... You don't want your friends to dislike a guy who offends them. Ok, they dislike him for a reason. I'm not saying he's a bad guy or that you need to dump him, but you need to be aware it is not their job to like someone just because you do. If he's rude or offensive to them, they have every right to dislike him. It's great that he doesn't treat you that way, but that doesn't mean your friends have to put up with getting the scalding treatment on your behalf.
If your boyfriend and your friends don't get along because your boyfriend can't be civil, then your boyfriend and your friends should not hang out. That may make life more difficult for you, but you're the reason why they have to see each other in the first place. Your friends are getting nothing out of your relationship with him except hurt.
The best option is to talk to your boyfriend and see if he's willing to improve his behavior. If it's something as simple as 'He doesn't realize he's crossed a line', that can be worked on. You have to be honest with him when you're out with friends and say 'Hon, that wasn't appropriate.' If he's working on changing, he'll apologize, but if he's much happier being the sharp tongue person he is now, he'll brush you off and be unapologetic.
Either way, it's your choices that are getting people hurt here. That means that it's your choice to fix the issue, not theirs.
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You can't force your friends to like him. There's always going to be someone that you never click with, however, if they're your friends they'll accept him because you like/love him.
At the end of the day, real friends want you to be happy and if you happiness means being with someone they don't personally like, they'll learn to cope with it. After all, no one can ever really know what goes on between two people.
If they ask why your with him or whatever, just say "He makes me laugh and happy."
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