I told my husband his penis was small after he insulted me twice. How do I mend this situation? (Page 2)

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Yesterday morning I walked out of our room and gave my husband a big good morning hug. He grabbed my butt and told me I needed to do some squats. I quickly replied that wasn’t a nice thing to say and that no woman wants to hear that. My husband is a former professional athlete and it is impossible for to keep up with him. I am in good shape but not where I want to be so he knows I am insecure about it. We go along about our day and again in the afternoon he tells me that I need to workout and do some squats at this point I was pissed and told him his penis was small. He immediately got pissed and told me I crossed the line and not to talk to him the rest of the day. I apologized very sincerely and explained it was a reaction to his words and I don’t in fact feel that way. He finally seemed like he got over it until bed time he got mad again and brought up he was already insecure about it. We have been married for 11 years and have 2 kids I never knew he was insecure about it. I feel like he is overly making me pay for this considering he threw the first punch. His reasoning was that I should have taken his comment positively and as motivation haha yeah ok. This morning he left for work and stop sharing his location with me which I never looked at it anyway and has also blocked my phone number. I feel like he is being very immature about this and he has a history of stone walling over small arguments. How do I mend this situation? I don’t deal well with conflict and have been a mess all day about it.

DudeFromZ · Answer

He lowkey asked for it😂
But give it a little time talk about it and take charge in the room that night...
Remind him that it's been 11 years and if you really felt that it was like that he'd have known already...

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing to mend, you're both insecure and need to grow up. Hearing that in my head I envisioned 2 children hurling insults at eachother.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

If he's offended because of that then shame on him. He needs to grow up. 🙄

Anonymous · Answer

He gave u constructive advice and u took it as an insult you purely insulted him. Nothing a man can do to make penis bigger.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him you loved him enough to marry his tiny penis

Anonymous · Answer

sounds like you know you need to do some squats

Luckycharms12 · Answer

So does have small dick

Clarke498 · Answer

Nah i think it's fair

Yaharro · Answer

That's rough

Wise4myage · Answer

Find a new penis.

In_Trance · Answer

You don't

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