He invited me to a party weeks ago am I still invited?

[WinCx3d]

I met a guy in July and he invited me to his party on August 4th. He kept telling me i better come and he wants me there. His party is this Saturday he’s still having his party but he hasn’t said anything else about me coming. Am i still invited? If he hasn’t mentioned anything else about me coming

[Screenwriter]

The question would be, if you were regularly talking to this guy. If you weren't, then I suspect the invitation wasn't still open.

Sometimes people throw out invitations in the flush of just meeting someone but, after knowing you some time, they aren't comfortable about saying no. YET, they don't want to rescind an invitation because, who does that?

I would take a cue from the fact that he hadn't mentioned it again. If the invite was still open and he wanted you there, he'd ask where you were and what happened...

Since this is a new person, you can't possibly know their style. You've only known him a few weeks. Err on the conservative side.

If you didn't hear from him about your attending and he never mentioned it, since Aug 4 is long past, it clearly didn't matter. I don't think this is a cancel on his part about you in general. He might've changed his mind, thinking it was too early.

If you're still having a good time with this guy, keep on with that. There's plenty of time to go to parties with him. You invite HIM to a party and see how that develops.

[WinCx3d]

His party is August 28th. He invited me August 4th. We still talk regularly

[Screenwriter]

OK, then, I change my opinion. Maybe he's a "one and done" person. Ask him if the invite is still open. You WILL attend and you want to get a new outfit, haircut... so you have to plan for this! That'll probably excite the heck out of him!! GOOD LUCK!

[jennifer_bloom]

I think your still invited, tell him you won’t come without a formal invitation days in advance because you don’t want to be rude and want to have clothes and pot luck food prepared for the event and also be able to free up your schedule by reserving the time slot, if your not sure your invited, give him a graceful deadline to invite you officially to the party after which you will decline all invitations, maybe say you will catch up with a certain female friend if he doesn’t get back to you by a certain day.

[Interstate]

He has pretty much made it viably clear he wants you there. He hasn't said anything to the contrary, so I'd say get out there and party it up... that's what she said. by the way, if it was August 4th, you are WAYYY too late. I'm hoping you meant to say September.

[MotorcycleMan]

Yes, I would consider myself still invited unless you hear otherwise, but it's not a bad idea to confirm close to the date. You could call on the pretext of asking another question. Is the party still on? Do I need to bring anything? What type of attire?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. August 4 has come and gone.

2. Assuming that date was wrong. . . did he invite you just to attend or to be his date for the party? If he invited you to be his date, I would have expected more talk sine the initial invitation. If he simply invited you to attend as a guest, I would assume that you are still invited.

[WinCx3d]

He invited me the 24th. And it’s know so a house party. He told me that he really wanted me there

[Browneye57]

CALL the man honey. "Hey so-n-so, are we still on for Saturday?"
Or a quick text with something similar.

Why are you so reticent to touch base with someone you find interesting, had some sort of connection with? What are we missing here?

[midnightmoon05]

Here…
his ex is invited…

My boyfriend invited his ex to his party?

[Livewire3]

Yes! Unless he disinvites you. I would only not go if something had dramatically changed, ie. Breakup, death, you ran him over ;) ... all reasons not to go on a personal level. Please don't run people over, that was a humorous example.

[Ousaf1]

Sorry but this is kinda stupid, he already invited you so ofc you are still invited. The only way for you to not be is if he actually told you not to come anymore but he didn't.

[Novacane]

I mean you could ask him if you are still invited? especially if you are planning to go, if you are not then why bother knowing. but yeah just ask, nothing wrong with it.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

Unless he has said otherwise I'd assume so, are y'all still talking? If so, then I'd say likely but you can always ask him in a round about way maybe ask if there is something you could bring?

[Let_me_think]

If he didn't uninvite you, you are still invited. Just because you don't talk about something being your favorite all the time doesn't mean it stops being your favorite

[Massageman]

Some people will verify- some won't. He didn't, but the invite still stands.

It's a house party - bring a box of candy, a bottle of wine/sangria/champagne, or some flowers to the host/hostess of the party.

[serious]

Well if he hasn't texted you or called you to ask if you are coming then it is automatic indication that the invite is cancelled for you

[Anon621]

It sounds like he wants you there but I think you have the incorrect date since this upcoming Saturday is August 28th

[Jake99999]

Of course you are still invited. He invited you. He emphasized that he wants to see you there. He is assuming you are coming.

[Starrisunset]

I'd say you're still invited. Maybe he just doesn't want to come off as pushy. If he was so persistent from the beginning I'd say he wants you there.

[Savage_Wisdom]

Unless he's specifically told you not to come, just assume you're still invited. If you're unsure, just ask him.

[greyislife]

Was Aug 4th the last time he mentioned his party? Also have you guys still talked since then?

[WinCx3d]

We talk everyday and no he mentions his party at least once a week

[greyislife]

Okay then yes you’re definitely still invited. If you feel uncertain maybe mention something about you deciding what to wear on Saturday and ask for his opinion.

