I met this guy online and we have met personally we both are attracted to each other and already have intimacy. He talks to me everyday and is constantly saying he likes me despite not making real clear yet if he wants something serious. This week he went on a 2 week vacation and since he got to his hometown he hasn't contacted me yet. All he does is watching my stories and liking me pictures... I know I can't expect much cause we don't have a relationship but at the same time I'm afraid that I'm going to get hurt cause he might be just using me and I want a relationship. I can't demand him anything but it's confusing me how does he contacts me everyday and now that he is completely free he is not doing that... Opinions pls thanks
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So he ghosted you? I say forget about him and move on.13
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And that's the problem with the internet! This is a case study all its own about what the internet does to people. You were\ are in a fake situation, but it's causing real feelings. Unless you met him in person and spent even a little time with him, you can assume everything online is a facade.
People only show you what they want you to see, on the internet. That's why you cannot make a real connection. But it damn sure feels real, doesn't it?
Just let it go. I know, easier said than done, but move on. Don't let a facade cripple you in the real world. The feelings are real, they will take a few days to get over, but you will get over it faster than you think and you know in your head it's not real, it's just a matter of getting your heart to follow along.
After that, get more cynical about the internet. You can meet and greet online, but don't put much effort in unless you can materialize it in the real world. You don't know people. You especially cannot know them if they can control access to themselves.
Cut the cord, mourn for a couple of days and move on and be happy.