I am telling you, you have got a keeper if you miss him it would be definetly your loss such personality in guys is rare.
Respect him for that, he cares you know what most women complain about that there men don't talk to them!!!
As you said even his working and as soon as the work is finished he remembers you first and you are his priority, don't you think even he would be tired and all but he checks on you and your emotional well being so appreciate it
It's called "giving a shit".
You're probably not used to it, but he probably does care about you and wants to ensure things are OK with you. Especially in these current times.
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You are his priority.
He misses you and would love to be near you if possible.
You can talk on the phone and doze off to sleep, pretty sure he wouldn't mind it.
He'd probably be conditioned to fall asleep the moment you start snoring.
Then boyfriend, soon to be husband was delighted when I randomly texted him that I cannot sleep as I miss his voice late one night last March (Covid, so only hour long video calls daytime twice a week instead of twice a week evening dates). That sparked off our nightly voice calls. It helps that he uses calming voice that lulls me to sleep.
He's day one of reservist today for army. Don't know if I can get my nightly calls for next 9 nights *sighs*
WOW he is a keeper.
You are very lucky to have someone like that.
Im also like that, normally when I do this, it is because I miss him so badly, had a very shitty day and only his voice can make my day better or make me feel better. believe me I'm not bored and definitely have lots to do. this is because he misses you and he is in love with you.
believe me he is already wondering if he is bothering you and maybe even hesitating before calling you. if you dont like it speak to him or cut him lose, there is plenty of people who would appreciate that in a man.
just a quick note: friendly, talkative and caring people tend to do this, just be sure when you ask him to stop, you won't destroy the feelings he has for you, out of experience if I have to stop doing this if it gets to much, I literally need to stop caring for someone and sometimes that can kill the feelings
and no this is not needy, you call it caring for someone
If, He calls every night it means he likes to share the day events with you. For Some men talking to a person, they love a lot for them. Maybe they talk look needy, childish, stupid that depends on their personality.
If He is an introvert then he cants share his feeling with anyone then you in a comfortable way.
Mostly there is no math in understanding just like plain white paper
Lol are you complaining? It's a good sign that he calls you, it means he misses you.
Isn't that what a relationship is supposed to be? Someone you talk, share your day with, why is that a problem? Would you rather he not call you for weeks at a time and only call you when he wants sex?
My boyfriend and I do this. I’m a nurse and when I get off it’s about 8 pm when I get home. I’ll feed my dogs, make dinner for myself and then call him. It’s a “how was your day at work, I miss you call”. To me it’s not abnormal and I look forward to it every night I can’t see him
That's how a relationship should be. He is making you a priority in his life. He honestly cares about you and how your day was. Not many guys do that today. He's a keeper.
Because he cares about you and wants to know how was your day.
I wonder if that's too much if they already see each other in person one or twice a week? I had a girl that would call me as soon as I got off work everyday and honestly calling as soon as a person get off work isn't necessarily the best idea. It's like damn let me get home eat something, take a shower and chill out for a minute.
Because he wants to make sure you're not knocking boots with somebody else that's why. Just be glad you're not looking the front door now get on that train go see him
uhhh because he misses you, he loves you, he loves hearing your voice
It seem that he just likes to talk to you during his free time, sounds innocent enough.
If I did it, it would be, because I loved you and missed you and couldn’t stand not to talk to you everyday.
But...
I’m sure some people do it to checkup on each other, because they’re suspicious or jealous or have reason to be jealous or are paranoid.
He wants to call you every night because he most likely really cares about and misses you.
Yeah, he doesn't seem to have a lot more going on maybe. You should encourage him to get a hobby and do something more in his personal time, that way you can connect less often and have more to talk about. If you talk everyday, it doesn't leave much to say. There's value in the gap between two conversations and doing something truly interesting in your life in the time.
I tried this with a girl I was dating. I was genuinely excited to communicate with her every day, but I wasn’t sure how I was coming across on text messages. I felt more confident on the phone
He likes you, Jesus Christ. If you're not interested or only want him around as a safety net, then just break it off.
He just wants to spend time with you, its not a bad thing.
He wants to check up on you and at the end he wants to say that he loves you as to see if you'll say you love him back and thus proving that you're not with another man at that moment
He likes to communicate with you?
He loves and misses you?
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