Why has he removed me off Snapchat but still follow me on insta?

[Bratz1109]

This guy and me have been talking for 3 month straight. We got close and stuff. So we had a little argument and cause I started overreacting and telling him how I don’t wanna see him anymore cause he’s playing games. He then got offended and said how I doesn’t he wanna see me if he’s given me a date (he was being a little blunt with slow replies, which is why I got annoyed) so cut it short I admitted I overreacted and said I still wanna see him still! He then argues I’m I always gonna change my mind? And I didn’t respond until it was morning and saw he removed me off snap! I was quite shocked. I went on insta and asked why he did that? He then said cause “look how u acted yesterday! Went in a mood and said u don’t wanna see me like wtf.” Then I said I’m sorry and how I didn’t mean it. And he was like nah u pissed me off can’t lie. So I left it and gave him space (he didn’t unfollow me on insta still) still watching my story. So two weeks later I texted him “how’s you?” He replied quickly “good thanks you?” So I said “not too bad feel like I ain’t spoke to u in ages.” I replied 2 hours late as I was at work. So he never opened that message! But still follows me and watches my story! I know how attracted he is to me tho as he keeps on complamenting me everyone I post a pic so I don't know if he’s ready to cut me off completely or need more space!

[Massageman]

The expectation in the early days of internet messaging was that the message would be there- it wouldn't go away- until the recipient had a chance to read/respond to the message.

In keeping with our "instant society", many people now just about panic if their messages aren't answered within a minute. It helps to know the patterns of the receiver (people know that they can get me quite late into the night and even into the next morning, for example).

Give it some time and DO try to broach the subject when an opportunity to do so opens up to you.

[he-takes-a-part]

Honey all i could say to you is that he hasn’t shown any sign of re-liking as per your post info
To him you are good but not the best or worth it and he thinks may be if you can improve

Also he hasn’t shown any great dislike towards you but
He does have an apprehension of your changing the poles behaviour mostly guys don’t like confused girls.
Seems like he has already dealt with such kind of behaviours in past and had bad experience and left, so no more the same mistake.
Only following somewhere someplace doesn’t mean liking
Nothing like a relationship in the making can be seen.
But this guy will never look for you as a serious partner
Never
Rest is history.
Make sure you don’t take these precious opinions for free especially when inviting.

[MiriamDoremi]

He removed you out of snapchat because he just doesn't want be your friend and if he doesn't like your post on Instagram it means that he just wants to know how you're doing but it's a toxic friendship, you should let him go. He is not worth your drama.

[dezzydoodles]

he's immature just ignore him clearly he doesn't wanna see u on social media so if you see him in public laugh uncontrollably and act like you're having the time of your life show him you dont need him or his drama and you'll move on as well

[dezzman98]

Were you arguing ON Snapchat when the fight happened? That could be why. A lot of the time someone has a fight and removed the other people from the thing they initially were fighting on not only to stop talking for a bit, but also to get rid of the conversation history

[K-I-S-S]

He doesn't sound like a philosopher, so i don't think he needs more time for deep thoughts.

You both are young, but also pretty immature acting for your ages.

If you like him, then dm him to either man up and take you out or whatever you youngsters do these days. Or quit wasting both of "our" time.

[dillbill561]

He got upset and most likely doesn’t want to lose you but it is a good thing to draw boundaries. Try to have 10 positive experiences together for every negative one. Be careful getting in relationship with a narcissist try to think about what you got mad over and if it was wrong. You could be apologizing for his mistakes, narcissists are also very sensitive to criticism and that is they key trait.

[william222]

Relationships are all about communication weather friendship or love if he doesn't reply to your messages try calling him explain things to him let him know you are a working lady so he doesn't see it as a big deal when you don't reply and you in particular need to Lear how to communicate more cus snubbing ain't gonna solve nothing

[OlderAndWiser]

This all sounds like high drama and playing games instead of sincere and candid communications. Understand everything he is doing as something done to have an effect on you rather than being a true expression of how he feels about you.

[Jazquee]

I thought it was 4 months? You ever answered my question. Is he older than u
.. how do you not wanna see him anymore if you never met.. does he live in same city
He probably took you off the app he uses most. aybe not on Instagram very much

[Vietnemin]

This story sounds ridiculous to me sorry I don't even know what Snapchat and Instagram is and why they're different. Nor do I care. I say just talk to him in person or whatever this is so dumb.

[ThoughtfulSoul]

Following from what you've shared, he looks quite moody and immature. Give him some space I guess; both of you've got your feelings all over the place.

[BlacklightShade]

Maybe he doesn’t want some of his followers to know about you.

[pleasestopthis]

Guys don't like it when you overreact over nothihng and play games with them. Behave like a grownup and learn your lesson

[Shy_Steve]

I would of thought that would be pretty odvious.
You offended him, How would you feel if he offended you?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

[Abdulwahh]

Slow replies annoy me too but certainly he still has some connection to you but did you ask him why he gave slow replies maybe something bothering him but if there's doubt leave him

[FalconTakanashi]

I hate to generalise, but he sounds like an Incel to me.

[nawtee_me]

so you can not see what he is doing or saying on snapchat...

[Adam_West]

I said we cannot fuckin know his deep thoughts

[Liber8CopWatch]

Sounds like he is immature as fuck honestly

[Erron_Black]

he doesn't care about you for arguing

[msc545]

ask him

[NibirX]

Need some place