My cousin keeps staring at my chest, how do I deal with this?

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Three days ago, I visited my uncle. I hadn't seen him or his son (who is 16, a year younger than me) in about 6 years. When I walked in and shook my uncle and his wife's hands, I noticed that my cousin was gazing hard at my breasts (E Cup). I glimpsed at him hoping he would stop, but he was still staring at them as if it were the only thing in the room. We sat down and while all the grown-ups were having a chat, they told me, my brother and my cousin to talk about something. My brother noticed that my cousin was staring at my boobs, and started a conversation. The dude could barely talk, he continued staring, and literally wouldn't look at anything else. We've been visiting every few days this summer and it's the same thing all over again. I'm not sure if any of the parents have noticed, but it's making me really uncomfortable. He stopped staring as much the third time we visited, but he was nevertheless still gaping at them most times he could.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

My cousin keeps staring at my chest, how do I deal with this?

MOST teenage males are awash in evolving reproductive heritage hormones...
If you have been 'blessed' with inordinate manifest breast development you will find that the majority of males are vulnerable to fixation upon them, REGARDLESS of familial status.

Subliminally, males evolved to breast development as a visible indicator of potential readiness to behave sexually AND YOUR neural sensitivity to arousal by having your breasts caressed and fondled and suckled.

Such vulnerability mimics the natural phenomena of nursing and the pleasurable stimulation awakens, regardless of the heredity relationship. 'Seduction' is a series of natural processes through linking tactile massage to neuro-pharmacological hormonal release & addiction to Dopamine, Oxytocin and Serotonin. The 30's radio drama 'The Shadow' coined the by-line: "The power to 'cloud' men's minds..." With the pragmatic safeguards against pregnancy, disease and societal exposure... given such safeguards EVERY male in your family would seek sex play; our nearest genetic primate cousin are the Bonobo chimpanzees, with whom we share 98.9% the SAME horny DNA proclivity

Have you observed that despite the hypocritical societal 'slutty' derision of large-breasted females... the majority of both swimwear AND social Prom & 'clubwear' ... seeks to accentuate male attention to "Vive la difference'..." of YOUR anatomy?

'Inspirational' foundation lingerie... little more than bikini's made of satin fabrics... lift and shape your gelatinous breast tissue and SOME even accentuate your nipples! In Hollywood's 'Golden Age' many of the 'it' girls used to strategically ice cube their breasts before their film 'take' in silken gowns to get 'perky' to fire male imaginations.

YOU can't single-handedly change decades of social & societal hypocritical male 'norms' BUT... it IS your birthright, to exploit that unreasoning susceptibility to YOUR opportune agenda. (As MANY notable women DO...)

THEIR attraction BUT... on YOUR terms!

pajamasam · Accepted Answer

So if your 17 then 6 years ago you were 11. You've probably developed a lot since then and he's probably just in shock.

Someone definitely needs to teach him how to have some class about it though much less his cousin like yikes lol.

I remember when I wqs 13 I met a cousin who I had never met before. So it was our first time meeting. And I recall her mom, my aunt who I had also only just met for the first time made a comment to me

"What do you think of your cousin?"

I dunno I replied

"I bet you think she's cute don't you?" I have never felt more icky in my life. Like my aunt, my uncle my cousin my mom dad brother were all standing there watching me and part of me didn't want to say "ew she's yucky" cuz that would be rude but I also didn't want to say "nah she damn fine" cuz that reeks of incest and it's creepy I felt trapped where no answer was the correct answer and I never even answered I just stared in shock and everyone laughed.

Looking back I really wish I would have looked at my aunt and said "why would you even dare to open that can of worms?"

Maybe it could be worth mentioning it to your parents that you feel uncomfortable when he is constantly staring at you. I hope you find a good way to handle this issue.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Talk to your uncle about it, tell your brother about it and talk to your parents about it. Wouldn’t want him to try anything and I suggest NOT sleeping over their house ever.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

I'm just wondering what your next incestuous question is going to be about.

BrookenHeart · Answer

It's actually mostly considered such a taboo thing i. Modern day and especially america , but cousins are not off limits a lot of places i think second gen and third gen is even legal here , . I'm not saying i agree with it or disagree , frankly i don't give a shit what people think about my sex life unless they are having sex with me it's none of their damn business really.. I've found some cousins of mine attractive and would probably consider it if they seemed interested. But being the guy i would never try to initiate anything , but i am not wrong for having the thoughts.. but my sister or mother etc... I just don't even have a thought in my head and couldn't have the thought.. i think that's instincts because that close can cause genetic defects severely

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I think it's wrong to stare at your cousin's breast but I would leave the room when he starts staring with a quick statement saying, Wow people should keep their eyes elsewhere while giving him a quick look in the eyes, I think he needs to be embarrassed?

nawtee_me · Answer

At his age his hormones have kicked in and since the last time he saw you six years ago you grew a bit. This is something he will stop doing as time goes by and he gets used to seeing. It will also be something you can use to embarrass him about as he gets older... lol It is just normal and I would not think anything about it as long as he doesn't make any remarks about them or tries to touch you.

GermanGuy87 · Answer

your family is weird. Earlier you asked a question about sitting on your brothers lap and him getting uncomfortable boners. Right?
now you also have a cousin that stares at your boobs lol XD

I don't believe this

Leavesbound · Answer

He needs to get fixed up with a girlfriend. Probably has never had one and it sounds like his family might be sexually repressed.

Mangospacho · Answer

Someone with a profile picture of their chest complaining that people are always looking at their chest….🤔

Wise4myage · Answer

You should ask your brother to say something to him. Or if that's too awkward, than mention it to either your parents or your Uncle. Do you have to go to his house that often?

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Just tell him or the parents, or yours. I’m guessing there’s a reason you can’t since you already haven’t. What are you, the FNG?

lycanthrope3 · Answer

You have 2 posts, both are about relatives being turned on by you, though you complain, are you sure you don't enjoy

DWornock · Answer

Stop being over-sensitive and ignore it. His looking can't harm you.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

hm, yet you have your profile pic of a cartoons girls, boobs, yourself

berserk945 · Answer

This is normal especially since he hasn't seen you enough. The more he sees you the more he will ignore them.

JustMe62 · Answer

Kick him in the balls and tell him to stop perving you.

Anonymous · Answer

Wait until you are alone in a room with him and then give him a good gut punch and say "Stop staring at my boobs; I'm your cousin you weirdo."

Iron_Man · Answer

Tell him don’t ever do it again

John_Doesnt · Answer

I can't understand the problem without pictures.

Paulychicago10 · Answer

This definitely is a made up story

Yellovv · Answer

Do you have incest fetish?

In_Trance · Answer

cover up your chest

anylolone · Answer

Ignore it.

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