Matched with a guy on tinder who is known to be a player. But he told me he’s looking for something serious/a girlfriend, do I believe him?

[Anonymous]

When I say known to be a player I say this because I’ve heard things through mutual friends. He doesn’t know of me until we matched but I had heard of him from friends before. We matched on tinder and I asked him what he’s looking for and he asked me what the right answer is/he’s open to whatever and it it becomes more serious then something serious. When I said I was looking for something serious, someone to do things with, etc he said oh good, I wanted to say that too and want that but I didn’t know if it was too forward. Followed by “I am tired of being single :( “ He’s been single for a couple years last I heard otherwise he just sleeps around normally. Should I trust him?

[Andres77]

Are you looking to invest in a sure thing?
Send me your personal details and bank information and I'll hook you up... honest... seriously... for real...

Do you trust me enough yet or do I have to lie some more?

A relationship off of tinder is like... like... well it's just really foolish, that's all...🤨

[Asker]

This made me laugh

[Andres77]

Don't put your heart out there for lazy guys that won't make the effort.
I don't want anyone to get hurt.
If it's worth it he'll make it happen. If you don't want it yoy you don't have to.
Keep smiling

[VikingWarLord]

He probably thinks he's over playing the field, but I'm also a player and I know I could never settle for only ONE bitch, when I know I can always get hot ones any time I want. He's most likely the same, but trying out another technique to get in your pannties.

[Asker]

So you’re gonna be single for life?

[Anonymous]

He is both whore and liar and i can’t imagine these types of guys will ever change it is their character.

[malwins]

Well players also have actual main girlfriends isn’t that so

[Asker]

That they’re cheating on?

[spartan55]

You are relying on second hand information about someone which for me is unreliable AT BEST. Flat out wrong at the worst. Find out on your own what the guy is all about. I assume you haven't even met him yet?

[Asker]

Well not exactly.. he broke one of a friend of a friend’s heart because he saw her and fucked got a bit but when she wanted more he bailed

[spartan55]

That's one side of the story though. Do what you want.

[MrNamara]

You don't need to believe, just see if it goes well

[Asker]

But he could lie and play me?

[MrNamara]

Well it shouldn't take much time for him to reveal his real self if it was his goal. Enjoy while it lasted

[Anonymous]

A good way to find out if don't give him sex

[Asker]

Like for a month or what

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I would say a month minimum