Why does my crush run away from me?

[Anonymous]

So my crush who I sent him a pic of me over social media unfriended me out of nowhere. But this weekend I was casually at a bar with friends and he was also there because we are friends with mutual people. I had no idea he would be there. I acted cool and I could tell my crush was at the bar for a while this night, when he saw me literally 15 minutes later he got in his car and left. I know he was having fun at the bar but very soon after he saw me there he was gone. I do believe he left because of me. I never got signals he liked me back obviously from him deleting me off Snapchat and Instagram too. I feel shitty like he wanted to leave his friends almost immediately after he saw me at this bar. Why does my crush hate me?

[RedSauce]

Really? Come on, he really isn’t into you, so much so that he bolts the second he can. It’s possible that you’re coming on too strongly and he is really put off by that.


It doesn’t matter if he is nice to you in a casual setting or if he talks to you online in a pleasant way (or whatever “yeah but” you can think of) because the dude is removing you from his friends lists and leaving the room when you enter; sorry to say but it’s pretty blatant

[RedSauce]

It’s not hate, it’s him being uncomfortable

[spartan55]

Okay, hate is unnecessary drama. He may have left for reasons completely unrelated to you. You certainly shouldn't assume you were the reason unless you ask him (which you won't)

[Anonymous]

maybe he doesn't like you like that or maybe he does and is a coward. you don't need him move on to someone that will reciprocate your feelings

[In_Trance]

Doesn't like you