How will you know if a guy isn’t just wanting sex from you? Any cues or signs I should look out for? (Page 2)
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Usually a guy wanting just sex will pressure girls for it so he can enjoy it and move onto other girls. A guy like that will get upset if you want to take it slow.
When he only makes it all about himself and not you if he doesn't take you out he doesn't communicate with you what once was he takes he will never give so don't even go there with those guys
Yes that's the only way you should do it I mean don't even get laid the very first night I mean make him prove it to you that he likes you good relationships are hard to find but once you find him it's beautiful
Some guys will be upfront and tell you that he doesn't want to just yet. He will say let's wait. My husband did when we first met
No sex for at least the first three dates (making out and maybe a handjob is okay on the second date if he makes you cum too)
You’re welcome 😊
If they get super defenseive and have body laugue like they want you to get the fuck away and to leave them alone.
He won't be trying to sleep with you at every opportunity. It'll be pretty obvious.
If it's your third date and he hasn't tried to get you to have sex yet that might be a clue.
I usually wait three months just to make sure he’s not after just sex with me
Never sleep with him. If he sticks around he clearly isn't just interested in sex. Next question!
Just say that you don’t want sex right away and be ambiguous as to when you would want it. I would imagine this would have the fuckboys turning their tails.
Takes the time to get to know you. Conversation is always a priority. Especially if it’s plans getting together in the day time and doing activities together.
If he enjoys every activity he does with you and if he feels comfortable with who you are, that's pretty much it.
Don't use sex as a way to know if a guy really likes you or not. Actions speak louder and at the en of the day: respect, good communication and atraction is what is looked for in a relationship.
If you tell him he's not getting any sex, you will know exactly how he feels about you by his reaction to this information.
That's naive. For men love and sex must come together
@malwins That is absolutely not true. I'm a man, and I can assure you that it is a lie.
@malwins I'm sorry, but, you've clearly never been with the wrong people only in your life. With an opinion like that, it is likely you'll never even meet the right person.
Most guys that just want sex, usually don't stay very often
If a guy dating you for more than 5 months even though you don't have sex with him it means he id interested in you
If he doesn't buy you dinner first or afterward those are probably could signs that all he wants is to fuk
Start dating him before having sex. Or some sort of commitment.
If he starts talking about sex, say you're not interested. If he wants only sex then he'll leave
Don’t give it up and if he sticks around y’all know that he likes you
Be patient, not all men/women only want sex. There are many who only want another trophy to brag about.