Can you tell me if I'm being stupid about a dinner argument between me and my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So the other day I was talking to my boyfriend about my mom and he mentioned that he was afraid of her and that he thought she hated him. I told him he was wrong that she actually likes him and I asked him why he thought that, he said it was bc he didn't know her bc we never did a dinner with her and my sis and I. Instead of a dinner bc my we dont do dinner together, I invited him to a small party with my family that way he could just say hi or have a conversation if he chose to, he said he didn't like that interaction and that he would prefer a dinner so I told him it was fine and that we could have a dinner. I asked if he wanted to have dinner at the end of the week and he told me he hadn't had his whole week planned out, he then told me he didn't have an itinerary with things he had to do. I got upset bc I thought that he could add the dinner as something he would have to do, he doesn't have a job at the moment and we dont have school on the weekends, he also lowkey pressured me into dinner with his parents. After getting into an argument and meeting in person to talk I just felt stupid bc he just said that he doesn't know how his week will go. two weeks later and he hasn't even brought up having a dinner with them, am I stupid for being mad?

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I would like to add that we've been dating for a year

[boggboss]

Why would he bring up the finner with them its tour idea I get why your mad because he essentially said there is a issue u tried to fix it and now it seems like he dont want it fixed just confront him and tell him it seems like he dont want it to happen

[boggboss]

That dont really matter to the context off the question u will still need to address this with him

[Asker]

Do you think it means anything if he doesn't want it to happen? I've met his parents, his sister, and the other day his grandparents.

[boggboss]

Its way to early to start guessing at meaning find out why he is reluctant for all we know he could just be scared for it to happen it too early to assume tho

[Maspolomas]

Uhm he seems kinda lazy is that the kind of person you want to take care of you. And as for the dinner tell him your setting it up and if he doesn’t go then he doesn’t like your mom be the boss if he can’t step up