no... Idiot immature asshats,  YES ... but they come in both male and female form 😁

Ozanne · Answer

Can I just add that it's a huge turn-off to meet a man and he's blaming anyone - his ex-wife/girlfriend, women in general, the government, politicians, their parents, or whoever has caused him some grief when trying to have a conversation with him in the early stages of meeting/dating. (I'm quite sure guys will agree that this is a turn off when women do this too.)

I get it. We're living in a no-fault society these days. Everyone has to blame everyone and everything instead of making improvements within their own lives with what they can control. To bemoan how awful whichever group it is that they've got issues with is exhausting and irritating to have to listen to. I don't care how much someone thinks they're right about it, it's bullshit to have to sit there and listen to it like a broken record every day. I don't care who is doing it, and who it's about. It's a turn off.

Jjpayne · Answer

Yes and no,

Overall, it's easy to blame people and I guess, even in this case, blaming a gender...

But I think it's simply wrong to simply shift blame because its convenient for you

However, that does not mean that all girls are perfect all the time either.

We as humans no matter what the gender have to be looking out for each other. It's less about blame and more what do we do with that blame.

I'd say education and awareness for equality and helping both to work together

Arivor · Answer

It' was Aliens I tell ya, ALIENS!! I hate blaming anyone other than myself for my problems. Doing so would mean that I am not in full control of my life and allow others the power over me to cause problems in my life. People who refuse to take responsibility for their own actions and problems and blame other with a "not my fault" attitude are either narcissists, sociopaths or psychopaths. At least they are as far as I'm concerned, and I am not fond of their existence at all.

Newhead · Answer

Yup, that's why they usually end up with a controlling woman, if they aren't the ones being that way. Most men need someone to tell them what to do, that's why they need to choose wisely.

mobjay82 · Answer

Ok no guys are not babies , but this is probably your third guy you've been with that behaves like the previous guy. what does that say about you. when women say "fuck all men they are all the same" that's a weak women that can't be alone and hops from relationship to another. Or you took advice from your female friend and advice you to get over someone you gotta get under someone. take a look at that person life how is her life her relationship. take [time after a breakup learn to meditate forgive and let go and welcome a new relationship. If im going through a break up i avoid at all cost discussing with friends tyhat got hurt

Anonymous · Answer

Anyone is a big whiny baby when they dont take responsibility for anything and just blame it on everyone else. 🙂

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not, they infest and ruin every manly hobby with their feminism! Gaming is the last stand against the feminazis, and as anyone can see, hags and their simps gets away with attacking men. So hell no. Bohoo, this game is problematic because it has a sexy female character!

RoxyFoxx · Answer

Anyone who blames anyone else for his or her problems is an immature baby. Period.

Hurlyburly · Answer

Adults are big babies when they blame other people for all of their problems. I'm not sure what genders gave to do with that though.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not that it doesn't exist. But I also don't buy it when women insist that the men are being big babies, when that's basically just code for not liking the men. Like, it's funny how it's *apparently* so often that the men are "just being babies" and the women just aren't fucking anything up. So they're reducing the conclusions that they can come to down to two outcomes: either the women are right or the men are wrong.
And obviously something is wrong with their perception if these are the outcomes they overwhelmingly arrive at.

PrinceNeo · Answer

If they blame all women then yeah but if they blame specific women for their problems then no. Example if a girl cheats on a guy and now that guy gets into a new relationship and he has trouble trusting her and gets paranoid from things she does that makes him suspiciousthen the reason for him being so suspicious in the first place is because of the chick that cheated on him which is something he could blame on that woman that did that to him however in that same logic if he did that with several women that he met after then he's being a big baby because he should give himself time to heal and get over his problems before he even bother to get into a new relationship anyways. So to reiterate it's not being a baby if there's an actual problem however it is in a circumstance where it's not that big of an issue or the issue should have been something that was moved past.

kambo_trick3y · Answer

As a gigantic baby who blames both genders for my problems I take offense to this.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Having legitimate criticism of women is not being a baby. I wish we would apply this reasoning to women, see if they respond differently (but that will sadly never happen, no one would ever question a woman who says all men are dogs or all men are cheaters but if a man points to factual data showing were women could improve suddenly he is the asshole. Yet some how its women who are oppressed, funny how that works.).

Mystic_Nova · Answer

Yes, but women do it also, so nobody is better or worse than anybody else.

Hangry22 · Answer

Especially the ones who blame their girlfriend/wife for their own cheating behaviour

JDavid25 · Answer

Well, a lot of men and women blame men for women's problems are they big babies? But from what I know most men don't blame women for all of their problems only the problems that have somethin absolutely to do with women.. The fact that you have more men votin yes than no shows that more men would rather not blame women for any of their problems..

JBinIdaho · Answer

A person who blames others for their problems is giving up their personal autonomy in life. The only person who has any control over your situation is you. Unfortunately, some problems can only be relieved by leaving the situation. In relationships, and indeed LIFE, each person is responsible for their own motives, behaviors, AND consequences. Blaming others is simply a way to avoid the discomfort of one's own inaction.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

You’re a cry baby if you blame the opposite gender for a your problems, man or woman

Texaskid1 · Answer

When sandwiches are not made and shirts not ironed I blame women.  This is why the women of G@G need spanky time.  Iron my shirt woman!!!

RawIronhide · Answer

Yes the deffinition of adolescents, Take responsibility! even if you think it's her fault, what did you do wrong that's truly what it means to be a man.

