My boyfriend keeps playing video games with other girls?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I are both gamers, he has been playing games without me and doesn't include me. He now makes himself hidden, so I won't' know he is playing with them. But I can clearly tell that he was on and playing with her and them. I have told him I want to spend more time with him and need too to make this relationship work, and I have told him it makes me jealous. The hiding is making me believe he is cheating on me. He goes into other servers so I won't see him playing but I used my alias and went on the server and found out they were. This is a long-distance relationship, I don't know if I should call him out about this girl and just let it go when I called him out before he got all defensive. This could also be my anxiety and depression going wild. I have asked other people about her and they told me not to worry, but his sister told me she is bad news.

[Anonymous]

So are you looking for advice? If he's going out of his way to hide that he's spending time with someone, then there probably is a reason to hide it. He probably is flirting. Ordinarily I would think it silly to be so jealous over him just playing an online game with another female, but that he feels the need to hide it makes it very suspicious. At the very least, it is disrespectful when he knows your feelings and has chosen to ignore them. He could invite you along, play with you, and then he'd still get to play with his friend and keep you happy. But he doesn't. So what does he not want you to hear?

[Anonymous]

Could be that his playing style does not match with yours.

But if he is going such lengths, then maybe there is something.

[Mamabear123]

I don’t think the problem here is the other girls. The problem here is that this is that you don’t feel a proper connection to this person. It’s a long distance relationship which means you’ll always feel insecure about it. Deep down you know this isn’t what you want or what is right. Listen to your gut and don’t waste your time in something like this.

[jahaims]

Anytime someone hides something it means they are up to no good. Call him out and ask why he is hiding it.

[havingfun101]

Ya boring?