[WinCx3d]

I mean he mentions his party he doesn’t mention me going anymore

[greyislife]

Well when he first said he wants you there did you say you would be there?

[WinCx3d]

Yes i did

[WinCx3d]

I aisles him where it was going to be and he said i better be there

[greyislife]

Normally once invited people don’t uninvite someone otherwise he wouldn’t mention the party to you anymore. If he’s throwing it himself he could just be stressed about the planning.

[WinCx3d]

He doesn’t mention it unless i ask. But last week he told me to invite my mom

[greyislife]

That’s a really good sign then if he asked you to invite your mom, I wouldn’t worry if I were you 😊

[Flower7]

Yes, still invited. And it sounds like he really wants you to come.

[WinCx3d]

You think so? He hasn’t mentioned me coming anymore

[Flower7]

Usually, people don't invite the same person to an event more than one time.

[NicoletteXO]

August 4 was weeks ago and you just posted this. I don't get it.

[ohshee]

Well yes you're still invited to something he can't tell you something and then not do it

[AngelMegumin]

Yes, you are. Don't doubt, come and have a good time there.

[Finchie40]

Just ask him , just say hey is that party still happening this weekend

[exitseven]

He did not uninvite you. I would go if you still want to.

[WinCx3d]

But he hasn’t really said anything else about it either?

[exitseven]

So, once I get invited, unless I hear otherwise I show up. If you still want to go, you should go. It will be fun.

[he-takes-a-part]

You are 25. Your questions seems you are 18. Seems you remain alone most of the time and with less number of trustable friends. If he has invited just go

[Fireguy17]

you could contact him to ask for a claification on the time, or if you should bring anything.

[PoliteSpeaker]

Actually I talked to him and he said no you're not invented anymore. Sorry.

[Starman5]

Yes, you are still invited. but I don't think he will be very interested in you when you go to the invitation

[WinCx3d]

Why do you say that

[Starman5]

I do not know. The reason is a little confusing. I still suggest you go to the party. but be prepared for anything

[Scotte1us]

Well just knock the door or call , if he found another girl , who cares have fun , there are lots of other guys for you.

[Waldoe]

YES you are still invited, do not expect an invitation every week. day. month. hour... he has already told you MANY TIMES

[zagor]

Yes; invitations don't need to be updated unless the event changes in some way.

[DWornock]

How many invitations do you need. If you are so insecure that you need constant reminders, don't go.

[Tunasub]

Show up! He didn't say you were uninvited... right?

[Zygum]

He thought, May you are not willing to attend, so he ignored you, now if you really love him, then you go

[BeachLuvR97]

In theory, yes, but Millennials are nuts and don't keep dates.

[ManHater]

probably wanted 25 guys and one girl to get all drunk and wasted just to rape her.

[TheAfrikan]

An Invitation is an invitation no need for another invitation since it still stands.

[lovesummerA7]

What’s the difference - shallow perverts are a dime a dozen. You’re not missing out on anything

[thatonesillyguy]

Yes, he probably is trying not to bug you and annoy you.

[spartan55]

Considering it's August 24th I think you missed it

[WinCx3d]

He invited me August 4th the party is the 28th

[spartan55]

Okay, you didn't say when it was. Nbd.
Okay, why would you not be invited now? Was something said? Argument?

[WinCx3d]

We had an argument a week ago. We’re fine now though

[spartan55]

Oookay, I'm still not understanding why you think you aren't invited now?

[Bluemax]

Go and have a good time.

[Ninani]

Here's a fun suggestion: ask him!

[SphynxUK]

You were invited. Go, or don’t.

[NathanDavis]

yes you are, and he'll want you there...

[karaspara]

Are you still in contact with him?

[WinCx3d]

Yes i am

[karaspara]

Then unless he has said otherwise you are invited

[DonkeyDan]

I don't see why you wouldn't be.

[JosyJosy]

Just ask him if the party's still going through.

[WinCx3d]

He told me last week to tell my mom to come to the party

[JosyJosy]

doesn't matter, if you have doubts, ask him if it's going through still

[JosyJosy]

or at least ask what hour everyone's expected

[humanearth]

Aug 4th past its now Aug 25

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would contact him and see what he says

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, you're still invited. Don't worry. :)

[innerman]

I think you missed the party...

[WinCx3d]

The party is the 28th

[innerman]

Call him.. ask him the adress. his answer will help you know if you still invited

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

I’d say try to reach out to him to confirm!

[eagle1951]

August 4th? it's already August 24th here

[WinCx3d]

He invited me on August 4th his party is August 28th

[Relux47]

“You better come and he wants you there” 🎤⬇️

[najekim]

Unless told otherwise, you're still invited.

[Shy_Steve]

Your better off to just ask him.

[Pterodon]

Go anyway but bring a date

[OddBeMe]

Yes. Just go. Watch your drink tho.

[Jerre]

Yes, I would still go.

[Calgarydirty69]

of course you're a girl

[ALewis30]

Maybe. You could try asking him.

[ShyGuy201]

Your still invited.

[sullyk1234]

yes go and have fun