The_Inquisitor · Answer

They can blame a women if she actually is his problem, IE, divorcing him and taking half of everything, the kids and the dog and car and house. (doesn't feel like half but apparently that is half)

Sakura-san · Answer

Most men are big babies in many things but they act manly when it comes to sex. lol

FairEnough · Answer

Doesn't make anyone a baby but it means they got some problems they need to work on.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

By in large, yes. There are instances, like divorce, where I can see their case but most men I know who blame women don't want to look inward at their faults but instead project their insecurities onto women.

WhiteGlaze · Answer

Its almost always more to it than that but yeah sometimes they are. Women get screwed up jn society in similar ways as men. Problem is less and less people care to take that into account when approaching a relationship. Its based on if you're up to par with expectations at that moment rather than willing to help eachother progress. And in a lot of cases people use the confusion to their advantage and screw eachother over and so the cycle never ceases.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I knew most females would vote yes.

It's funny, so what is a woman who puts all the blame of her problems on men?

Here comes all the comments of females saying women are just women, men are the blame for everything bullshit.

ChiTown33 · Answer

As much as women?

You have to be more specific coach.

I give credit to women for some of the goblins in my head. But i don't blame anyone for anything. If no woman i've fancied ever had any interest in me how would that be her fault? Now if she did, and decided to play games with me. Or not let her feelings be known ( which is still playing games lol) then it would be her fault now wouldn't it.

TallAnon · Answer

No, in real life people just seem to do what they need to do. On the internet everyone with an outspoken opinion seems to act like a baby.

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

I actually rarely see such guys in real life but so many guys on gag or in general on the internet are blaming women for every shit maybe because internet is the home of incels

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t believe they are some women put a block on things but they don’t do it to me because I won’t tolerate it. I’m soft in the beginning trying to win her over but once everything is established and then I’m the alpha male of the relationship and the female is the submissive nurturing listener and follower. If I can do that with a Cuban girl I can do that with everybody lead the pack. Head of the table top dog

Guy0nGaG · Answer

For the most yes, but some men have been COMPLETELY fucked over by women. I hear of one guy who found out that his wife was having an affair and wanted to kick her out of the house, she falsely accused him of beating on her and the guy she was having an affair with lied and said he was a witness and the husband who was fucked over spent 10 years in prison. I think he has every right to complain.

WesBrewer · Answer

Men should never make blame something on a woman, look at what happened to adam when he blamed eve.

PersoncslledPierson · Answer

I never blame them for anything, accept the fact it’s extremely difficult to get a girlfriend or someone who likes you cos they are extremely picky and only want 10/10 chads even tho I’m decent, all their egos are so big and think they’re the best, even ugly girls want a guy who’s 7/10 or above... so entitled

This isn’t exactly me blaming woman for it tho, it’s jus a fact that they’re like this, I’m jus telling reality

Anonymous · Answer

Some men need to grow a pair and take responsibility for their own actions instead of blaming everyone else.

YHL6965 · Answer

Blaming groups is usually not a solutions. I would say that, if you want to blame someone or something, it's better be precise and realistic if you want to be believable.

allaboutyou2 · Answer

Men who blame anyone for all their problems are delusional, dishonest and are not self aware.  Most people cause their own problems.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Equally as much as the women who blame men for all their problems.

missjenny · Answer

Only if the problem were created by him. Or if it was him seeking that problem in the first place. I can’t deal with such person. It’s like having a child which wasn’t from ur vagina

Phoenix98 · Answer

You mean like how women blame men for all theirs lol? That's a two way street right there. ( talking about a specific group of women not all women as a whole )

purplepoppy · Answer

When a man succeeds it's entirely down to his abilities and when he fails its always down to things outside his control.

Anonymous · Answer

Anyone blaming a group of people for their problem is a tantrum child. Be it a men blaming women, women blaming men, or people blaming a single race.

Knighted2170 · Answer

In my opinion a boy blames others for his problems and failures. A man owns his problems and failures.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

What have you done? xD

supercutebutt · Answer

Yes and they are also usually Tumptarded gentlemen.

Hermes-Paris · Answer

Like the say here in Mexico... No mames guey

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

Not sure why you asked this since there are both guys and women who blame others for their problems even if the problem is of their own fault.

Anonymous · Answer

guys don't fall in this sell out guy questions... by the way to the asker. I will not dislike you cause you like it so... wanna be of provocateur... you just gonna go to the ignore in the future box...

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Honestly, my experience has been the other way around.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Sure. Just like women being big babies when they blame men for all their problems.

es20490446e · Answer

Some women (and males) are horrible, but you get out of it and that's all. If you get hurt it's because you are allowing it somehow.

Jinnytty18 · Answer

Women literally support 3rd men from countries where there is a high percentage of rape and violence. Native born men will have to put up with the violence now.

So yes women literally can corrupt a country.

Massageman · Answer

Yes, and women are big babies when THEY blame MEN for all of THEIR problems!!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Regardless of gender, if you go around blaming people for X, Y and Z throughout your life then you need to grow the hell up.

Anonymous · Answer

Are women just big babies when they blame men for all their problems?

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Anyone who blames another, unless that person is physically enforcing restrictions, is a whiner.

The_unknown_memer · Answer

If your talking about the sexist attitudes some women have then no. But yes many of them are incels

Cherokeehp · Answer

In a lot of cases yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, they are giant crybabies. Those men are just the male version of feminists.

KingOfDoriath · Answer

What If women are actually responsible for their problems though? lol

Don-__-Don · Answer

Sounds like mgtow in a nutshell.

Are men just big babies when they blame women for all their problems?

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